Blueturtle's Questions (3)

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/boku_wa_ninkimono/ this is one of my favorites
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yurusareta_uta/mf/v01/c001/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/retsujou/

thank you (●'◡'●)ﾉ

not necessarily. A straight person could find their own sex attractive, but still be straight. Its about having romantic feelings for that individual.

I think no
Sometimes I attract to same sex but it has a different feeling, like, the heart won't go "Ba-dum ba-dum" or something...
I mean you just say, "Oh she is beautiful" or "Oh he is handsome" and stop at that...

If you find them attractive the same way you find the oposite sex attractive, you could also be bi or pan ^^

I find many women attractive but I don't think I would necessarily develop feelings or sexual urgents towards them. I'm like straight as a ruler lol But it isn't as if I'm opposed to being in a relationship with another girl if I do end up liking her. According to manga logic, it doesn't make you gay if you like just that one person but can't get attracted to others your gender.

Sexuality is so versatile, so it's hard to say. But if you find yourself physically attracted to someone of the same gender, you are not entirely straight. You could just be a little bit bisexual, but favor the opposite gender. I honestly think all people have a little bisexuality in them, even if it's so slight that it is unnoticeable.
You also have to be able to differentiate between an emotional and physical attraction. It's difficult because they often go hand in hand. I am gay and have never experienced this, but I do know other gay guys who have been so emotionally attracted to a female that it bordered romance - just that there wasn't enough pure physical attraction to get it up lol
So is it purely emotional or a little physical too? Only you can answer that question.

This is my opinion personally but I don't particularly like the terms like straight or gay, as to be honest i think that many people once they've categorised themself they may intentionally stop themselves from liking someone outside of what they claim to like. Just because you may have never been attracted to someone white or oriental or whatever doesn't mean that you just rule them out completely for the future. So far I've only ever really been attracted to guys, likelihood is I'll probably hook up with only guys, but I don't know I'm pretty sure if Helen bonham Carter was in front of me I might melt into a puddle. I just don't like the idea of having to have this restraining title, if you like someone then you like someone.

And there's my deep rambling for today...

I understand what you're saying and a lot of people share a similar point of view. For me, broad labeling is fine because it makes it easier to explain something to others or help you understand something about yourself. However there is extreme labeling (especially in the LGBT community) that really gets out of hand an separates people for no reason. Like there are people who label their sexuality and then label their body type and then label themselves based on who they're attracted to and then further label themselves based on their fetishes.....it's insane. Just stop over-categorizing yourself and be the unique human that you are.

In my opinion, Gay, Straight, Bi and Asexual represents the broad spectrum of sexuality. Anything that branches off of those doesn't need a label. Why? Because these categories are first and foremost based on natural physical reactions to biological gender, followed by emotional attraction. Any further details about personal attraction are just personal details. But to each their own I guess.

In regards to labels stopping people from liking someone outside of that label, I can see that applying towards certain people, but not all. I'd say you really have to know yourself well to label your sexuality. Ever since elementary school (I am now 23) I have always been physically attracted to other males. I have been surrounded by so many types of females and I have had many many different types of emotional relationships with females. But I have never been physically attracted to them. It's just not written in my biology or spirit. However, I do have a taste in beauty and personality when it comes to women. I'm just not physically stimulated by it. And physical attraction, like most people, is important for me to have a romantic relationship with someone. Usually for me, the physical attraction comes before the emotional attraction (it's typical in nature) and sometimes the physical attraction develops after the emotional attraction. It's always males though.

Now I'm rambling xD
It's an interesting topic to talk about and everyone's experience is different. Just know yourself and be true to yourself.

Well how old are you? I think I was entered this world at young age too, but a lot of sensor for unappropriate stuff in my era.

Its not fine but you're gonna read it anyway ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

No, not really. A lot of under aged people fall into the pitfall to be addicted to manga because they were too young to learn discipline and self control without realizing it. Also this is a porn site.... so, no

Hun its not for under age but if you are gonna read it remember this there are so many things in Yaoi that you should definately not take seriously and it doesn't happen in real life .life rape after love no does not happen in reality okay now you are good to go .hope fiction won't affect you life like many people.say

I'm 13 (⌒▽⌒)

Yess thanks! ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

Yes I'll definitely remember that (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ thanks for your advice :D

Okay soldier now you are ready (≧∀≦) go break a leg

Well start with shonen ai :) yaoi may seem abit excess at the beginning but shonen ai are perfect :)

I started reading yaoi at 11 =)) lolol. No regrets tho xD

Thanks :D I think I'll enjoy reading yaoi more in the future too! (=・ω・=)

I actually start since a few years ago between 11 or 12 but yaoi manga sure is nice!! XD

Yess thanks a lot :D I love shounen ai too <3

I see a lot of weird and disturbing things posted by really young kids here, so the age limit is not decided just because someone was bored, that's one thing I've learned xD .
Just take it slow, don't go overboard with disturbing and fucked up stuff.
It's also interesting to read some stuff a few years later, you see how much you have matured, and how differently you interpreter the story :D

I became aware of Yaoi anime/manga at that age too! I wasn't curious so...(￣∇￣)

I started reading when I was 12 and I just have to tell you this yaoi/yuri =/= real life same sex couples. Take everything here with a grain of salt.

Was* anyways it's not weird but u might get judged for doing so? Idk i never told people i liked yaoi

I start reading yaoi at a young age of 10 when my elder sister started and I think it's fine ;)

Yes some of my friends don't like homosexuals so I don't think I should tell them, they are so jugdemental and I don't like it (〜￣△￣)〜

Yeah :D yesterday I read the first manga when I started reading yaoi and I just realized that it was hardcore smut Σ( ￣□￣||) but at that time I was too young to understand it tho xD