Finder (Yaoi) manga

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Yamane Ayano 2001 released.
Action / Drama / Mature / Yaoi
ファインダーの標的; ファインダーの檻; ファインダーの渇望; ファインダーの熱情; ファインダーの真実; ファインダーの虜囚; ファインダーの隻翼; ファインダーの渇望; 探索者系列; Viewfinder; Viewfinder Series; Finder no Hyouteki; Finder no Netsujou; Finder no Ori; Finder no Ryoshuu; Finder no Sekiyoku; Finder no Shinjitsu; Finder no Katsubou; Finder Series; Target in the Viewfinder; Cage in the Viewfinder; One Wing in the Viewfinder; Prisoner in the Viewfinder; Truth in the Viewfinder; Passion in the Viewfinder; Desire in the Viewfinder; You're My Loveprize in Viewfinder
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Summary

The following content is intended for mature audiences and may contain sexual themes, gore, violence and/or strong language. Discretion is advised.

Vol 1: Target in the Finder (Finder no Hyouteki)
1. You're my Loveprize in Viewfinder: Freelance photographer Takaba Akihito is abducted by the powerhouse of the criminal underworld, Asami Ryuichi, who claims both Akihito’s body and soul. Not just for tonight, but forever...
2. Fixer: Again delving into the dark underworld, Akihito meets icy beauty, Fei Long- leader of Hong Kong’s mafia.
3. Embrace the Heat of the Night: Akihito is shocked when Asami show up on his doorstep, one stormy night.

Vol 2: Cage in the Finder (Finder no Ori)
1. Splendor of High Rises 1-4 (Kourou no Hana ~Unobtainable~): The fateful tale of how Asami and Fei Long first met 7 years ago.
2. Body Chase: Working with a police detective, Akihito infiltrates Asami’s flagship club, Sion.

Vol 3: One Wing in the Finder (Finder no Sekiyoku)
1. Naked Truth 1-5: Tokyo arc. Just as Asami and Akihito are beginning to be drawn closer to each other, Akihito falls for a trap set by a vengeful Fei Long.
2. Love Surprise: On New Year’s Day, a very drunk Akihito repeatedly calls up Asami and harasses him over the phone.

Vol 4: Prisoner in the Finder (Finder no Ryoshuu)
1. Naked Truth 6-12: Hong Kong arc, Part 1
2. Takaba's Wonderful Day: After witnessing Akihito being humiliated on the job, Asami offers to take Akihito out for the evening.

Vol 5: Truth in the Finder (You're my Naked Truth in the Viewfinder) (Finder no Shinjitsu)
1. Naked Truth Zero: The story of how Fei Long and Yoh first met.
2. Naked Truth 13-18: The conclusion of Naked Truth, Hong Kong arc, Part 2
3. Naked Truth Extra 1 - Temporary Paradise (Naked Truth epilogue): Asami and Akihito spend time in the South Pacific while they both heal.

Vol 6: Passion in the Finder (Finder no Netsujou)
1. Naked Truth Extra 2 - Drowning in a Sea of Bloody Marys (continuation of Temporary Paradise): Akihito gives Asami a massage.
2. Escape & Love 1-5: Asami and Akihito return to Tokyo. Despite their clashing worlds, Akihito and Asami continue to be drawn to each other.

Vol. 7: Desire in the Finder (Finder no Katsubou)
1. Pray in the Abyss 1-9: Akihito splits his time between being Asami's cook (and housemate) and working as a daredevil photographer. But what happens when he catches another man weeping on Asami's perfectly tailored sleeve? Are business and pleasure about to mix in the worst possible way?
2. Takaba Akihito's Graceful Summer Holiday: Akihito and Asami both find ways to beat the heat.
3. Head of Department Takaba Akihito's Rose Colored Accomplishments: Akihito dreams that he is the General Manger of Takaba, Co., and attempts to bend subordinate Asami Ryuchi to his will.

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Chapters(68)

Finder Vol.8 Ch.53.7 : Vol 08 Extra - Limited Edition

May 17, 2016

Finder Vol.8 Ch.53.6 : Vol 08 Extra - Animate Edition

May 12, 2016

Finder Vol.8 Ch.65 : Special Edition Manga: The Failure of Taka-bunny

Feb 29, 2016

Finder Vol.8 Ch.63 : Secret Agreement in the Viewfinder :Pray in the Abyss 18

Jul 13, 2015

Finder Vol.8 Ch.62 : Secret Agreement in the Viewfinder :Pray in the Abyss 17

May 5, 2015

Finder Vol.8 Ch.61 : Secret Agreement in the Viewfinder :Pray in the Abyss 16

Mar 4, 2015

Finder Vol.8 Ch.60 : Secret Agreement in the Viewfinder :Pray in the Abyss 15

Dec 30, 2014

Finder Vol.8 Ch.59 : Secret Agreement in the Viewfinder :Pray in the Abyss 14

Oct 31, 2014

Finder Vol.8 Ch.58 : Secret Agreement in the Viewfinder :Pray in the Abyss 13

Sep 5, 2014

Finder Vol.8 Ch.57 : Secret Agreement in the Viewfinder :Pray in the Abyss 12

Jul 17, 2014

Finder Vol.8 Ch.64 : Finder Series Extra 5: The Onslaught of Love of the Diligent Photographer Takaba Akihito

Jul 21, 2014

Finder Vol.8 Ch.56 : Secret Agreement in the Viewfinder :u00a0Pray in the Abyss 11

