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エル February 26, 2017 3:12 pm

seriously siwon why do you even bother with him.. jinha is too immature for you. At this rate I don't even think they belong together. It's like all Jinha wants is a romantic relationship with Siwon when clearly it doesn't work like THAT. He's literally forcing his feelings onto Siwon and then gets butthurt when Siwon won't reciprocate. At least Siwon was trying to be friendly even if Jinha's being a dick

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    LyfeTyme February 26, 2017 3:35 pm

    its because siwon cares for jinha......thats why he never gives up,and he remembers everything....jinha is being all mean to siwon because siwon did some bad things to jinha...but siwon saw the past,and finally understands..

    astralsensei February 27, 2017 12:57 am
    its because siwon cares for jinha......thats why he never gives up,and he remembers everything....jinha is being all mean to siwon because siwon did some bad things to jinha...but siwon saw the past,and finally... LyfeTyme

    i seriously don't see them as lovers just really gay best friends basically free!

    LyfeTyme February 27, 2017 1:19 am

    well,atleast be considerate cause some people here have different opinions.

    astralsensei February 27, 2017 1:23 am
    well,atleast be considerate cause some people here have different opinions. LyfeTyme

    I agree with you completely, we all have different point of views

    エル February 27, 2017 3:25 am
    i seriously don't see them as lovers just really gay best friends basically free! astralsensei

    me too.. even if they end up together I don't think it would be a healthy relationship. At least not until Jinha learns how to be more considerate and stops playing the victim

    エル February 27, 2017 3:30 am
    its because siwon cares for jinha......thats why he never gives up,and he remembers everything....jinha is being all mean to siwon because siwon did some bad things to jinha...but siwon saw the past,and finally... LyfeTyme

    that just proves that siwon is being more mature than jinha is. Jinha is being mean to Siwon because Siwon didn't remember him (which is pretty reasonable because some people's face changes over the years), and then he overheard Siwon talking to his friend and jumped to conclusions that Siwon hates gay people.. oh and never forget that he took advantage of siwon once, of course anyone would be pissed. At least Siwon is mature enough to attempt to fix their broken friendship. But all Jinha does is pitying himself

    Lucyy February 27, 2017 4:14 am
    that just proves that siwon is being more mature than jinha is. Jinha is being mean to Siwon because Siwon didn't remember him (which is pretty reasonable because some people's face changes over the years), and... エル

    I'm partly, only partly agree with you on this. Why are ppl getting mad about siwon and keep dissing on him while he does nothing wrong? He was drunk at that time and he has been trying to explain and saying sorry over and over again.
    But personally I don't think Jinha is trying to play the victim or anything, I think he gets it, the fact that siwon didn't remember him is completely acceptable for him. but maybe it is just too painful, to know that the person he has always loved for more than 10 years didn't have any memory and feelings towards him at all.
    I believe Jinha just wants to avoid siwon for some time to recover and heal his broken heart (by not seeing his face and by meeting up with new ppl). By doing these things, Jinha is trying to give up on Siwon, not because he actually thinks it is siwon's fault.

    LyfeTyme February 27, 2017 12:35 pm
    me too.. even if they end up together I don't think it would be a healthy relationship. At least not until Jinha learns how to be more considerate and stops playing the victim エル

    agreed.

    エル February 28, 2017 12:39 pm
    I'm partly, only partly agree with you on this. Why are ppl getting mad about siwon and keep dissing on him while he does nothing wrong? He was drunk at that time and he has been trying to explain and saying so... Lucyy

    yeah but he wasn't really gentle about it. I know he was trying to give up on siwon but surely acting civil wouldn't hurt, right? Or he could've said "Sorry please don't talk to me for a while I needed space" and be done with it. Siwon would probably understand. And it's not like Jinha was completely without fault. Did he ever apologize for taking advantage of Siwon? I'm pretty sure he didn't. He got angry instead at siwon for not 'remembering' it. You know this heartache could've been avoided if Jinha just sucked it up and re-intoduced himself to Siwon from the start

    Lucyy February 28, 2017 3:03 pm
    yeah but he wasn't really gentle about it. I know he was trying to give up on siwon but surely acting civil wouldn't hurt, right? Or he could've said "Sorry please don't talk to me for a while I needed space" a... エル

    Jinha didn't know Siwon was that type of person who forgot everything after being drunk so it can't be considered as taking advantage. Taking advantage is when you know for sure they can't discover the truth afterwards so you did the crime, but Jinha on the other hand, thought Siwon was aware of the situation and even became shocked when discovered the truth (that Siwon couldn't remember him) remember?
    And yeah he could just have said gently "please don't talk to me I need space" or sth like that and reintroduce himself to SW, but from what we've learnt, that totally is not his personality at all. I know his high ego is a weakness, but nobody is perfect. For me, that reason only is a little bit too weak to say Jinha does not deserve Siwon.

    エル March 1, 2017 9:05 am
    Jinha didn't know Siwon was that type of person who forgot everything after being drunk so it can't be considered as taking advantage. Taking advantage is when you know for sure they can't discover the truth af... Lucyy

    actually it's still considered taking advantage .. when you're drunk you have no control over yourself, that means you have no ability to give proper consent. When you're drunk you're not your real self. It doesn't matter even if Siwon remembered afterwards. It's still considered a violation without consent. Jinha should've known that at the very least. That's why he should've apologized. And yeah I know his high ego is his biggest problem.. that's why I don't think he's suitable for Siwon, not until he learns to be more considerate and mature. The Jinha right now is too fragile for Siwon.