As a bisexual I will bluntly state that my romantic history has always ended in disaster. Every girl I ever liked was either straight or had zero interest in me. One girl event went as far to cyber bully me on the internet. Guys were rough as well since several of them refused to date me because of my ethnic background. I'm just never anyone's type for some reason.
Only a select group of friends on campus know about my love of anime and other nerdy past times. But the people I am interested in are not what you call the nerdy type. I have little interest in dating nerdy guys. In fact, I have a history of dating super athletic "jocks." The one guy I dated in high school was a varsity football player and also played basketball and baseball.
Back to college, My anime friends always scream at me to stop falling for the "fuckboys" but it just keeps happening. I don't like nerdy guys because I had a very bad weeaboo phase when I was a 13. I need a guy who is going to keep me centered and focused.
I understand the whole bit with sharing interests but the idea of cosplaying and doing nerdy stuff with someone else is kind of embarrassing to me. I don't judge other people though, you do what makes you happy. I'm in a sorority so that definitely influences my preferences in dating guys or girls.
