it might be first few times until you get used to it, it depends on the body.
after that, if done right it shouldn't hurt of course, i mean, women like having sex, it's not only about men's pleasure (unless you like it to hurt ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Gawd you make me blush ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
omg I hate pain.then I am choosing to skip sex from my entire life.
omg, there are too much kids here lol
no, it doesn't hurt that bad. as other anon said, women wouldn't been having sex if it's bad for them.
But I think in real life sex is an ugly thing.its only good in comic book or in movie.practical life I m not sure whether it's good or bad.but still it's an ugly thing
N I m a very careerist person so sex is not my cup of tea though !
a person that tried it is trying to tell you that sex is not ugly thing lmao xD
sex can be wonderful both on physical and emotional level, and you should not compare it to comics and movies (nor rl porn)
and the fact that you are career oriented doesn't mean that sex is not for you, people are mostly having sex for pleasure
but you sound pretty young to me, so i'm just take your time, and discover for yourself what will sex mean to you and how do you feel about it. it's ok whatever you end up thinking, but you shouldn't have misconceptions about it :D
Still sex is an ugly thing n waste of time as well energy.
... It is a big lie. I know some people saying sex is an ugly thing... and if they can say that kind of thing, it's because they really had bad experiences... like rape... or because they just hate their own body. (=it's so sad.) So i don't know your life... but let me say this: when you're doing it because you really want to and doing it how you (yourself and your partner) really want to, it's very good. Yeah first time can be painful, but if you do it with someone gentle, comprehensive... and if you haven't any body "disease"... don't worry, it would be painful but not too much x) And after first time, normally, of course if you do it with someone you want and when you want, etc... it will feel very good. And when it's with your lover... seriously, it can be wonderful :')
I know some people who don't want to have sex, but not because they think it's "ugly", just because they don't feel the need. Maybe you're like that... so if that the case, alright, i have nothing to say. But no, in any case, please, don't say something like "sex is ugly" because it's just a big lie.
(i mean, even my great aunt who was a none and a virgin never thought that her niece was doing ugly things with her lover when they're having sex x) ; and you have to know that even if mangas are fictions, fiction is inspired by reality, especially josei.)
this comment made me laugh x'D
it's far from wasting time and energy, actually it's pretty healthy, physically and mentally. you can google it. i was surprised by some benefits it has besides just physical pleasure. people are not crazy for doing it, trust me XD
but it's better to think like this about sex if you are really young than to be one of those 14 yo kids that tried everything. with too many people (〜￣△￣)〜
not really, in fact is really good. I don't understand why they put sex as paniful in this manga, like if she spends 2 months without it and it would hurt her, that's not how it happens anyway. Not even the first time should hurt, it does if youre nervous or not wet enough, what could explain why the mc feels so much pain is that her stupid husband was too impatient, in real life you can tell your sex partner to slow down or stop if you feel any pain. In short sex is good, not ugly nor painful. You should do it all the time, is good for your health :D
Sex is not like in the mangas, movies, tv shows or porns is really diferent and its even better, but you know judging from your point of view I could tell your pretty young so thats how you fell about sex, trust me you gonna change your opinion
One super quick question please..
Is sex painful?