yaoi anime? or any?
if any then i would recommend lovely complex (shoujo)
its definitely not your typical shoujo, with strong and very likeable male and female characters
the romance is cute and the show is HILARIOUS
and as for yaoi manga, firstly i second everything kuro said!
In addition to (prepare for long list xD):
ANYTHING and EVERYTHING by natsume isaku!
..also also yamamoto kotetsuko!
...and kanda neko! (puchitto hajiketa is my favorite!)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sorenari_ni_shinken_nandesu/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yume_musubi_koi_musubi/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/himegoto_asobi/ (spin-off of above)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/konbini_kun/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/soba_ni_oitene/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sono_te_no_netsu_wo_kasanete/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mimitabu_no_riyuu/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kaze_no_yukue/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kono_ore_ga_omae_nanka_suki_na_wakenai/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/uwasa_no_oujisama/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kami_sama_onegai/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/distopia_mikansei_na_sekai/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hitotsu_no_koi_no_hajimari/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ushirogawa_kara_koigokoro/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/wakabaryou_de_kimi_to/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sawaraseteyo_shiba_kun/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koi_made_hyakurin/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hatsuai/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/binan_no_dendou/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sono_koi_ni_wa_wake_ga_aru/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/oujito/
also not yaoi (shounen-ai) but really cute and really good!
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/blue_sky_complex/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/endou_kun_no_kansetsu_nikki/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kurayami_ni_strobe/
You can find here: http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/61520/
For anime you can try:
Love Stage!
Kirepapa
Tigh rope
Papa to kiss in the dark (incest)
Seito Kaichou ni Chuukoku
Junjou romantica and Sekai ichi hatsukoi (I think you already know but...)
hi is there any romance and adorable yaoi?
also any adorable anime any can?
please and thank you