Jun 2, 2014

Finder Vol.8 Ch.55 : Secret Agreement in the Viewfinder : Pray in the Abyss 10

Mar 7, 2014

Finder Vol.7 Ch.54 : Finder Series Extra 4: Hardworking Manager Takaba Akihito's Seductive Night of Overtime

Sep 21, 2013

Finder Vol.7 Ch.53 : Finder Series Extra 3: The Day Businessman Asami Ryuichi's Little Monster Arrived

Sep 21, 2013

Finder Vol.7 Ch.52 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Head of Department Takaba Akihito's Rose Colored Accomplishments

Apr 3, 2013

Finder Vol.7 Ch.51 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Hardworking Photographer Takaba Akihito's Summer Story

Mar 20, 2013

Finder Vol.7 Ch.50 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Takaba Akihito's Graceful Summer Holiday

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.7 Ch.49 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Pray in the Abyss 9

Apr 30, 2013

Finder Vol.7 Ch.48 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Pray in the Abyss 8

Mar 18, 2013

Finder Vol.7 Ch.47 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Pray in the Abyss 7

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.7 Ch.46 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Pray in the Abyss 6

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.7 Ch.45 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Pray in the Abyss 5

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.7 Ch.44 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Pray in the Abyss 4

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.7 Ch.43 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Pray in the Abyss 3

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.7 Ch.42 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Pray in the Abyss 2

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.7 Ch.41 : Desire in the Viewfinder: Pray in the Abyss 1

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.7 Ch.40 : Finder no Rakuin: Fei Long and Tao Extra

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.6 Ch.39 : Finder Series Extra 2- The Romantic Life of Service of Hard-working Photographer Takaba Akihito

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.6 Ch.38 : Finder Series Extra 1- Hard-working Photographer Takaba Akihito's Fulfilling Life as a Housewife

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.6 Ch.37 : Passion within the Viewfinder: Secretary's Duty

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.6 Ch.36 : Passion within the Viewfinder: Escape and Love 5

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.6 Ch.35 : Passion within the Viewfinder: Escape and Love 4

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.6 Ch.34 : Passion within the Viewfinder: Escape and Love 3

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.6 Ch.33 : Passion within the Viewfinder: Escape and Love 2

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.6 Ch.32 : Passion within the Viewfinder: Escape and Love 1

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.6 Ch.31 : Passion within the Viewfinder: Naked Truth Extra 2- Drowning in a Sea of Bloody Marys

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.5 Ch.30 : Truth in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth Extra 1- Temporary Paradise

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.5 Ch.29 : Truth in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 18 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.5 Ch.28 : Truth in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 17 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.5 Ch.27 : Truth in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 16 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.5 Ch.26 : Truth in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 14 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.5 Ch.25 : Truth in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 15 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.5 Ch.24 : Truth in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 13 [Hong Kong

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.5 Ch.23 : Truth in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth Zero [Hong Kong] Extra Episode

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.4 Ch.22 : Prisoner in the Viewfinder: Extra- The Labor Cameraman Takaba's Wonderful Day

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.4 Ch.21 : Prisoner in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 12 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.4 Ch.20 : Prisoner in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 11 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.4 Ch.19 : Prisoner in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 10 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.4 Ch.18 : Prisoner in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 9 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.4 Ch.17 : Prisoner in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 8 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.4 Ch.16 : Prisoner in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 7 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.4 Ch.15 : Prisoner in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 6 [Hong Kong]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.3 Ch.15 : One Wing in the Viewfinder: Character Profiles

Apr 4, 2016

Finder Vol.3 Ch.14 : One Wing in the Viewfinder: Love Surprise

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.3 Ch.13 : One Wing in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 5 [Tokyo]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.3 Ch.12 : One Wing in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 4 [Tokyo]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.3 Ch.11 : One Wing in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 3 [Tokyo]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.3 Ch.10 : One Wing in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 2 [Tokyo]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.3 Ch.9 : One Wing in the Viewfinder: Naked Truth 1 [Tokyo]

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.2 Ch.8 : Cage in the Viewfinder: Flower on the High Loft 4

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.2 Ch.7 : Cage in the Viewfinder: Flower on the High Loft 3

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.2 Ch.6 : Cage in the Viewfinder: Flower on the High Loft 2

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.2 Ch.5 : Cage in the Viewfinder: Flower on the High Loft 1

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.2 Ch.4 : Cage in the Viewfinder: Bodychase

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.1 Ch.3 : Target in the Viewfinder: Embrace the Heat of the Night

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.1 Ch.2 : Target in the Viewfinder: Fixer

Feb 11, 2011

Finder Vol.1 Ch.1 : Target in the Viewfinder: You're my Love Prize in Viewfinder

Feb 11, 2011
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9340 Topics

  1. pls? July 30, 2016 1:05 am

    More jealous Asami pleaseeee. The most recent time was when Aki returned after running away and he thought Aki had another guy. Need more jealous Asami because we've already seen jealous Aki many times! It's got to be more even and don't forget the hotness *_*

  2. Anonymous July 28, 2016 9:27 pm

    I'm hoping that if Yamane-sensei is releasing a chapter in October she'll also do the front cover for the Be-boy Gold magazine. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    • shizu July 28, 2016 7:09 am

      So Ji Sub!! ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

    • Anonymous July 28, 2016 7:42 am

      Another generic handsome korean actor...but hes no Asami.

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 29, 2016 2:40 pm
      Another generic handsome korean actor...but hes no Asami. @Anonymous

      So Ji-sub is not generic. He did a great job in Sorry I love You. But Asami is Japanese.

      Consider someone such as Satosh Tsumabuki:

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satoshi_Tsumabuki

      Compare his facial fetures and skin tone to Korean actors and you will start to see the difference.

