I'm gonna sound like a victim blamer but it's pretty obvious that while Ed's feelings were not as intense as they are right now, and we the audience know this because we see him, he was also keeping his distance to show no weakness and protect her, but if we subtract that, it was very clear that his actions were lut of consideration for her poor health.
I say this as someone with low self esteem, but it is very easy to take other people's actions personally and view it as them seeing u a cerain kinda way.
Cause of her dad's terrible behaviour she assumed Ed must think poorly of her as well.
I was honestly suprised when the female lead said Ed treated her terribly cause literally everything he did in the flashback was just "oh this seems like it'd bother u, don't worry about it" and it was her that assumed he didn't care about her.
Like literally she looks like she'd die from a heart attck by light jogging, why would brody with his huge muscles and unlimited stamina risk having sex with her.
She also doesn't interact with ppl alot so he assumed she wouldn't want to.
While it's not entirely her fault for not speaking up more, he's not a mind reader so he couldn't possibly know she was upset unless he rold her.
It literally reminded me of this insta post this girl made about how ladies should try their best to break out of social conditioninf and be more honest with their feelings. She made a skit about how she was feeling sick and her boyfriend literally asked if he should stay with her since she's feeling unwell and she said no cause she didn't want bother him.
When he came back she was angry and was resenting him.
In the skit she clearly stares that he did nothing wrong, and even if she was expecting him to stay anyway or insist more so she could feel like saying yes, there's no way he would know that.
Yet all the comments were saying he was in the wrong and was a terrible person for not staying with her against her wishes and that he should have insisted.
Like?!?!?@?
Anyway maybe the webtoon will address it cause that seemed like where the flashback was heading to me.
Even me, i know i have a habit of taking things to personally. I assume someone was rude to me because i look like someone that ppl just think it's ok to treat like trash. When in actuality that person could just be rude, having a bad day or literally wasn't rude at all and I just got butthurt cause of my own assumptions.
I'm gonna sound like a victim blamer but it's pretty obvious that while Ed's feelings were not as intense as they are right now, and we the audience know this because we see him, he was also keeping his distance to show no weakness and protect her, but if we subtract that, it was very clear that his actions were lut of consideration for her poor health.
I say this as someone with low self esteem, but it is very easy to take other people's actions personally and view it as them seeing u a cerain kinda way.
Cause of her dad's terrible behaviour she assumed Ed must think poorly of her as well.
I was honestly suprised when the female lead said Ed treated her terribly cause literally everything he did in the flashback was just "oh this seems like it'd bother u, don't worry about it" and it was her that assumed he didn't care about her.
Like literally she looks like she'd die from a heart attck by light jogging, why would brody with his huge muscles and unlimited stamina risk having sex with her.
She also doesn't interact with ppl alot so he assumed she wouldn't want to.
While it's not entirely her fault for not speaking up more, he's not a mind reader so he couldn't possibly know she was upset unless he rold her.
It literally reminded me of this insta post this girl made about how ladies should try their best to break out of social conditioninf and be more honest with their feelings. She made a skit about how she was feeling sick and her boyfriend literally asked if he should stay with her since she's feeling unwell and she said no cause she didn't want bother him.
When he came back she was angry and was resenting him.
In the skit she clearly stares that he did nothing wrong, and even if she was expecting him to stay anyway or insist more so she could feel like saying yes, there's no way he would know that.
Yet all the comments were saying he was in the wrong and was a terrible person for not staying with her against her wishes and that he should have insisted.
Like?!?!?@?
Anyway maybe the webtoon will address it cause that seemed like where the flashback was heading to me.
Even me, i know i have a habit of taking things to personally. I assume someone was rude to me because i look like someone that ppl just think it's ok to treat like trash. When in actuality that person could just be rude, having a bad day or literally wasn't rude at all and I just got butthurt cause of my own assumptions.