Wait...so in the end, the father was still being 'used'?

Im the end I don't think the father was being used. The father corrupted the son and that was all he knew growing up, his only form of affection, so he was just scared of being abandoned and left alone.

That makes much more sense! Thank you (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
I was trying to give you a 'determined smile' emoticon.....hmm, does this ':) work?