    • Silencia
      July 26, 2016 5:22 pm

      I might have squeed... a little...

    • eworth July 26, 2016 5:24 pm
      I might have squeed... a little... Silencia

      Completely understandable.

    • Anonymous July 26, 2016 5:40 pm

      Holy lord of yaoi! I definitely squeed. And I think I also died. And I just realized I've been living for this.
      Thanks a bunch for sharing!

    • LadyLigeia July 26, 2016 5:44 pm

      Sensei gave us the miracle!!!!

    • Snark Mark July 26, 2016 6:19 pm

      Oooh, I was secretly hoping for this! :) I had a feeling that might be the case, given the latest plot development. I just hope that sensei uses him a bit mor original this time and actually makes him an ally instead of a foe. I would like that very much. One way or another, she is gathering some big players at the table, isn't she? I'm looking forward to see how the story evolves.

      Thank you for posting this, eworth, much appreciated! :)

    • tokidoki
      July 26, 2016 7:07 pm

      I think is .... squeeeee! .... great - always did like interesting antagonists and she spent so much .... squeeee! .... time building his backstory and his organisation ...

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 26, 2016 8:28 pm

      A little squeeing might not be out of line.

      ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

    • Reality bites July 28, 2016 11:42 am

      thank you for that info.

  3. Anonymous July 25, 2016 1:56 am

    Every time I try and enjoy the story I get pop ups on top of fucking pop ups. I cannot download a ad blocker because I cannot afford a computer. Using a goddamn kindle. Sue me.

    • Helping Helper July 25, 2016 3:21 am

      I had the same problem! Just put the website into desktop mode (it should be in the little menu by the bookmark-thing, but I don't know what kindle you have so I can't be sure if its the same for yours) and that should fix it!

    • adss arghh July 25, 2016 4:53 am

      i agree so much! the mobile version of mangago is so annoying because ads constantly popup every few seconds! i recommend download the app puffin because it blocks the ads for you :( hopefully they fix this soon

    • LizMars89
      July 25, 2016 10:19 am

      Oh my gosh, I'm glad I'm not the only one experiencing a ridiculous amount of pop ups lately. It NEVER happened on this site until just recently. I have no idea what happened, but It is freakin ANNOYING.

    • Anonymous July 25, 2016 1:32 pm

      It's how the site makes money. Every hit on an ad pays the website owners. It's why they do this: to make money, not to provide you with manga to read for free. There is an adblock browser for Android, give that a try.

    • Senpai's Ass
      July 26, 2016 2:52 pm

      Oh shit i clicked annoying on accident when i was scrolling shit sorry (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

    • Amour
      July 29, 2016 4:36 am

      For me when I go onto mobile log into my account and use the multi pages feature which reduces the number of ads by 90% and makes it easier to read since all you have to do is scroll (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

  4. Anoni Grrl
    July 24, 2016 4:26 pm

    So if you had to pick a theme song for your favorite side character, what would it be?

    I would pick Spy in the House of Love by Was (Not Was) for Kuroda.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k8PjjxJ7v78

    • LadyLigeia July 24, 2016 5:04 pm

      I like old songs:
      The nightingale by Julee Cruise for: Feilong, Yoh and Tao
      https://youtu.be/c8MLRVsoE8w

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 24, 2016 5:19 pm
      I like old songs: The nightingale by Julee Cruise for: Feilong, Yoh and Tao https://youtu.be/c8MLRVsoE8w LadyLigeia

      Aww..that has a great vibe.

    • Anonymous July 25, 2016 12:58 am

      Your Love Is The Greatest Gift Of All by Michelle Wright for: Asami and Takaba.

    • tokidoki
      July 25, 2016 1:35 am

      "You're So Vain" for Sudou

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 25, 2016 1:42 am
      "You're So Vain" for Sudou tokidoki

      Hee hee. I like that.

    • souleaterG
      July 25, 2016 2:44 am
      Hee hee. I like that. Anoni Grrl

      Off to the races by Lana del ray for akihito and asami (sorry the're not side characters, I just thought the song suited them) (❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    • tokidoki
      July 25, 2016 2:55 am
      Hee hee. I like that. Anoni Grrl

      Just thought of one for Sakazaki - "I 'm Too Sexy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5mtclwloEQ - maybe

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 25, 2016 5:42 am
      Off to the races by Lana del ray for akihito and asami (sorry the're not side characters, I just thought the song suited them) (❀╹◡╹)ノ~ souleaterG

      People will do as they do. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 25, 2016 5:43 am
      Just thought of one for Sakazaki - "I 'm Too Sexy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5mtclwloEQ - maybe tokidoki

      LOL That fits.

    • Snark Mark July 25, 2016 12:02 pm
      Just thought of one for Sakazaki - "I 'm Too Sexy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5mtclwloEQ - maybe tokidoki

      Lol, Tokidoki, I swear that was the the first thought I had when I saw AG's opening post. :D Great minds think alike!

    • Snark Mark July 25, 2016 12:36 pm

      Not for a a specific character, but you just have to throw Marvin Gaye's "Sexual Healing" in there somewhere. ;) Not the exact lyrics as such, but the song and the sensual vibe...

      ASAMI: At first I thought of Salt N Pepa feat En Vogue - "Whatta Man"? *grins* Just kidding. No, the song I would choose for him is by French singer Guesch Partie - "Etienne". That song was hot as f... The English translation is incredibly tame, the french lyrics are so much more erotic. But you will get the general idea... ;)

      http://lyricstranslate.com/en/etienne-etienne.html-0

      AKIHITO: Considering Akihito's strength and resiliance and given all that he's been through, maybe Destiny's Child - "Survivor".


