I'm not necessarily a "hardcore" sex person... if i have to much sex it starts to grow boring. So every now and then I like to have sex, but ultimately i can get a good mood going without always fucking someone y'know. Don't get me wrong it's definitely one of those "DAMN" moments... but like they say, "to much of anything isn't good for you".
Can i ask you something when you have s** .... how did you stop ??until you both tired ?? And after that did you sleep or take a shower ?? sorry for asking you this question but for me that sure boring experience . I read a lot of yaoi manga but they always go to sleep after that . I never done that yet ... so I am curious what people always do after that ... and I just accidentally found your post you seem like an expert
Haha, don't worry it's normal to be curious. "When it ends" kind of depends. Sometimes we finish when he cums and other times (when I'm not fully satisfied) I - for lack of better words - perk him back up and go for round two. Most of the time we have sex late at night so yes we go to sleep right after. Sometimes we wipe ourselves down with a towel or clothing item other we just fall asleep right away.
It's a bit different in the day time, as I said in my other comment we are friends with benefits, that means we don't do much after sex. Sometime's I leave right away so I can go home, shower and get on with the rest of my day. Other times we clean up (shower together) and spend some time watching movies or going out to eat.
It's never awkward for us and we don't really talk about sex unless we are joking around or about to actually have sex.
Hope this help, if you have any more questions feel free to ask. I'm sure MeninoAzul or I would be happy to reply.
Haha, don't worry it's normal to be curious. "When it ends" kind of depends. Sometimes we finish when he cums and other times (when I'm not fully satisfied) I - for lack of better words - perk him back up and... Nina
Wow thanks .... you sure an expert ...reading your reply really give me a goosebumps
I get where you are coming from. It can definitely get boring if you have too much sex. I have a friend with benefits and sometimes get more than I want. I have started to push him to slow it down.
But are you really okay have s** with somebody that you dont like, like its just s**? Maybe i'm way to immature rn, sorry if i offend you... it just that i've never done it so i get a little curious about it
But are you really okay have s** with somebody that you dont like, like its just s**? Maybe i'm way to immature rn, sorry if i offend you... it just that i've never done it so i get a little curious about it Slayqueen
Asking someone to clarify their stance on a matter is NEVER a bad thing! Quite the opposite actually, I'm glad you are taking the time to ask someone more about their opinion vs bashing them for it.
I get where you're coming from, we are taught from a young age that sex is only for those that we love. If this is your mentality then great, stick with it! For me its a bit different as I have a busy life. I work full time (40 hrs a week not including overtime) and attend college full-time (12 credits or more a term). That's a lot for one person. When I have spare time (if any) I like to use it to relax. Haveing a boyfriend/girlfriend is a lot of work. Now I don't mean that in a bad way because it's not but you'd be lying if you said it wasn't.
Me and him are both VERY clear on our terms. 1) we are NOT dating 2) we can see other people in casual relationships as long as they KNOW about us and we know about them (this way no one is mistaken for cheating).
As you can tell our relationship isn't based on love but our want to have our physical desires met. We are GOOD friends and if our physical relationship ends I'm more than confident we would stay friends.
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Thanks for all the questions/replies everyone, sorry I didn't get a chance to reply back soon enough! (〜￣△￣)〜
Can i ask you something when you have s** .... how did you stop ??until you both tired ?? And after that did you sleep or take a shower ?? sorry for asking you this question but for me that sure boring experience . I read a lot of yaoi manga but they always go to sleep after that . I never done that yet ... so I am curious what people always do after that ... and I just accidentally found your post you seem like an expert
Haha, don't worry it's normal to be curious. "When it ends" kind of depends. Sometimes we finish when he cums and other times (when I'm not fully satisfied) I - for lack of better words - perk him back up and go for round two. Most of the time we have sex late at night so yes we go to sleep right after. Sometimes we wipe ourselves down with a towel or clothing item other we just fall asleep right away.
It's a bit different in the day time, as I said in my other comment we are friends with benefits, that means we don't do much after sex. Sometime's I leave right away so I can go home, shower and get on with the rest of my day. Other times we clean up (shower together) and spend some time watching movies or going out to eat.
It's never awkward for us and we don't really talk about sex unless we are joking around or about to actually have sex.
Hope this help, if you have any more questions feel free to ask. I'm sure MeninoAzul or I would be happy to reply.
Wow thanks .... you sure an expert ...reading your reply really give me a goosebumps
I get where you are coming from. It can definitely get boring if you have too much sex. I have a friend with benefits and sometimes get more than I want. I have started to push him to slow it down.
But are you really okay have s** with somebody that you dont like, like its just s**? Maybe i'm way to immature rn, sorry if i offend you... it just that i've never done it so i get a little curious about it
Asking someone to clarify their stance on a matter is NEVER a bad thing! Quite the opposite actually, I'm glad you are taking the time to ask someone more about their opinion vs bashing them for it.
I get where you're coming from, we are taught from a young age that sex is only for those that we love. If this is your mentality then great, stick with it! For me its a bit different as I have a busy life. I work full time (40 hrs a week not including overtime) and attend college full-time (12 credits or more a term). That's a lot for one person. When I have spare time (if any) I like to use it to relax. Haveing a boyfriend/girlfriend is a lot of work. Now I don't mean that in a bad way because it's not but you'd be lying if you said it wasn't.
Me and him are both VERY clear on our terms. 1) we are NOT dating 2) we can see other people in casual relationships as long as they KNOW about us and we know about them (this way no one is mistaken for cheating).
As you can tell our relationship isn't based on love but our want to have our physical desires met. We are GOOD friends and if our physical relationship ends I'm more than confident we would stay friends.
Hope this helped/answered your question.