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Confused+can any1 relate?

dede August 18, 2017 12:25 am

so i am an ace(a asexual girl) and well.....
the thing is when i read yaoi manga sometimes (if not always )i really want to be in the uke position (as a guy) it just really turn me on and i think it just so hot and will feel so good .then i ask myself what if i was a girl in a shoujo manga would i still be an ace and i think the answer is no .i am really confused of how i feel but it just that the real life s*x is just gross and real guys is not as beautiful and clean as manga guys .
** conclusion? --->i will live my sexual life in the 2D world .lol

Responses
    Yaoishit August 18, 2017 12:36 am

    I found my soulmate.
    I feel the same as you tbh.
    Sex in Yaoi looks is alright to me but thinking about dicks in real life NO THANK YOU.

    Yaoishit August 18, 2017 12:38 am

    I mean I did fall in love with a guy few years ago but thinking of having sex is just gross to me.

    Okarisu August 18, 2017 12:44 am

    Enjoying sex doesn't have anything to do with being asexual.

    Anonymous August 18, 2017 12:47 am

    I can't relate but I dont think you are an asexual. You just dont like sex because it looks disgusting but try feeling it. If 2D turns you on its normal :)

    pRAk August 18, 2017 12:54 am

    Pretty much the same here. Just, to me it's usually with the seme position. And it's not exactly wanting to be one, but it's complicated to explain.
    But if you want more opinions, maybe you could go to some ace communities like aven.

    Okarisu August 18, 2017 1:07 am
    I can't relate but I dont think you are an asexual. You just dont like sex because it looks disgusting but try feeling it. If 2D turns you on its normal :) @Anonymous

    Asexuals can get turned on. What makes a person asexual is the lack of sexual attraction. Getting turned on, having a libido, being sex repulsed or not sex repulsed, these are all separate things. And being turned on by something 2D doesn't mean you will get turned on by something 3D.
    Also, you really shouldn't suggest someone try having sex. The OP knows what their sexual orientation is. You don't have to have sex with a giraffe to know you wouldn't like it. Some things are just obvious to a person. This is one of those things.

    dede August 18, 2017 1:26 am
    I found my soulmate.I feel the same as you tbh.Sex in Yaoi looks is alright to me but thinking about dicks in real life NO THANK YOU. Yaoishit

    yo soulmate ^_^ .u know what ,i actually used to watch porn when i was in 6,7,8, and 9th grade and i was totally ok with it but now i just find everything about real sex gross

    Wha August 18, 2017 2:33 am

    i'm confused. how is you being ace relevant?

    dede August 18, 2017 2:43 am
    i'm confused. how is you being ace relevant? @Wha

    coz it seem that i only have sexual attraction to yaoi characters

    Wha August 18, 2017 2:56 am
    coz it seem that i only have sexual attraction to yaoi characters dede

    Okay?

    dede August 18, 2017 3:31 am
    Okay? @Wha

    umm what?

    Wha August 18, 2017 3:36 am
    umm what? dede

    lol sorry just didn't get why we were talking attraction since the concern seemed more along the lines of being sex repulsed which is unrelated. my bad just forget it lol