Why would anyone want to listen to someone who had just been badmouthing someone else behind their backs? I wouldn't.... Hmmmm....
Well, the friend should have led with the way the last BF was supposedly treated instead of focusing on the gay part--but I would listen and then look to see if the person being talked about acted that way. Starting off with the gay issue makes it all seem trivial.
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hmm you see I think every person would have different reaction to that and that is fine, and as I said what matter is not about the hate towards sunbae being gay, what I'm focusing here is that it would have been better for him to listen to the whole story first, after that he can draw his own conclusion about how he would interact with sunbae. I think there's no harm to it.
That's why you should listen when your friend tell you something not about the hate of sunbae is a gay but you need to listen to the whole story then draw conclusion..again when someone telling you to get a coffee and ask you to listen just sit, sip your coffee and listen for God's sake..you see son mommy can't always help you we are in a different world ┗( T﹏T )┛