sooo pissed of about the chapter is s so shitty an aweful i hate iga san hes a bastard and...

You make me so angry!!
Well I can understand why you are angry with Iga, horrible Person, but you can't expect much from a person who lives his life as a criminal.
But I can't understand why you are so angry about Yoshimune, really.
He is clearly the victim here!! A child that was seduced and manipulated by a person he thourght he can trust.
Are you also angry with batterd women and men, who stay in their relationships??
Well I could understand when you say, you can't understand how he could stay with his abuser!!
That kind of behaviour is pretty common do you know and it is not really the victims fault and their are a lot of reasons why they stay.
But what I think in this situation it's multipale reasons.
First of all he stays with that guy, doesn't seem to have much contact with his family or many friends ( as far I know, well you don't see him to have a good social life, so that's called isolation, not having the hope to have someone outside of this relationship who can help him.
Then there is Dependence; He depends very much on this person, he propably doesn't know what to do with out that person. Iga is important to his life, the one person who understands him who cares for him.
Yoshimune probably really loved him or thought so, because this person took care of ihm stood up for him and was nice to him and always when Iga treated him bad he compensated for it, at least in the beginning.
It is a vicious circle to get out of when you think about it, that grown up women with children can't get out of abusive relationships how can you expect a teenageboy to have the courage and the far-sightness that this guy, he loves, is just an asshole and nothing will ever change!!
Well it is still your opinion but I hope I could give you some inside in this vicious circle so you might rethink your position.
Well I can understand when you would say that you can't understand why the victim is acting like that, but you do have to acknowledge him as a victim.
Hope I could give you some sinsight.
Yours
PinkPanther xxx

Sure!! I understand your point and nobody should go through these things or live in a hostle enviroment and I'm sorry you had to experience those circumstances!!
My problem with the comment, wasn't the fact, that the person was angry, those things should make you angry and especially in Yaoi / shounen ai those topics are played down a lot and trivialized, so the mangaka did a good job, making people actually angry about it.
I just thought the comment sounded like the person was saying that the victim is to blame, what I think this kind of thinking is quite uneducated and life nothing is that easy and or either black or white. So I thought I wanted to give some insight in what I know what also plays a role in those relationships. I might not have first hand experience with this things.
lots of love

Was not thinking that you are a sycko cause I don't know you :-D

Careful, else you end up like him...
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hajishirazu_na_yoru/an/hajishirazu-na-yoru-chapter-3.html/21/

really fluffy I'm either a pink panther or Elizabeth!!

Ha..well, back to the topic before the "thumbs-down-fraction" feels a sudden urge to... nevermind.
I must admit I really like ch. 4 (and no, not because I revel in the misery of fictional characters). The title "Daybreak, the day I woke up" strikes me as particularly encouraging. He walked away on his own two feet (unlike others in abusive-co-dependency-relationships, who either have to be bound like a sushi-roll and dragged off, or who leave as corpses).
To "walk away" requires a whole lot of willpower and courage (let's not forget confidence) and those are HARD to gather when you're drowning in mud.
Bystanders naturally reason from their point of view - once you're IN the situation you don't see as many "Exit"-signs as outsiders do.
It's by no means a necessary experience for anyone, no matter the age.