      Btw, Sara Bareilles - "Gravity" might have been a nice choice for that time when Akihito tried to run away from Asami, as it deals with the complexity of relationships. Again, not the exact words so much and not for their relationship in general, but the vibe of the song seemed to go along with Akihito's downcast mood at the time. Plus, it's a gorgeous song. :)

      https://play.google.com/music/preview/Tbjvtaoznly3uqxfwc4w3ffa7qe?lyrics=1&utm_source=google&utm_medium=search&utm_campaign=lyrics&pcampaignid=kp-lyrics

    • LadyLigeia July 25, 2016 1:44 pm
      Not for a a specific character, but you just have to throw Marvin Gaye's "Sexual Healing" in there somewhere. ;) Not the exact lyrics as such, but the song and the sensual vibe... ASAMI: At first I thought of S... Snark Mark

      Sexual healing!

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 25, 2016 2:28 pm
      Not for a a specific character, but you just have to throw Marvin Gaye's "Sexual Healing" in there somewhere. ;) Not the exact lyrics as such, but the song and the sensual vibe... ASAMI: At first I thought of S... Snark Mark

      Great choices. I think Sexual Healing works for the island time.

    • Anonymous July 25, 2016 3:49 pm

      I like Musicals, so I thought Unusual Way from Nine would fit Feilong...and then there's Goldeneye. And speaking of James Bond songs, Nobody does it better wouldn't be too bad a fit for Akihito.

      As for Asami...
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LzaSBzs8mYE

    • LadyLigeia July 25, 2016 4:14 pm
      I like Musicals, so I thought Unusual Way from Nine would fit Feilong...and then there's Goldeneye. And speaking of James Bond songs, Nobody does it better wouldn't be too bad a fit for Akihito.As for Asami...h... @Anonymous

      (≧∀≦) 'Macho man' fits better with Sakazaki in my opinion. Probably it may sound weird but the song: ' You belong to the city' by Glenn Frey, always make me think about Asami (●'◡'●)ノ

    • tokidoki
      July 25, 2016 6:04 pm
      Lol, Tokidoki, I swear that was the the first thought I had when I saw AG's opening post. :D Great minds think alike! Snark Mark

      Oh yes, especially if you watch the video - "Fred" is as smarmy as Sakazaki LOL

    • Snark Mark July 25, 2016 8:03 pm
      Great choices. I think Sexual Healing works for the island time. Anoni Grrl

      Oooh, you're right! Hadn't even thought of that! :)

    • Snark Mark July 25, 2016 8:07 pm
      Oh yes, especially if you watch the video - "Fred" is as smarmy as Sakazaki LOL tokidoki

      Lol, he is - what I loved about these lads was the fact that they never pretended to be any good or have an ounce of talent. They were very deprecative about it all with a little wink and a grin on the side.

    • Snark Mark July 25, 2016 8:09 pm
      (≧∀≦) 'Macho man' fits better with Sakazaki in my opinion. Probably it may sound weird but the song: ' You belong to the city' by Glenn Frey, always make me think about Asami (●'◡'●)ノ LadyLigeia

      Oooooooooh, yes! "You belong to the city" is such a perfect one for Asami. Great choice, Lady! :) And I LOVE that song.

    • Snark Mark July 25, 2016 8:10 pm
      I like Musicals, so I thought Unusual Way from Nine would fit Feilong...and then there's Goldeneye. And speaking of James Bond songs, Nobody does it better wouldn't be too bad a fit for Akihito.As for Asami...h... @Anonymous

      Speaking of James Bond... How about "To live and let die?" Another great Bond tune fitting for Asami. :)

    • Snark Mark July 25, 2016 8:24 pm

      Just remembered another nice one for Asami: Sting - "Moon over Bourbon Street". :)

    • LadyLigeia July 25, 2016 8:43 pm
      Oooooooooh, yes! "You belong to the city" is such a perfect one for Asami. Great choice, Lady! :) And I LOVE that song. Snark Mark

      'Cause you belong to the city
      You belong to the night
      Living in a river of darkness, beneath the neon light
      You were born in the city
      Concrete under your feet
      It's in your moves, it's in your blood
      You're a man of the street.

    • Snark Mark July 26, 2016 1:22 am
      'Cause you belong to the cityYou belong to the nightLiving in a river of darkness, beneath the neon lightYou were born in the cityConcrete under your feetIt's in your moves, it's in your bloodYou're a man of th... LadyLigeia

      These lyrics are just so, so perfect. :)

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 26, 2016 1:41 am
      I like Musicals, so I thought Unusual Way from Nine would fit Feilong...and then there's Goldeneye. And speaking of James Bond songs, Nobody does it better wouldn't be too bad a fit for Akihito.As for Asami...h... @Anonymous

      I had to look that up--but it's good.

