*somebody criticizing about Misaki's bad points* Fandom: Yeah, I know right. It had been ...

Thing is the worse aspects (possessive, jealous, clingy) could be lessened if Misaki wasnt so insensitive & threw the guy a bone. Most ppl will be ticked off seeing their lover praise & too close with someone who is openly trying to break them up. Add onto this his reluctance to show affection & it brings the insecurity up sky high. Usagi coddles him so maybe thats why Misaki unintentionally takes him for granted. I think Misaki could cheat on him if he wanted to & Usagi still would stay.

Or lock him in his basement full of teddy bears...

Proof#1 why my post above is legit: People overlooking usagi's bad points and still put every of the blame on misaki

But its true. Usagi gets possessive & jealous which is wrong but each time he finds Misaki alone with the guys trying to break them up. Cant Misaki just..stop? Cause & effect.

Proof#2 why my post above is legit: Usagi's bad points are easily forgiven and put the blame on Misaki instead

But if he is the one causing it who elses fault is it? We're not talking about a regular platonic joe. It would help if you explained how a person should react to their lover praising & spending time w/ a guy who intends to homewreck if he can.

I don't think people are saying Usami is perfect, just that they are out of patience with Misaki. Usami has plenty of faults too, but he is pretty steadfast in his love for Misaki - to an almost obsessive level - but then hisis kind of OCD with his Bears and his work. But Misaki needs to seriously take into consideration that what he does is not the act of a grown up in a relationship that has lastted longer than a lot of marriages.

Proof#3. If I explained would you listened to me anyway? I don't think so, you will still shove me with biased opinions of yours

Proof#4. If that's case then what usagi actually needs is a therapist rather than Misaki succumbing himself to that abusive boyfriend of his. Possessiveness is not love, it's a sign of insecurity

I would. Explain away. (づ￣ ³￣)づ

I was a little unsure about this manga at first. Mostly romantica, because I get angry at Usagi. I felt like he just pressured Misaki into the relationship. Yes, Miami didn't fight nearly as hard as he could have, but still seemed uncomfortable and pressured by his relationship with usagi. I'm glad that he is definitely interested in keeping the relationship going recently, dispite his own fears and short comings.

people that criticize misaki`s attitude does not mean that excuse the Usagi `s one.

About Usagi`s personality (i dont really like him): he is selfish, tyrannical, possessive, insecure, suffocating .. etc. but he is clear to his lover and at this point misaki knows how usagi personality is like..
In other hand Misaki is so indecisive and it was okay at first but after four years he must've taken a firm decision, or they are together or not (and that is why people is so mad about the character). I dont really care if misaki break with Usagi but it is about time to make the decision and stop with all nonsense already.

Pfft! Being possessive is abuse? Being possessive is a sign that he is insecure in his relationship - which Misaki gives him reason to be - constantly pushing him away, flirting with others etc. Yeah it's a flaw, but not abuse. Get your terminology straight, you sound kind of sheltered if you think it's abuse. Usami was a kind of reclusive and introverted until Misaki came to live with him, but still welcomed Misaki. And if you feel insecure after being in a relationship, still get pushed away when you try to initiate intimacy, and still get negative feedback from your significant other after four years, then the fault lies with said partner.

OH MY GOD YES I SWEAR TO GOD MISAKI IS BEING ATTACKED EVERYWHERE AND HAVE WE FORGOT THAT USAGI IS BASICALLY A MOLESTER WHO FORCED HIMSELF TO A HETERO TEENAGAE BOY. Try to understand Misaki a little. He is still too young yet there are already a lot of pressure in his way.

There is no need to shout (the all caps thing) and Misaki was probably 18 when it started - which is considered an adult in most nations, and is now at least 22 - he is not being molested, and if he did not want to have any sort of relations with Usami, then he should have just moved in with his brother and stayed there, but he did not. He is now a University student and if he wanted to support himself and live on his own, then he should have found employment and a cheap place to live, but he stayed in the luxury condo and allowed Usami to continue his "molesting". Stop trying to rationalize Misaki's lack of growth. I lived on my own at 18, had a job and went to University, it is do-able.

Lol he is not being molested? But the first time they met he actually gave Misaki a handjob without his consent. If that's molesting then idk what. Dont justify Usagi's actions too you know. It differs in every culture. In our country even if youre 18 yrs old most people are still livin their parents house and still treated as a kid although we are already in a legal age so everyone is like you tho

Not like you*

Misaki is not young. He's a grown man and has been in this relationship about 3 or 4 years now. Either he gets pregnant or they tell big bro already.
Taking the blame off him doesnt change the situation. Plus they've had consensual sex a number of times. This isn't the past we're talking about the current relationship status. Usagi is pretty damn annoying to me too. He holds Misaki back, even so Misaki needs to step up and do something on his own. Everything he does is centered around Usagi. He needs to get a life already. They just don't mesh well together.

I dont understand how people blow over Misaki's accomplishments. Misaki already resolved to tell his brother just as Usagi has they just have to do it, not 'misaki' but 'them' like together so not on him. He's made a large effort to clear up misunderstandings saying that usagi is different and that he loves him "Multiple" times. He is even standing on his own with finding his own job and not 'relying' on Usagi. I have no doubt Misaki would be totally fine living by himself he 'wants' to stay with Usagi. He's turned 'all' of the other love interests down properly. there is nothing wrong with his personality he's just overly nice and overly shy but even that didnt stop him from trying to push Usagi down even if they were failed attempts, he doesnt wine during sex and I say Usagi is the only one having major problems with insecurity and the blame should NOT be on Misaki
Everybody was saying their opinion i wanted to say mine :v

What accomplishments? Everytime he moves a step forward, he moves a step back too. He's putting forth little effort, especially when Usagi has to get involved often times. He shows no action! He talks the same talk but can't continue to walk the walk. Are we just going to sit here and cheer everytime he shows affection? Those aren't accomplishments that's called being in a relationship. The only accomplishment I see is that he got a job....that's at Usagi's publishing company. Like I said everything he does is centered around Usagi. He has only one friend outside Usagi's circle. Face it, he needs to get a life. I said both of them were blame, but it's not just Usagi. Misaki does nothing but takes things as they come. He has no worth from this perspective. He washes dishes, does the laundry, and goes to work? He's so bland now. Turning twenty doesn't mean it's the end of your life. He needs to speak the hell up. Screw shyness. If he can push Usagi down he can do something other than passively rejecting people.