but is it normal for most mothers to call their child useless and lazy every morning? Like...

Hugs for you. I'm so sorry she says those things to you. No, that's not normal. You don't deserve that at all. Is she just extremely not a morning person? Have you tried talking to her about it during the day when she is fine?

my mom does this to me too i was studying so hard and also doing a part-time job to pay for my stuff so i dont have to ask my parents for money and i do chores in my house too , so like i said i studied hard bc i had to do a test to enter a private school the test was sooo hard from 300 students only 60 were accepted and i was one of them but my mom always says to me "meh.u coulve done better" im used to that now :) so dont be sad cus ur not the only one my mom complains all the time too

sorry for my bad english :)

aaa thank you. I haven't tried talking with her about it during the day, I feel a bit intimidated to do so, and we just don't bring it up again. She has vented to me before about how each morning she wakes up feeling as though she'd rather not be alive, so it could be that affects her strongly around that time as well, and she ends up taking her anger out on me or something. I almost think we both could use some therapy, but I'm scared if I tell her that she'll feel insulted. ;;

Ummm every mother has their own way. Some may think this normal but all i can say is ...only u can control to the things u listen or not. U can listen to it but that does not mean u have to let it effect u. Mabye talk to her and tell her that enough is enough. She is human too and should understand. Honestly though the only person who will ever really critisize u for ur own good is your own mother. she may not be right, but i guess listen and filter it out :) take the critism that make sense and delete the rest. Not gonna be easy but i really dont think she hates u. after all she risk her life to give birth to u and raised u up with alot of effort :)

Ah wow, that definitely sounds very similar to my mom. Anytime I feel somewhat proud of something I've accomplished, she never praises me for it, and only tells me that I could've done better. Thank you for sharing, I hope both of our problems go away eventually. qq;

That's true, I'm hesitant to call her out for it, but I do think I should stop letting it bring me down. It's just difficult, haha. ;u;

So this is gonna sound crazy but I think your mother just has a terrible morning mood. I have a morning mood too and I'm not a pleasant person, some people can have it even worse I guess.
Just avoid your mother at all cost in the morning and try not to take it personally although that is very hard.
When I think about myself, sometimes I say stuff I don't mean in the mornings or I pick a fight, I know it's not good and I try to not do that. Don't judge me.

For starters, if she is in that terrible of a mood in the morning, she should just not talk to anyone until her mood passes.

Sounds a lot like my mom, expect she's like that all the time. xD
No it's not normal she really might be a terrible morning person. Or if I were to be extreme.... narcissistic, but that's probably not the case I hope.
What I did to help myself was regular meditation, because usually when my mother explodes I never said anything back and I'd just take it all cause I didn't want to say something that would hurt the both of us.
So deep breathing meditation helped a lot with not letting it bring me down. Though its your personal choice if you want to do that.

Well all I can say is this is NOT your fault. She has her own inner conflicts and she's taking it out on you. Don't blame yourself

Nobody gives a shit about your i-want-attention-syndome, if you want attention and people to help you fap your self esteem go to fucking tumblr and surround yourself with people like you.

??? i didn't post this to get attention, actually? I just wanted to get my feelings off my chest, and simply hear a few other opinions on the matter. If anything, YOU should go back to tumblr. It sounds like you need it if you get this offended over one little vent post. :')

thank you everyone who gave me their feedback! I definitely feel better now. ^o^

nah you totally are

I see that you're pretty much a good daugther/ son (?, I think you should keep searching if something about you is bothering you mom and try and speak to her about it or change it ( maybe)

You should be proud of yourself not everyone is a good child as yo ( apparently), if you're so sure that there is nothing wrong with you then don't feel so guilty about it, then maybe it's just that your mom is feeling down about something, maybe she has problems at her work or her health is not so good, or someone else other than you is making her feel bad ( idk , your dad maybe ?) , in that case just please try to speak to her, and if that doesn't work try and find out for youself what the problem is and help her, so both of you can be at ease.



GOOD LUCK ;D

i usually hate on trolls, but i'll have to agree with the anon guy. dude, you kinda are. Im not trying to be mean or anything and sorry for being honest but you really do sound like your wanting ppl to symphatize and pity you and tell you what a good person you are.

We instinctively seek our parent's approval, but in the end Only YOU can decide your own worth.