So, I’m a sucker for BL shows and movies and all that. I watch them from all countries, Britain, France, Germany, USA, China, Thailand, Taiwan, Japan, EVERY (that produces them and have eng sub). I love it.
Right now, I’m watching TharnType the series and make our days count (and I am also finishing trapped and trying to hype myself into watc...... 1 reply
I don’t really have kinks, the most extreme I get is rough sex and a little choke here and there (in theory, I’m still le virgin), but I’ll still answer; most kinks disturbs me. The one I find the most normal would be the foot fetish thing—if you can even call that a link. reply
The whole main cast of Attack on Titans EXCEPT for Erwin (sob) and Levi. After those two, everyone else, especially Eren obsessed Mikasa and wimp ass Eren, can CHOKE!!! CHokE!!! 2 reply
Lol, guys! I’m dying! These pick up line shave me weak. But can I get something a bit more mature and serious. He is 13 years my senior, and I want to make a good first impression. 1 reply
I’m bored and I feel like I’ve read all the BL here that can be read. I’m in a reading mood.
Here’s all the tropes, clichés, and genres that I LOVE!
1. For one partner to be ugly (I like it when it is the »uke »). And by extension, i also like a when: One partner is hella hot and popular. 3. Super loving partners and relationship 4. I’m into that possessive shit—Painter of the Night? Yes! 5. I burn for you type of sex. It doesn’t have to be ridiculously detailed, just emotionally intense. So, yeah, a lot of « love »-making. I love the love part of that word a lot. 6. I like the boring domestic shit. Basically, I love contemporary romances. 7. Consent is a « yes! » 8. Actual gay characters 9. Freaky sex, without the bdsm (it doesn’t do it for me) 10. LOVE! ROMANCE! Action!!! 11. Star-crossed lovers type of stories are a chef’s kiss (i.e coyote). 12. Hate to love (enemies to lover). I love this trope to DEATH 13. I love, love, love a good fuck buddy story (of course they have to fall in love). 14. Friends to lovers is another favorite.
i slid in the dm of the guy i have a crush on. i did something horrible by putting him on read for a whole day. i was trying to decide if I want to embarrass myself. i've decided YOLO. lol now, i need advice on how to flirt. lol, if he respond, can someone become my friend on so I can just run ad ask how to respond? guys, i know nothing about flirting or men.
My main and only goal for 2021 is to stop craving romantic love and connection and to focus solely on my career and on having fun and that’s it! But the year started off really bad.
The first day was dandy, then I just started to not be able to stop thinking about this man I’ve had a stupid little school girl crush on for the past year now. I want to STOP! Bc I know it’ll never happen. It’ll never be real. And I am tired of wanting love. It’s never going to happen for me at this point.
It’s not just wanting to be partnered, but I also want all that comes with it: SEX!
I want to spend this year focusing on my growth. But idk how to stop wanting this man.
I have had many crushes, and all of them have been ridiculously intense. However, what’s different with this one is that I feel like this man is “it,” if an “it” exists. This faulty thinking of mine is what I think is making it hard for me to let go.
I have never dated, so please don’t recommend I tell him I like him so I can move on. Further, he doesn’t know I am attracted to him and we’ve never talked. Yeah, I’m not blessed and lucky enough to even like someone I have a good friendship with. It has always been strangers. All the reasons why dying alone and single is a definitive for me.
Shit, writing this is making me ridiculously sad.
HELP ME MOVE ON! I’m tired of this hopeless crushes of mine. If it won’t ever happen, I rather stop wanting it so it won’t mess with my head and my sense of self worth.
Can I get some advice? I want to hit on someone. I want to slide in their dm, and I do not know how to go about doing it. I’m stuck on what I should say.
Background info:
I used to work at the same place as this man. Never talked. I befriended him on fb and he accepted the request. The year is almost over and I just have nothing to lose and I want to let him know I’m into him. If he is not, I want to know and move on.
Any advice on how I can hit on him?
Please, please help. I really, really need the advice.
I am here to ask a rather...personal? Mundane? question. I do not really have anyone close to me I could ask this, so here I am on Mangago (once again, /le sigh/).
Ladies and gents, I’m 22, never been in a relationship, and, once again, I have a huge crush on this man from my place of work. We do not work in the same department and I’m not going to get into it, but he’s probably around 15 years older than I (don’t start), and we’ve never really talked. But I WANT THAT TO CHANGE. I feel as if I am too old to be sitting around and waiting for someone to talk to me, wasting my time (if he’s not interested I want to know now so I can MOVE ON!)
So, I promised myself that if I still liked him after I’ve found a new job I was going to try to talk to him. It seems that even though miss Covid-19 tried it, I might still acquire a new job. FINGERS CROSSED!
So, in leu of this development, I’ve settled with myself that the first thing I will do is hit him up on social media—befriended him on FB (couldn’t find insta, which I’d prefer, but beggars can’t be choosers in this situation).
THE ADVICE I NEED IS ON HOW I SHOULD SLIDE IN HIS DMs!
How do you I hit on a complete stranger?
From his social, he is not married. Yay! I’m not really looking for anything TOO serious. Just something casual (cough/sexual/cough). But I am a complete newbie and could POTENTIALLY be way over my head. But, hey, have to start with the heartbreaks somewhere, right (*smiley face-wink).
Help me out!
P.s. I might very well be wrong, but I think the attraction is rather mutual. So, I’m not heading in completely blind. He know I exist, I know that for a fact. Not too sure on anything else, though....hmm, I best not think myself out of this. I do that a lot.
HELP ME OUT WITH ACTUAL LINES!
Also, I would appreciate if the people who answered were knowledgeable, experienced, and my age or older (sorry my young and inexperienced cuties, I really want this to work).
