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confused about yourself before?
have you ever wondered out of the line. what i mean is, ever thought that you might be able to like someone of the same sex, and then be confused with yourself and wonder why you were even thinking that, then back out on those thoughts. Basically feel as if it could be possible but at the same time feel like it cant.
To be honest i have never felt confusion towards my gender identity or the objects of my affection, if i have to define myself i could say i am pansexual and mostly monogamous, even thought i have been in a couple of stress free open relationships i have never been able to love and care for more than one person at a time; i've had a number of casua...... reply
Honestly, being pan sexual hurts a bit. When I was little I never really understood why people detest same sex lovers. I grew up in a family that openly accepted same sex love and even encouraged it a bit. I even came out to my sex ed teacher as a pan sexual girl when I was in 8th grade. I have an extremely open mindset so it bothered me quite ...... 3 reply
I was confused with my sexuality back then, but as the saying goes "no one is really straight", I guess that must be it. Life is too short to be confused anyway. reply
Yes I was confused for a very long time about my sexuality because I always knew I wasn't straight especially when a guy came up to me with flowers asking if I wanted to go out with him but I didn't even feel anything I just thought the flowers were beautiful and I definitely knew I wasn't gay because I hate girls to my core so I thought I was mons...... reply
I thought I was straight until 17, when I had my first kiss with a girl. From then on I thought I was bi. But when I was 20 I figured I might as well be asexual. I'm 21 now, still feeling ace, but you never know, i guess. It might be so clear for some people but more difficult for others to figure out things reply
I think the beauty of living in the time we live in today is that sexuality and it's uncertainty is probably at its most accepted. Sexuality is a part of you, but it does not define you, you might like both genders, one gender, none but at the end of the day, let your feelings tell you who to love and not the box you put yourself in(gay, bi, asexua...... reply
I'm a lesbian. I came up with this conclusion like two years ago I guess, when I fell in love with my best friend. At first I was kind of confused because I thought that it was just jeaulousy over her being with other people. But it never really bother me. I think that the hardest part to deal with was that I had a crush on my best friend, and I di...... 4 reply
I personally like the metaphor that sexuality is a spectrum. So between straight and gay/lesbian, everyone can find their own place in that scale whether that is completely straight, gay, or bi. Or more commonly in some space in between.
As a 15-year-old girl, I'm still unsure but I would probably place myself as bi, but slightly more attracted to...... reply
Yes, for a couple of years now I thought that I was straight but no one can imagine me dating a guy, but I actually don't care who I date anymore if I love someone than I'll go for them I'm not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.
I'm pansexual reply
well i am a girl and i am 21 years old and i am still confused about my sexuallity
i think i might be bi......well i am not so sure
when my sexual desires are high i do not care even if i have to sleep with a girl to calm myself down but when i calm down and think it over again i am more into guys...what is your opinion am i maybe bi???? or my sex...... 2 reply
