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I need some advice...
More like I need help idk how to deal with this.
I think I'm falling in love with my best friend but my best friend is like my second world cause my family always comes first. He is kind and sweet, he never gets mad at me even though I get mad at him sometimes, he always go places with me whenever he is free and no matter how mean I get or how bad I do things he is literally always by my side.
He once asked me if I wanted to go out on Valentine's Day (omg I said no) he said it was our "date", I noticed that he gets mad when I talk about other guys but I always reassure him that I like him way more than any other person.
Lately I keep thinking about him, I know it's wrong cause I'm sure that falling in love with him is not the right thing to do and we both have had someone in the past, now it's been almost 2 and half years that we r single.
I don't wanna like him that way but whenever I think that one day he will get married I get so frustrated. I wish I could confess but I'll get rejected (probably) idk what to do, idk what to think and I'm so fucking scared of falling head over heels for him and he falls for someone else.
I think first u should find out whether he has feelings for u or not. Theres gotta be a hint, then if u think he has no feelings for u whatsoever and u r going to get rejected then maybe dont confess. I know this sound like a bad advice but I was also had the same situation like u I was really afraid to get rejected and I was afraid that my confes...... 1 reply
first of all, i suggest you not to confess to him yet. You need to know his feeling towards you. You can ask her male friend because men always sharing their secret. But do not asking directly. if his male friend doesnt know about it, you need to make him fall in love with you. But do not confess to him yet until you charm him.. okey this is my way...... 2 reply
To me, it looks like he likes you, too. He's invited you to a date on Valentines day and he gets jealous when you speak of other guys. Also, if the both of you are single, I don't see what's wrong in liking him (or liking each other). You say that both of you are single for 2 and a half years. For how long have you been (best) friends? Also, both h...... 2 reply
Well i think you should confess your love for him. Well he's lucky he'll find his love on his bestfriend. He can easily jealous when you talk to other boys and he invited you on a date p.s he always available for you even you get mad at him, he nevers abandoned you I'm sure. If you get rejected he'll always be with you because he cares for you so, ...... 2 reply
Kay I'll leave an update so it's easier.
I did confess already and we talked things through he did say that he used to like me back in college, I'm in uni now haha.
So although he said that we could try it, I felt that it wasn't worth it I mean let's be real if things went wrong there's no way we could continue to be best friends sadly.
We then t...... 1 reply
It's too good to be true. xD Sorry, I just can't help it. I read too much. But I'll entertain the idea that it's true, so here's what I think:
First, throw away those things you noticed because you see those in the eyes of someone who's in love(?) and that makes you assume or misunderstand the signals, and what does everyone know about assuming/mi...... 1 reply
I've no idea if this will help you or not. I've no idea what you're going through and I can't even imagine what it's like to be afraid of losing your best friend, but I think you should tell him.
Then you won't be rejecting your decision later on your life. Also then you know how he feels, and you can't know how he feels if you don't tell him. Yo...... 4 reply
I think going on a date would be a good way to test the water. Even if you don't call it an actual date, go somewhere with him and pretend to yourself. If you like how it feels, consider actually telling him.
Or you can even ask him straight-up? You could say that you don't know if you like him or not but it scares you to think of the future. I w...... reply
