A. Call your mom
B. Call the Police
C. Call the FBI, CIA, and a SWAT team.
a. ignore
b. ignore
c. get your shit together you mother fucking idiots, i dont have all day to deal with your bullshit!
Stay out of it is how I deal with all 3. I always play the neutral role and simply refuse to get involved. This way while the family is being all gossipy and starting drama they have nothing on me because I keep my mouth shut.
(a) meh... *avoids*
(b) meh... *avoids
(c) meh... sick of drama *avoids*
honestly, i despise arguments wholeheartedly. you never know when the person is gonna give up; people think their belief is [always] right. have they ever thought of an idea to listen to each other and discuss their mistakes in the most humble way? besides, my answer for both of your question is still the same. I won't deal with their bs and I won't support neither opposing sides. it would also be the same if parents were to divorce and separate. it's their responsibility, not mine.
A) This is very situational and depends on how heavy a topic is. Normally it can be resolved with your mother or a sibling (who actually likes you) talking it out with a huge amount of space in between. Worse case scenario would be getting physical and being disowned.
B) If it's your aunt and uncle, unless you are super close to them, it would be better to ignore the issue and pretend it isn't even there. On the other hand since they are family, drag your parents into it or the grandparents (aunt and uncle's mom & dad).
C) I don't have an answer for this because I hate socializing with people irl so cutting off a few relationships never injured me.
a) My father and I always argue about small petty things but when we really have a serious fight, I'll ignored him since he is so annoying. Well, I know that after several hours we are back to normal, and he will joke again that will result to both of us laughing so hard.
b) I'll call their other siblings since both of them are full of pride and don't want to lose in an argument.
c) if it is a friend, I'll never ever talk to them especially if it is their fault.
If it is a best friend, in my case, we also fight over a childish reason, for example, she will not reply in my message for 2 minutes and I'll be really mad and told her 'it seems like I'm bothering you. bye and I will not chat her for 2 full minutes also (yeah childish and annoying). But after a several minutes, we are good in terms.
But lately I have a really serious fight with her. We didn't argue that much because I just give her a cold treatment and never reply to her only one word message (wtf? only one word!) until now. She didn't even say sorry. I don't really know what to feel so I'm planning of talking to her and breaking up our friendship for 10 years /shrug/ I'm so tired of her.
just kill yourself and you wont have to deal with this bullshit.
after you.
well I'm a conflict-avoiding person, so I'd not get involved. In any case maybe I'd just talk to them about the problem..
Don't get involved and don't take sides,they can make up and when they do you'll be the bad guy.
I don't care, not my business. If they decided to part ways, then they can. They are old enough to make their own decision. If they seek my opinions, then prepare to listen a frank truth from me. I don't take sides. If they force me to take on their side then sorry, I signed out. Seriously, don't involve yourself in someone else's fight.
Curious how people deal with fights/arguments...
a) between father and son/daughter?
b) between aunt and uncle?
c) between two friends?
In each case you're not the one in the fight, but what do you do? Who do you support? (Think of it as a fight that could possibly break their relationship)