I feel like everyone is forgetting that Min Gyum grew up in such a manipulative and abusive household. Of course he doesn't know how to navigate relationships in a healthy way or even know how a healthy or normal relationship works. So he keeps with this cycle of getting himself into trouble because its all he knows! It doesn't excuse his actions....but they need to be able to talk. Chun Sam and everyone entering a relationship with a person that has a past like Min Gyums should know that its going to be very difficult and that they will have to be more responsible and accountable. If you don't want to help the person with their developmental problems and work through them in healthy ways, don't enter the relationship
Chun Sam doesn't have the knowledge of how to navigate through a healthy romantic relationship either. He grew up sheltered, innocent, and child like. Why should he be the only one to shoulder such a heavy responsibility? Why would that even be expected of him? A relationship is a two way street. I think Chun Sam has done a lot already. He's stuck by him this whole time. Chun Sam is allowed to be hurt and Min Gyum's actions although understandable are not at all excusable. If he doesn't believe in his actions, in everything he's done so far, then a few words aren't going to do anything to change his mind. You can't love someone's insecurities away. Min Gyum has to learn to trust him on his own.
Im not saying Min Gyum isn't acting awful, I just think Chun Sam was being naive and blinded by his love and infatuation to the point he didn't realize how difficult the relationship would be. I just think people in general don't think through the logistics of dating past "I like this person" or "I wanna be with them". Those aren't always good reasons to enter a relationship. They're both acting immature and awful, theres too much unnecessary drama
I think there's a lot of drama too. And I also think that Chun Sam was naive about their relationship. They'd both been through a lot, and it took a lot for them to get there in the first place so he probably felt that they'd crossed all the difficult hurdles already. But they're young and he has to learn that there's problems in every relationship no matter how much you love each other.
agreed
it sounds horrible but im actually glad that chun sam isn't so accepting this time it will show min gyum that he needs to step up his game and work for the relationship. not sit and wait for it to fall apart.