    • Senpai's Ass
      July 26, 2016 3:09 pm

      I like "Pacify her" by Melanie Martinez for Sudou

    • Silencia
      July 26, 2016 5:26 pm
      Just thought of one for Sakazaki - "I 'm Too Sexy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5mtclwloEQ - maybe tokidoki

      <3 I see your "I'm Too Sexy" and raise you "Sexy and I Know It" by LMFAO. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wyx6JDQCslE

      I love Sakazaki, so he deserves twice the sexy comedy. <3

    • tokidoki
      July 26, 2016 6:02 pm
      <3 I see your "I'm Too Sexy" and raise you "Sexy and I Know It" by LMFAO. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wyx6JDQCslEI love Sakazaki, so he deserves twice the sexy comedy. <3 Silencia

      OMG that 'wiggle' was too funny (you could not take your eyes off it) - you win

    • Silencia
      July 26, 2016 6:19 pm
      OMG that 'wiggle' was too funny (you could not take your eyes off it) - you win tokidoki

      LOL If I were a man, that's exactly how I would live my life. I'd helicopter all over the place LOL

    • tokidoki
      July 26, 2016 6:58 pm
      LOL If I were a man, that's exactly how I would live my life. I'd helicopter all over the place LOL Silencia

      Oi! Too much information! (kidding) That video was so over the top funny, but is it sad of me to say that I wish it had been anime instead of real people? That I prefer the 2D to 3D? These guys were so smarmy, that I would never want to meet them in real life ...

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 26, 2016 8:33 pm
      Oi! Too much information! (kidding) That video was so over the top funny, but is it sad of me to say that I wish it had been anime instead of real people? That I prefer the 2D to 3D? These guys were so smarmy, ... tokidoki

      Sadly, often it is not an option. It's best to laugh.

    • Silencia
      July 26, 2016 11:07 pm
      Oi! Too much information! (kidding) That video was so over the top funny, but is it sad of me to say that I wish it had been anime instead of real people? That I prefer the 2D to 3D? These guys were so smarmy, ... tokidoki

      Yesssssss! Just the visuals in my head of that whole video in 2D with my favorite smarmy characters... Makes me wish I was a one-woman animation team.

    • tokidoki
      July 26, 2016 11:56 pm
      Yesssssss! Just the visuals in my head of that whole video in 2D with my favorite smarmy characters... Makes me wish I was a one-woman animation team. Silencia

      Ahahahaha - can you see Asami in a thong shaking his groove thang? Or - here I betray some of my ships - Roy Mustang, or Abel Nightroad, Byakuya Kuchki, or Kanda Yuu? Aieeeee!

    • Silencia
      July 27, 2016 1:48 am
      Ahahahaha - can you see Asami in a thong shaking his groove thang? Or - here I betray some of my ships - Roy Mustang, or Abel Nightroad, Byakuya Kuchki, or Kanda Yuu? Aieeeee! tokidoki

      OMG! Can I see it??? Can I???? And Aki needs to be the photographer. Bam. There's the plot for the next alternate reality...

    • tokidoki
      July 27, 2016 3:43 am
      OMG! Can I see it??? Can I???? And Aki needs to be the photographer. Bam. There's the plot for the next alternate reality... Silencia

      Challenge accepted - take a peek ... http://www.mangago.me/home/album/3878/

    • tokidoki
      July 27, 2016 4:10 am
      OMG! Can I see it??? Can I???? And Aki needs to be the photographer. Bam. There's the plot for the next alternate reality... Silencia

      better link . .. http://www.mangago.me/home/photo/838558/

    • Silencia
      July 27, 2016 4:38 am
      better link . .. http://www.mangago.me/home/photo/838558/ tokidoki

      Epic!! And I think we completely hijacked this thread. Worth it.

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 27, 2016 2:05 pm
      Epic!! And I think we completely hijacked this thread. Worth it. Silencia

      LOL. I officially give the conversation permission to go wherever it wants to go.

    • Snark Mark July 27, 2016 6:23 pm
      Ahahahaha - can you see Asami in a thong shaking his groove thang? Or - here I betray some of my ships - Roy Mustang, or Abel Nightroad, Byakuya Kuchki, or Kanda Yuu? Aieeeee! tokidoki

      Honestly, I never thought I'd ever see the words "Asami", "thong" and "groove thang" in one sentence. ;)

    • tokidoki
      July 27, 2016 6:57 pm

      Did you have a peek at the picture of Asami in a thong? I drew it myself - so it is not great, but it is pretty funny - now if only I could turn it into a gif and have him actually shake it ....

    • tokidoki
      July 27, 2016 6:57 pm
      Honestly, I never thought I'd ever see the words "Asami", "thong" and "groove thang" in one sentence. ;) Snark Mark

      Opps - see reply below - my computer bumped me out of reply to you

    • Silencia
      July 27, 2016 7:46 pm
      LOL. I officially give the conversation permission to go wherever it wants to go. Anoni Grrl

      Woot! Let the madness continue!! You're awesome!

    • Silencia
      July 27, 2016 7:48 pm
      Did you have a peek at the picture of Asami in a thong? I drew it myself - so it is not great, but it is pretty funny - now if only I could turn it into a gif and have him actually shake it .... tokidoki

      If you made that a gif... I would post it EVERYWHERE! It would be the next best thing since sliced bread. Oh the visuals!! Life is good. Maybe I should grab a gif maker and give it a go :D If Asami were real, I'm pretty sure he'd kill us... thinking Aki would appreciate our efforts though :P

    • Silencia
      July 27, 2016 7:48 pm
      Honestly, I never thought I'd ever see the words "Asami", "thong" and "groove thang" in one sentence. ;) Snark Mark

      Makes ya feel the warm fuzzies inside, right?

