Really..just because your boyfriend doesn't have time for you then you go and have sex wit...

well in his defend his boyfriend say that he will never do that so that piss him off, specially becaus ehe was acting like he can make his boyfirend wait forever like it wasnt important, but i do undertand your point so both of them were childish

I'm more amazed at someone who would wait around. How long is long enough before you realize that your man doesn't care? A month? A year? A decade? How long would you let your man blow off your dates before you told him to go pound sand up his ass? Some men don't get it unless they think their partner will really be taken away. They become over-confident and complacent. If you're okay with being a doormat that is your prerogative, but I eliminate unnecessary people from my life and a partner who has no concern for my feelings is wholy unnecessary. But that is just my POV.

And BTW... This was not a case where the seme didn't "have" time for his boyfriend, he didn't "make" time for his boyfriend. There is a huge difference. The seme wasn't working late, going to business meetings or even caring for a sick relative. He was helping friends, going to mixers and other parties. He chose to prioritize his friends consistently over his lover. When he finally said "no" to his friends they didn't even question him and just let it slide. So, it wasn't like they were forcing him to do things with them. He chose to leave his boyfiend hanging in order to be the "nice guy" with his friends. He needed a wake up call that came with a serious reality check.

I agree

Agree with this also

I totally agree with you.

Agree with this too.

Touché!

I also agree. He was being an utter jerk to his boyfriend. I'd have dumped him long ago. Granted, the uke picked a childish way of doing it, but the seme really wasn't getting it at *all*.