Nope - just means (probably) that you enjoy those stories - personally I hate most shoujo because it has weak characters and inane plots (the ones that I read - so those who love it don't jump on me!) I find that yaoi has better stories for the most part, with stronger characters.
I never thought someone would answer, thank you!
To tell you the truth, I honestly don't know if I fell attracted to real life men. If I see a beautiful guy on the street, I think "Man, he is gourgeous!" but I don't feel like making out with him. But I don't feel like making out with beautiful real life women too... I'm a mess, really!
Sorry, tokidoki, I didn't saw your answer (sometimes, mangago hates me! LOL).
Yeah, the shoujos I read was all the same thing, yaoi has a lot more different things in the story.
here is my philosophy: if you haven't jerked off to it, you're probably not that into it
Hum, I never thought that way, but to "it" you mean yaoi or real men?
I'm talking about having sex with a real guy, either being the top or the bottom, liking penises and such (⌒▽⌒)
No, I never had interest in real guy, I've haven't even watch gay porn.
Perhaps you're asexual or demisexual? Judging from your other comments, I don't think you're gay. One thing I'm sure of though, you're a true blue fudanshi XD
Maybe I'm demisexual, I already thought about this but I'm not really sure. But I'm sure I'm fudanshi. LOL.
Thanks for the help.
Why do you feel guilty? Just be whatever you want to be! Even if it's gay, bi, or hetero... It's your decision to choose!
And I don't think guys who like to read yaoi and shounen ai means they're gay or bi.... Maybe it just means that they accept the existence of lgbt more than ordinary people does.....
It's good~!
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You can absolutely like yaoi and not be gay, I'm as straight as a ruler and sometimes I see a girl and think "damn, she's hot" or "wow she's so cute >.<" but I don't think I could imagine kissing her.
There are some actresses or television movies that would make me say "I'd be gay for her" but tbh I would still prefer men.
Anyway, you don't have to be gay to like yaoi. And even if you are, kudos to you man. Also, it's completely normal to still be trying to figure out if you are attracted to someone of your own gender, I have a friend who's confused as well but whatever.
Just enjoy reading your yaoi. Happy readings.
Well, technically, yaoi aren't really gay stories. They're written for a primarily hetero audience, so one character is usually "coded" as as stand in for the opposite sex. The theory is that this allows a way in for the female reader to read about and think about sex without gender baggage. So why shouldn't it work the other way around for you?
just enjoy your life, you will find out about your sexuality eventually.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/fudanshi_koukou_seikatsu/ i think this is the manga for you :D
you can be straight but still like yaoi/shounen-ai... i think the word fudanshi could apply to you haha ;)
Hm, so this is going to sound really weird, but I need advice. I'm guy and I like yaoi and shounen ai. I never fully enjoyed the sex scenes because I feel kinda guilty, but I yaoi is my favorite genre to the point I started to ship yaoi in shounen and even shoujo. I'm talkin too much, but I want to know if you think that liking yaoi makes me gay or bi. Please help me!