    • Snark Mark July 27, 2016 8:01 pm
      Makes ya feel the warm fuzzies inside, right? Silencia

      Oooh yesss, sister! :D

    • Snark Mark July 27, 2016 8:03 pm
      Did you have a peek at the picture of Asami in a thong? I drew it myself - so it is not great, but it is pretty funny - now if only I could turn it into a gif and have him actually shake it .... tokidoki

      You drew that?!? That is AMAZING, tokidoki!!! I can't even manage drawing a kitten, I'm completely pathetic in that sense. Incredibly well done and that's quite a talent you have, girl. :)

    • tokidoki
      July 27, 2016 8:11 pm
      You drew that?!? That is AMAZING, tokidoki!!! I can't even manage drawing a kitten, I'm completely pathetic in that sense. Incredibly well done and that's quite a talent you have, girl. :) Snark Mark

      Um, I am an artist, (I have a Bachelors Degree in Fine Arts) but I did not draw Asami - just the thong - the Asami model is one of the paper dolls that was released recently (I could draw him if I had time though)

    • tokidoki
      July 27, 2016 8:22 pm
      If you made that a gif... I would post it EVERYWHERE! It would be the next best thing since sliced bread. Oh the visuals!! Life is good. Maybe I should grab a gif maker and give it a go :D If Asami were real, I... Silencia

      That would be great. I can't download anything on my computer - I am just borrowing it until I can afford to fix my own computer, But a wiggling Asami gif would be hilarious!

    • LadyLigeia July 27, 2016 9:34 pm
      better link . .. http://www.mangago.me/home/photo/838558/ tokidoki

      That's awesome! ヾ(☆▽☆)

    • Snark Mark July 29, 2016 4:36 am
      Um, I am an artist, (I have a Bachelors Degree in Fine Arts) but I did not draw Asami - just the thong - the Asami model is one of the paper dolls that was released recently (I could draw him if I had time thou... tokidoki

      Well, Tokidoki, in that case: It's still a very nice *ahem* thong! ;)

    • tokidoki
      July 29, 2016 7:16 am
      Well, Tokidoki, in that case: It's still a very nice *ahem* thong! ;) Snark Mark

      Well Silencia is considering turning it into a gif, to show that wiggle thang, so IT might get even *ahem* nicer ...

    • Snark Mark July 29, 2016 11:06 pm
      Well Silencia is considering turning it into a gif, to show that wiggle thang, so IT might get even *ahem* nicer ... tokidoki

      Oh boy, I'm laughing so hard just picturing that, Tokidoki... :D The creative energy of the Finder community never ceases to amaze me!

  5. Senpai's Ass
    July 22, 2016 4:46 pm

    Favorite character other than Asami or Akihito??
    My babe is Kirishima ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    • J Unleashed July 22, 2016 7:14 pm

      There is a line, and you will have to join the end of it.

    • LadyLigeia July 22, 2016 8:07 pm

      Fei and Yoh

    • Reality bites July 22, 2016 9:02 pm

      I line up for Kirishima, but I'm missing Suoh. he is still there just invisible.

    • Romanceisdead69
      July 22, 2016 9:25 pm

      Oh thank goodness, it's been real hard carrying this around actually….Sakazaki-! Phew, there I said it! Now the healing can begin….

    • tokidoki
      July 22, 2016 9:31 pm

      Strangely - I like Sudou, he is the perfect foil for what an obsessive and unrequited love looks like, petulant, vengeful and jealous - he just demonstrates how great Akihito is for Asami - Fei does that a little, but his character is more sympathetic, Sudou is just despicable with out being an evil plotting genius. I love to hate him!

    • tokidoki
      July 22, 2016 9:33 pm
      Oh thank goodness, it's been real hard carrying this around actually….Sakazaki-! Phew, there I said it! Now the healing can begin…. Romanceisdead69

      LOL, he comes second after Sudou for me, you need the antagonists to make a good story work, and he is slimy and creepy and wonderfully perverse.

    • Anonymous July 22, 2016 9:37 pm

      Feilong...even over Asami and Akihito. xD *runs*

    • J Unleashed July 22, 2016 9:38 pm
      Oh thank goodness, it's been real hard carrying this around actually….Sakazaki-! Phew, there I said it! Now the healing can begin…. Romanceisdead69

      I'd line up for the beast too...

    • Reality bites July 22, 2016 10:21 pm

      Mikhail, I like the Russian accent. don't know what he's going to do. As long as it's good for his bus. hahahaha.

    • Lightasus July 22, 2016 10:59 pm
      Oh thank goodness, it's been real hard carrying this around actually….Sakazaki-! Phew, there I said it! Now the healing can begin…. Romanceisdead69

      Aha, I'd really have to say Sakazaki as well :L

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 23, 2016 1:00 am

      I like Kuroda.

    • tokidoki
      July 23, 2016 2:13 am
      Feilong...even over Asami and Akihito. xD *runs* @Anonymous

      No need to run, many of us are closet fans of Fei (ducks for cover ...)

    • J Unleashed July 23, 2016 5:32 pm
      No need to run, many of us are closet fans of Fei (ducks for cover ...) tokidoki

      *glances at closet door... picks up hammer and nails*

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 23, 2016 5:37 pm
      *glances at closet door... picks up hammer and nails* J Unleashed

      That's not nice. Move the dresser in front of the closet door to block it. Why cause needless property damage?

      I swear, evil these days...Whatever happened to standards?

    • I=stupid
      July 23, 2016 7:04 pm

      Tao, he's just so cute!
      and he hasn't perved on Aki like some other people I could mention!!

    • tokidoki
      July 23, 2016 7:26 pm
      *glances at closet door... picks up hammer and nails* J Unleashed

      Aieeeee! I am claustrophobic - please lock me in something larger ... like Feis summer house ...

    • tokidoki
      July 23, 2016 7:27 pm
      That's not nice. Move the dresser in front of the closet door to block it. Why cause needless property damage?I swear, evil these days...Whatever happened to standards? Anoni Grrl

      Or, J could just use chains and ropes and such...

