Okay so as a part of my contract i have the opportunity to volunteer for 3 month in Asia with an ngo in 3 months (im thinking of Japan,Malaysia,Indonesia or Phillipines) which is gonna be an amazing experience to add in my resumé to apply for a master degree in fall 2024.
But I come from a traditional family (where girls don't usually leave the house if they're not married) AND my mom is the most anxious,scaredy cat I know.
To me there is no doubt that I cannot let this opportunity go, I'm gonna regret it or worse resent my mom. Also lol i knew she wouldn't agree right away and that now since i told her the news it's gonna be really tense everytime i'll mention it cuz common I know it's a mother's job to worry.
But my problem is that i'm a non-confrotational ppl pleaser and I lack a lot of confidence. Everytime I go against her wish i feel physically bad and stress even tho her wishes don't align with mine. And on top of that I second my decisions a lot bcz I don't trust myself.
I know I want to go, do you guys have any advice on how to not loose all resolve the minute my mom will talk (or scream) me out of going abroad ?
But I come from a traditional family (where girls don't usually leave the house if they're not married) AND my mom is the most anxious,scaredy cat I know.
To me there is no doubt that I cannot let this opportunity go, I'm gonna regret it or worse resent my mom. Also lol i knew she wouldn't agree right away and that now since i told her the news it's gonna be really tense everytime i'll mention it cuz common I know it's a mother's job to worry.
But my problem is that i'm a non-confrotational ppl pleaser and I lack a lot of confidence. Everytime I go against her wish i feel physically bad and stress even tho her wishes don't align with mine. And on top of that I second my decisions a lot bcz I don't trust myself.
I know I want to go, do you guys have any advice on how to not loose all resolve the minute my mom will talk (or scream) me out of going abroad ?
OK so I'm in 10th grade rn, and I was thinking of studying abroad after 12th grade. I'm Indian and studying in a foreign country has always been my dream, it's my only hope of getting a better life and escaping my toxic ass family.
But I legit don't know where do start. I'll be going there on a scholarship, because I literally am dirt poor. (I will take a student loan tho, if required) . I've heard that you need to give some exams like SAT and some English proficiency tests.
Does colleges in Europe accept SAT scores (because I don't really want to go to America, seeing all the issues they have, no hate tho, America has great people and is a nice country but I think it's gonna be very expensive for me)
Is is mandatory to know the language of the country I'll be going to. Can't I learn the language when I arrive there?? And some colleges offer courses in English too, right??
I'm just very confused, how do I even apply for scholarships or what if I get scammed. I'm really just desperate so I'll be applying to a lot of colleges in different countries.
I don't think I have enough confidence in my English skills. And I don't have anyone to take advice from. (I can't really ask my parents or family members because I know they will get mad at me for even thinking of going abroad)
But I legit don't know where do start. I'll be going there on a scholarship, because I literally am dirt poor. (I will take a student loan tho, if required) . I've heard that you need to give some exams like SAT and some English proficiency tests.
Does colleges in Europe accept SAT scores (because I don't really want to go to America, seeing all the issues they have, no hate tho, America has great people and is a nice country but I think it's gonna be very expensive for me)
Is is mandatory to know the language of the country I'll be going to. Can't I learn the language when I arrive there?? And some colleges offer courses in English too, right??
I'm just very confused, how do I even apply for scholarships or what if I get scammed. I'm really just desperate so I'll be applying to a lot of colleges in different countries.
I don't think I have enough confidence in my English skills. And I don't have anyone to take advice from. (I can't really ask my parents or family members because I know they will get mad at me for even thinking of going abroad)
I just got the admission letter to do an exchange semester in Germany but I'm kinda getting second thoughts.
First, I live literally in the other side of the world, in a tropical weather zone so I don't know how to deal with the cold at all.
Second, the school there said that there's a possibility of classes still being online so idk if it will be an experience near as good as if it were in pre covid times.
Third, the embassy in my country is not making appointments to get a visa.
Fourth, going means that I'll graduate half a year behind.
However though it was always one of my dreams to make an international exchange, and this is my last year, my last chance. Maybe if there's any german otaku in here, they could give me some advice?? (●￣(ｴ)￣●)
First, I live literally in the other side of the world, in a tropical weather zone so I don't know how to deal with the cold at all.
Second, the school there said that there's a possibility of classes still being online so idk if it will be an experience near as good as if it were in pre covid times.
Third, the embassy in my country is not making appointments to get a visa.
Fourth, going means that I'll graduate half a year behind.
However though it was always one of my dreams to make an international exchange, and this is my last year, my last chance. Maybe if there's any german otaku in here, they could give me some advice?? (●￣(ｴ)￣●)
i just went to go see how my old fandom was doing *wHeEsE *tHe BnhA* fAnDoM* and the first thing i see is motherfuckers shipping todokiribakudenkishinsouseroiidaminetadeku and like it was an ao3 about them they are fucking MINORS guys and yet people have to write shit like this
help it's in the middle of the night I kept hearing squeaking from my window above my head I'm hearing voices too idk if I should call someone rn I'm just holding a knife for self def
jsjsjsjs you read the title, who wants to be friends on genshin, we can kiss whenever a slime blob appears (づ￣ 3￣)づ LMAO WHAT I DOING- anyways, back to question, my UID - 720093267
my school is gonna start offline in a few days and the fact im even here means that im not ready at all
i dont even use separate books for subjects
i dont even use separate books for subjects
Hello everyone, today we are mourning my death. In 40 minutes my mum will come home and see the hole in the wall i made. i forgot the door peg, the thing that stops the door handle from breaking the wall, got broken by my adorably stupid dog. so i opened the door really hard and put a hole in the wall, i am dead. so so so so DEAD, please come to my funeral and say nice things you guys
Who, in your opinion, is the most underrated anime characters(s)?
