Yep, same here. It's though obvious that yaoi is also an open door for many weird things. Aside the generic Seme-Uke thing and some tendencies, are in the front line all this abuse love, bdsm stuff etc...
I tend more and more to avoid too strange yaoi and weird tastes that are too far from mines lately... There are authors that I won't read knowing the kind of stories they make or artstyle they draw...
i wonder what you have seen
I have to admit, although I am a Fujoshi, sometimes I come across really disgusting mangas or extremely weird mangas. Has it happened to you?