That's true, but you look at K dramas, there's an entire basic premise dependent on little or no communication between as a way to prolong angst. Why? Who knows. But it's entertaining as hell in the meantime.
that's why i said either he's homophobic or he pretends to be. & i'm not saying that i don't know why jinha is so desperate. What i am saying is he can't expect Siwon to just fall into his arms and start a romantic relationship when its clear that 1) siwon didnt recognize him and 2) confessing his love when siwon is drunk. Not because a story is fiction doesnt mean all common sense goes out the window.
That's what I'm thinking this whole time. I mean it is also a fact that Siwon makes use of a lot of poor arguments against Jinha (I mean it feels as if 2/3 of it were just homophobia instead of what really what really is a crime) making him a fairly unpleasant character too (in my eyes). But I fully agree with you.
But more than once Siwon had tried to talk to Jinha to find out what was going on when they had those shared dreams but instead on rationally speaking to Siwon, he's too pissed that Siwon forgot about him and the kiss. Just making things worse for the both of them, when its pretty obvious that Siwon genuinely does not have a clue what's going on. Siwon was lashing out at Jinha in the beginning, because he's scared and confused. If I were him, I would be too. All of it is unnecessary drama that could have been prevented if Jinha would drop the attitude and tell Siwon whats up because he clearly knows something he's not telling Siwon. Eg that blue stone
You know I like this series but I do have some issues with the storyline. Jinha is his own worst enemy. Siwon was drunk at a party & Jinha got it in his head that it was good idea to confess to a drunken Siwon. Whether Siwon kissed him first or the other way around really doesn’t matter because the fact of the matter is, Siwon wasn’t in full possession of all his faculties at the time of said incident. So the fact that Siwon couldn’t remember the incident really shouldn’t surprise Jinha. & Siwon had every right to be pissed when he found out that Jinha kissed him when he didn’t know what he was doing. If Jinha had the common sense to have a proper conversation with Siwon when he was sober then this whole mess would have been resolved a long time ago.
Unfortunately Jinha seems to have this romantic notion in his head that Siwon would have recognized him and they would be together from now on even though they havent seen each other in many years & Jinha’s personality is completely different from how he was as a kid. But Jinha is so desperate to be with Siwon that he’s getting impatient & trying to force the situation to go his way. He can’t do that! Especially since he knows that Siwon is homophobic or at least that’s what he pretends to be. So he gets angry when Siwon doesn’t respond in the way he would like when he tries to kiss him & I’m here thinking, “what did you expect?”.
If Jinha had taken the time to woo Siwon first & later confess his love when sober then I would totally get why he would be angry if Siwon just started ignoring him. But at the end of the day if Jinha realizes that Siwon isn’t gonna return his feelings because of his homophobic attitude then Jinha should simply let Siwon go & try to move on. This whole thing is getting out of hand simply because Jinha & Siwon can’t have a proper conversation like adults.