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 24, 2016 1:09 am
      Or, J could just use chains and ropes and such... tokidoki

      What do you think this is? Caste Heaven?

      Leather restraints. We have nice, leather restraints.

    • tokidoki
      July 24, 2016 5:48 pm
      What do you think this is? Caste Heaven?Leather restraints. We have nice, leather restraints. Anoni Grrl

      B-b-but the secret room has ropes and chains, yes? I don't really like Caste Heaven so I never made it past about 3 chapters ....

    • nocturnal July 24, 2016 7:05 pm

      Kuroda probably won't he just make the cutest uke with his blunt personality I wanna see him blush then get pounded into the bed.. kirishima is my bebeh too but he is leaning towards seme.. caring and passionate okay I'm too excited abt this

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 24, 2016 8:51 pm
      B-b-but the secret room has ropes and chains, yes? I don't really like Caste Heaven so I never made it past about 3 chapters .... tokidoki

      It's a question of class distinction. I do like CH, but it is much more a "ropes laying around the garage" level of story. I suppose there could be ropes and chains here as well as leather--but it would be high quality treated silk rope, died bright red, and silver chains made by the very best craftspeople.

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 24, 2016 8:52 pm
      Kuroda probably won't he just make the cutest uke with his blunt personality I wanna see him blush then get pounded into the bed.. kirishima is my bebeh too but he is leaning towards seme.. caring and passionat... @nocturnal

      I see Kuroda as a snarky seke--but then I see some of the others' favs as people I'd like to smack in the face, so I may be an odd duck.

    • Jamie Ambrose
      July 28, 2016 11:52 am

      Sakazaki is hot, The Russian dude was chill, but for some strange reason I really like Akhito's best friend Kou. I dont know why, he barely shows up, but I really like him. So it's like a tie between the three. I like Fei Long too, but he got too many emotional problems, and it gets annoying after a while.

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 28, 2016 2:16 pm
      Sakazaki is hot, The Russian dude was chill, but for some strange reason I really like Akhito's best friend Kou. I dont know why, he barely shows up, but I really like him. So it's like a tie between the three.... Jamie Ambrose

      Good eye. You have to watch out for the quiet ones. They are up to something.

    • tokidoki
      July 29, 2016 3:50 am
      It's a question of class distinction. I do like CH, but it is much more a "ropes laying around the garage" level of story. I suppose there could be ropes and chains here as well as leather--but it would be high... Anoni Grrl

      Ooh! I could handle that!

  6. UGH
    July 20, 2016 5:14 pm

    Omg i just found out SUBLime is taking over Finder and theyre translating the volumes
    of course it wont be till next year but is something to be excited about
    Why am i always late to find stuff out

    • Lightasus July 21, 2016 5:42 am

      Yup, English volume 8 comes out in March 2017 :)

    • Lightasus July 21, 2016 5:43 am

      Oh, and there will be a digital version as well!

    • UGH
      July 21, 2016 1:08 pm
      Oh, and there will be a digital version as well! Lightasus

      Yea I'm actually happy about that since I can't have Yaoi laying around home

    • Lightasus July 21, 2016 10:52 pm
      Yea I'm actually happy about that since I can't have Yaoi laying around home UGH

      I'll probably be getting it as well actually. Buying the Japanese copies along with English quality PDFs now that I think about it sounds like the perfect combination to me aha.

    • Anonymous July 22, 2016 12:36 am
      I'll probably be getting it as well actually. Buying the Japanese copies along with English quality PDFs now that I think about it sounds like the perfect combination to me aha. Lightasus

      *nods* I intend to buy both the printed and the digital version. I already have the Japanese and the current English (DMI) copies, but I wanted to get a second set anyway, so I'll wait for SuBLime's version. And the interesting part of course is the fact that they will not online rerelease Vol 1-7, but retranslate it as well. And of course getting the digitial edition means, I can keep my printed edition in perfect condition. :)

    • Anonymous July 23, 2016 11:04 am
      Yup, English volume 8 comes out in March 2017 :) Lightasus

      9 months? What

    • Arehime
      July 24, 2016 2:17 am

      I couldn't find this news anywhere on their website. Where did u guys read that sublime was going to take over?

    • UGH
      July 24, 2016 2:26 am
      I couldn't find this news anywhere on their website. Where did u guys read that sublime was going to take over? Arehime

      https://www.sublimemanga.com/news/274

    • Arehime
      July 24, 2016 6:57 am
      https://www.sublimemanga.com/news/274 UGH

      Thank you!

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 7:53 am

      2017 May. Buy the manga.

    • Yumi Yu July 20, 2016 12:14 pm
      2017 May. Buy the manga. @Anonymous

      ┗( T﹏T )┛2017 May... if there's an english version then i buy (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 12:34 pm
      ┗( T﹏T )┛2017 May... if there's an english version then i buy (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ Yumi Yu

      Volume 8 in March. Reprints of all other volumes starting in May.

    • Reality bites July 20, 2016 12:51 pm

      Thanks for the spoiler info, since it may not be seen until 2017?. I wanted to know is that the end of vol 8? I'm going to buy it.

    • Yumi Yu July 20, 2016 12:56 pm
      Volume 8 in March. Reprints of all other volumes starting in May. @Anonymous

      Where you get the info from? now wondering whether my place got sell this manga... any idea if i can buy online?

    • Reality bites July 20, 2016 1:26 pm

      Sublime will be selling it on line at their site they got the lis. for it recently. It's a long story can be found in posts here if you go back a page or two. You can order on line the book or down load.

