Out of curiosity

I don't wish to have one but I think it depends on each of us and what needs we wish to satisfy with our partner.
For example I am very contented with my relationship. Feeling safe in a relationship is a miracle. For example I fall asleep in less then 5 minutes when my husband is home. There is some magic going on

Monogamy for life! I just believe in true love and all that soul m...(stops myself) I know I know, I'm a hopeless romantic but I'm okay with whatever people are happy with 'Whatver floats your boat' I guess. But in such a relationship it will be quite hard to balance your love iykwim *takes out my measuring scale, let me see* 50% love for Mako, 25% love for Eren and 100% love for Levi , hmmm well that wasn't quite right...hmmm(⊙…⊙ )????* Whereas in a monogamous relationship you can give all of your love to only one person. That's just the way I perceive but I'm not against any type of relationship or anything I just prefer monogamy that's all and like I said before whatever makes you happy or 'floats your boat' (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Are you dating someone now? Have you talked with your partner about this?

As long as there's a clear set of rules that everyone agrees on, I'd have no issue with it.

I don't have anything agaisnt it, but i'm not the right person for a poly-amorous relationship. I can be very jealous if it's someone I really am attached to.

I get jealously easily so I couldn't do it.

*jealous

That is very cute. I hope to have a comforting relationship like that one day. Congratulations, however long you've been married!

I can see how balance in such a relationship would be difficult. And I tend to have an inferiority complex, so that wouldn't help me much... But I suppose it would be dependent, in this hypothetical situation, on how much love my partners would be willing to give me. There are people who feel unloved in monogamous relationships and people who feel showered with love in relationships with 7 other people. Strange, isn't it? I guess it's just circumstantial.

Oh, and I fully support your hopeless romanticism. The world would be better off with more romantics.

Ew, no. But you're free to love whoever you want, as long as it's not hurting anyone outside of the relationship.

Personally, I am not dating anyone right now. I was recently hanging out with my lady friend and her boyfriend, however, and she enjoys being inclusive of me. So she'll encourage both of us to do things like hold her hand and kiss her cheek at the same time and what not; she doesn't mean it beyond that, but it did remind me of some of the poly relationships I've heard people describe. So I just got curious.

Also, I agree. In every relationship, rules and boundaries are important; especially in relationships pertaining to more than one person. So that's a good standard to have.

Oddly enough, I get incredibly possessive of the people I'm attached to. I can see how that would be a problem, but I've never gave it much thought as to whether I'd get possessive if those who were involved were two people that I individually loved very much. I guess that's the sort of question that can only be answered by experience.

That's my motto for pretty much any relationship. It'd be nice if more people thought this way.

I have witnessed some relationships (monogamous) in which the people involved.... really should have just... taken a nap. And maybe reconsidered their life choices

not into it myself, don't care if anyone else does it.

Not a problem if everyone is okay with it. (Funny how I dislike threesomes in manga but am perfectly fine with polyamory irl lol)

Not personally. Relationship are works, and I don't find myself desire to invest one. My preferred state is one of being alone. Having more than one relationship means it will requires more of my time, effort and commitment. That's a lot of work than if I initially had one. I am not that selfless. So, no, it wouldn't work for me at all.

Then again, I wouldn't against anyone with polyamory.

I don't against it but personally, I find it's awkward. Maybe because i'm a jealous type so I don't want to be in relationship where my partner is in love with another person. But it depends tho, as long as everyone is alright with it then it's okay.