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Just curious
So I have seen all these yaoi where straight guy falls in love with a guy or becomes gay. So i wanted to know if that can happen in real life or not ? can someone really change their sexual preference that easily ?
I feel the best real-life version of this is the adorable relationship between Jeffree Star & his boyfriend who, before Jeffree, had only ever been with women. It's not about his orientation changing, it's about love. It's meeting that one person who completes your soul & deciding to be with them. The two of them have a real-life yaoi romance and i...... 1 reply
True , i myself was straight until age 16~17 had a crush on same gender boy too because he changed me even i normally like girls but lost him later so because the pain was so strong i thought that wasnt a crush and just was like best friend or brother way of love , well later on since i never felt love again for years discover i became bisexual bec...... 1 reply
If theyre attracted to another boy then they're not straight, they're bisexual or pansexual. They probably never considered their possible attraction to the same sex because of heavily enforced societal gender roles and homophobia denying and condemning same sex attraction.
Before I knew what LGBT+ was, I only allowed myself to like men because y...... reply
Yes it's possible but it's not really easy, especially with the stigma that comes with being in the LGBT+ community. I use to consider myself straight until I started having a crush on a old high school friend of mine. After that I started to find certain girls attractive and realized that I was bisexual. Anything is possible as long as there is se...... 1 reply
I hold the belief that everyone is at least a little bit attracted to all genders, but I don't believe a person can "turn" gay. If a man finds he's attracted to another man after believing he's been straight for his whole life, he's not "turning gay", he's just probably bi or pansexual and hasn't found a guy he's been interested until then. I thoug...... 1 reply
It's a little more complicated IRL.
The easiest way to say things is to point you towards the Kinsey Scale. The Kinsey Scale has its flaws but the general premise holds up. That you have 'gay' where 10/10 times you pick a partner of the same gender. 'Bi' a 5/10 for both. Straight, a 10/10 for both. But then you have people who pick a same sex part...... 1 reply
I think so. To me sexuality is a very fluid concept. Even though I am a girl sometimes I feel attracted to girls but mostly to guys. It just depends on the person. I think the only reason people say they are gay or straight is because society says that is how people are supposed to be as if there is only one way to go. But if the barriers that have...... reply
Well, I personally think it's as hard to turn straight guy into gay as it is to turn gay into straight. But who knows. I had this one acquaintance that always preferred guys over girls, but he fell madly in love with one girl, and they are happily married now with two little children. Also my fiancé's friend obviously has a crush on our friend who...... 1 reply
Happens all the time. It's surely not as easy as manga/anime portrays it, but it does happen. Sometimes it's about the person being bored of the same, ol' hetero sex, so tries to venture outside of his/her comfort zone for some extra pleasure... Other times, they just meet an incredible person of the same gender, and it turns into a crush, to full ...... reply