Mine are Kiyoko Shimizu, Tomioka Giyuu, Tengen Uzui, Haku Yuki, Shikamaru Nara, Hange Zoë, Gowther, and Elizabeth Liones just to name a few.
Mine are Kiyoko Shimizu, Tomioka Giyuu, Tengen Uzui, Haku Yuki, Shikamaru Nara, Hange Zoë, Gowther, and Elizabeth Liones just to name a few.
Who wanna let me squeeze they titties before we mush
You can chat here and do random stuff if you want, you can vent, send a whole bunch of memes, do promotions, whatever you want! I'm just really bored and want some people to talk to :/
ELLO ELLO ELLO. SOOO, It's been a while babes. I kinda do this thing called 'Keeping up with Hellish' cause I have a lot of family drama. AND BECAUSE I HAVE A LOT OF FAMILY DRAMA, Why not make it like a reality show??
SOOO
TEA:
MY mother has daddy issues, her father was abusive to her and all her siblings and to their mom. He had a second wife, and he loved that second wife more than my grandmother. He beat every one of my aunts and uncles, beat them til the point they were bruised all over and had to run away. They couldn't go to cops because they didn't believe my grandma and aunts and uncles.
They finally got a restraining order against him. He finally died this year in February.
MY GRANDPA WAS VERY ABUSIVE, AND YKNOW WHAT'S WORSE? ALL HIS BROTHERS ARE ABUSIVE.
His younger brother back in Laos abuses his brother's daughters and son. The guy's brother is too scared to stand up for his kids so he just stands back. The kids are beaten everyday, they can't go to school, and they have to do heavy labor.
My mom has sent 400$ to the youngest sister, but before the sister could get it, their Uncle got it :D HOW JHQEKGLWU ANNOYING BRUH LIKE HOW YOU GONNA DO THIS TO YOUR BROTHER'S KIDS YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE LIKE BVHUKERWLGYYUGQEIURIFUW
Enough tea, I am saving good drama for next time <3
-bitch sinning
SOOO
TEA:
MY mother has daddy issues, her father was abusive to her and all her siblings and to their mom. He had a second wife, and he loved that second wife more than my grandmother. He beat every one of my aunts and uncles, beat them til the point they were bruised all over and had to run away. They couldn't go to cops because they didn't believe my grandma and aunts and uncles.
They finally got a restraining order against him. He finally died this year in February.
MY GRANDPA WAS VERY ABUSIVE, AND YKNOW WHAT'S WORSE? ALL HIS BROTHERS ARE ABUSIVE.
His younger brother back in Laos abuses his brother's daughters and son. The guy's brother is too scared to stand up for his kids so he just stands back. The kids are beaten everyday, they can't go to school, and they have to do heavy labor.
My mom has sent 400$ to the youngest sister, but before the sister could get it, their Uncle got it :D HOW JHQEKGLWU ANNOYING BRUH LIKE HOW YOU GONNA DO THIS TO YOUR BROTHER'S KIDS YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE LIKE BVHUKERWLGYYUGQEIURIFUW
Enough tea, I am saving good drama for next time <3
-bitch sinning
I need help with my annoying ass sister, she always burst into room and talks about her problems, she then promise to watch a horror movie with me but then proceeds to talk to her friends while we watch the movie, she never listens to what I have to say but I'm force to listen to what she has to say, she complains all the time, and all she ever talks about is discord. Basically, how the hell do I tell her to fucking leave me alone without hurting her feelings?
>.> YKNOWWWWWw, LIKE YALLLL, HAHHAHAHAHHA, EOOOOWWWWWW
What position do you think you would work in, like, ASSISTANT TO THE DEVIL, A COOK, A MAID, A DUKE? A COMMON PERSON, WEALTHY?? Honestly, just like if you were to live in a kingdom.
ORRRRRR, like mangago users who would fit specific positions
SHit y'all know I'm Second In Command of Hell, APPOINTED BY THE ONE AND ONLY ICE MOON <3
-bitch
What position do you think you would work in, like, ASSISTANT TO THE DEVIL, A COOK, A MAID, A DUKE? A COMMON PERSON, WEALTHY?? Honestly, just like if you were to live in a kingdom.
ORRRRRR, like mangago users who would fit specific positions
SHit y'all know I'm Second In Command of Hell, APPOINTED BY THE ONE AND ONLY ICE MOON <3
-bitch
I want to read the anarchist's cookbook but I heard you can get put on a watchlist. It's only because I'm curious though. Would you be in danger if you were put on a watchlist? What exactly would happen? I would google it but I think that would be suspicious.