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This has been bothering me for a while now

Tellzz November 26, 2015 5:39 pm

In every yaoi manga I've read where they're sexually abused by the (step)father, the mother always blames the kid. "Don't come onto my man!" Uhm...I can't help but wonder if it happens in real life. If it were me, I would've killed/badly injure the man hurting my son. What's your opinion?

Responses
    nickname November 26, 2015 5:51 pm

    yes, it happen in real life somewhere far or near from us.

    me too, almost hate my-weak-self who always don't know what to do, to change or save someone from something like that.

    Anonymous November 26, 2015 8:16 pm

    Yes, it happens in real life too. For some women the reality of their husband being the one at fault is too terrible to bear, so they stay in denial about it and put the blame on the kid instead. Or, if the husband is a violent/abusive person in general, the wife may be too worried about her safety/the family's safety to confront the husband, get the police involved, etc. and decides it's better to ignore the problem. I would want to hurt anyone who'd hurt my son in such a way too but in some situations it's just too risky. There are some really crazy abusive husbands out there.

    Roansia November 26, 2015 9:13 pm

    I know that I sound terrible right now but... Can you tell me some of those mangas please XD

    Tellzz November 27, 2015 7:23 am
    yes, it happen in real life somewhere far or near from us. me too, almost hate my-weak-self who always don't know what to do, to change or save someone from something like that. nickname

    It's so sad! I mean, thinking that they could be right next door being sexually assaulted and not even knowing about it, is unbearable. And having a mother like that...

    Tellzz November 27, 2015 7:27 am
    Yes, it happens in real life too. For some women the reality of their husband being the one at fault is too terrible to bear, so they stay in denial about it and put the blame on the kid instead. Or, if the hus... @Anonymous

    I understand. And I agree with you. I guess it depends on the personality of the mother as well. It really is so heart wrenching. I might sound SO naïve or innocent or whatever right now, but why does such an awful thing like violence exist? It's really too sad.

    Tellzz November 27, 2015 7:31 am
    I know that I sound terrible right now but... Can you tell me some of those mangas please XD Roansia

    There's a few. I was reading Aiso Tsukashi when I thought of this. I'll add more manga when I think of them!

    nickname November 27, 2015 10:05 am
    It's so sad! I mean, thinking that they could be right next door being sexually assaulted and not even knowing about it, is unbearable. And having a mother like that... Tellzz

    it's more than sad when that happens in front of me, but let's not talk a lot about what bad things that's happened. finding an efective solution is more important matter for me,