right...
but you gotta understand that there is this balance between a sadist and a masochist, not by physical aspects, but the meter sets the mental aspects. It's like an "opposites attract" thing.
Between a couple who are in love and communicate,yes, but they're not lovers; he paid for him. He doesn't give a f*ck about how he feels. In the that guy's mind he paid to do what he wants so he's gonna do what he wants.
I'm the same way
the sadist who like totally didnt get the concept of soft s&m was a moron... I mean I know things from the stuff I've read via books and manga, I'm 100% virgin,but even I know there has to be a limit. Where you and your partner are in sync and especial when it comes to pain.