There's nothing wrong with LDR's but please make sure that you're treated right.

My first relationship was a LDR and lasted about one or one and half years. The guy turned out to be a serious cheater. We talked about it and I thought that he changed but I found out even after he was caught that he never broke up with any of us. I got tired of it and just cut off connection and never looked back.

My second LDR was my longest relationship and lasted two and half years. He was a real savior at first and helped me get back on my feet after my first relationship. Things were great and then slowly things started to change. We broke up once and then got back together a month or two later. Things were great again and I felt like I had my best friend back. Slowly once again things started to go downhill and it turned into emotional abuse. I started to hear from him less and less and our conversations were so short when we did talk. I didn't want to leave him though because that was my best friend. We had been together for two and a half years. That's a long time to spend in a close relationship with someone and I was afraid to lose that. I remember sending a text one day that was like a paragraph long just asking what I could do to put things back to normal and that we wouldn't be able to fix anything if we didn't talk like this. I was so scared to hit the send button. When he replied he seemed pretty relaxed and just sent one sentence asking if we could talk online because he didn't want to text everything out and even sent a laughing emoji. I was so confused but also kind of hopeful since his mood seemed ok. He ended up telling me that he just basically didn't love me anymore and we never talked again. I remember crying so hard when he ended things. It's been almost 3 years now. I still miss what we had sometimes but I know that it was unhealthy. I just miss having a friend like that. We would talk for hours and hours every single day in the beginning. I don't do relationships anymore. I don't know what happened but I just feel so trapped in them now. I miss being in a happy relationship with my best friend but until I find myself ready for that again and find someone to spend my time on I'm happy just living my life and bettering myself.

There's nothing wrong with LDR's but please make sure that you're treated right. You are most important.