You are so gross.This is victim-blaming
you're being ridiculous. This was two big strong men who like each other, going through the process of becomming lovers. Neither of them is defenseless, and both of them want to have a relationship with one another. Refusing the kiss is all that was needed, but Singsing is not making a statement about consent. She is using these situations as comic and romantic entertainment. You're trying to apply it to real life, to justify your own ideas. To draw any kind of parallel with knives and violence and sexual assault is too extreme.
Finally an uke who can protect himself!!!