    • Reality bites July 20, 2016 1:30 pm

      Sublime also got the Lis. for Crim. Spell also. I think it will be digital , not sure. All the info is on their site.Sublime Manga. or in posts here just go back a few pages.

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 3:16 pm
      Sublime also got the Lis. for Crim. Spell also. I think it will be digital , not sure. All the info is on their site.Sublime Manga. or in posts here just go back a few pages. @Reality bites

      They've had the print license for Crimson Spell for years. You can purchase 1-5 now. The digital license is new.

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 9:02 pm

      wait those pages where soudo kidnapped akihito that happend before aaron appeared so why are they showing it now when it alredy happend a few chapters back. or is it a flashback or something? idk iam just a little confused xd

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 9:04 pm
      Where you get the info from? now wondering whether my place got sell this manga... any idea if i can buy online? Yumi Yu

      http://www.sublimemanga.com/news/274

      Sublime editions won't be out until next year, starting with volume 8 in March. They will then reprint 1-7 starting one per month in May.

      June editions of 1-7 are still available at rightstufanime.com. Amazon has a few.

    • misekatte
      July 20, 2016 9:55 pm
      wait those pages where soudo kidnapped akihito that happend before aaron appeared so why are they showing it now when it alredy happend a few chapters back. or is it a flashback or something? idk iam just a l... @Anonymous

      They were added to the tankouban print chapter when Sudou was holding Akihito hostage - they are not part of new chapter, just a bonus for those who buy the printed and bound version ...

    • Anonymous July 21, 2016 1:58 am
      They were added to the tankouban print chapter when Sudou was holding Akihito hostage - they are not part of new chapter, just a bonus for those who buy the printed and bound version ... misekatte

      ah oke thanx. so what sudou did to akihito really happend?

    • tokidoki
      July 21, 2016 2:11 am
      ah oke thanx. so what sudou did to akihito really happend? @Anonymous

      Apparently - though from what I have read here from some who have done rough translations, he did not penetrate/rape him, he ejaculated onto his butt/back while calling Asamis name ...

    • Anonymous July 22, 2016 12:38 am
      Apparently - though from what I have read here from some who have done rough translations, he did not penetrate/rape him, he ejaculated onto his butt/back while calling Asamis name ... tokidoki

      Yes, that's correct, he kept rubbing his dick against Akihito's ass, thinking of Asami and then ejaculated.

    • Anonymous July 22, 2016 12:54 am

      Just so there is no confusion: With SuBLime, one can order the DIGITAL version on their website. People can download the PDF or read it online, whatever your preference is. Or they can order through Amazon Kindle. However, the PRINTED version will be available via the usual sources such as Amazon, Bookdepository, Right Stuff, Barnes & Noble. You can't buy the printed version from the SuBLime website.

      This is a good example of another one of SuBLime's titles (this one is NOT Viewfinder, of course!!! :) ):

      https://www.sublimemanga.com/reader/596

      On the right-hand side you can see the links of where to buy the printed version (Amazon.com etc.), there is the option to order the digital version straight from the SuBLime website by adding it the shopping cart or you can follow the Amazon Kindle link to order the respective title for your Kindle.

      For those that are planning to order one or several printed volumes from SuBLime next year, Bookdepository is always a great option, because the have free shipping worldwide.

      Here is the timeline again:
      - Volume 8: March 2017
      - Volume 1 - 7 (retranslated and rereleased by SuBLime): one volume per month, starting May 2017

    • Lightasus July 22, 2016 2:09 am
      Just so there is no confusion: With SuBLime, one can order the DIGITAL version on their website. People can download the PDF or read it online, whatever your preference is. Or they can order through Amazon Kind... @Anonymous

      "- Volume 1 - 7 (retranslated and rereleased by SuBLime): one volume per month, starting May 2017"

      They actually said every >other< month, meaning one every two months.

    • Anonymous July 22, 2016 3:32 pm
      "- Volume 1 - 7 (retranslated and rereleased by SuBLime): one volume per month, starting May 2017"They actually said every >other< month, meaning one every two months. Lightasus

      Oh, then they changed that, because they original said it would be every month. Thanks for the heads up, Lightasus! :)

  7. Kalakyot
    July 20, 2016 2:46 am

    YAOI IS MY OXYGEN SUPPLY. I DON'T NEED ANYTHING ELSE. JUST ME AND YAOI.

  8. UGH
    July 19, 2016 4:55 am

    Just reread the whole manga in one day
    But now i regret it
    i remember why I hadn't done so before
    that fucking cliffy was the death of me last time
    and it still is
    when do we get a new update ┗( T﹏T )┛

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 2:37 am

      Ya there were new pages added in vol relase rheyre SPOILER










      Safe in the helicopter and aron was shot but not dead

    • UGH
      July 20, 2016 5:25 pm
      Ya there were new pages added in vol relase rheyre SPOILERSafe in the helicopter and aron was shot but not dead @Anonymous

      oh man im ashamed cuz i just read it but whose aron

    • J Unleashed July 20, 2016 6:47 pm
      oh man im ashamed cuz i just read it but whose aron UGH

      Don't be. This gets asked a lot.

      This guy-- who shot at everybody at the warehouse (wounding both Sudou and Kuroda) and who just tried nailing Asami and Akihito: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/you_re_my_loveprize_in_viewfinder/mh/v08/c052/15/

    • UGH
      July 20, 2016 6:59 pm
      Don't be. This gets asked a lot. This guy-- who shot at everybody at the warehouse (wounding both Sudou and Kuroda) and who just tried nailing Asami and Akihito: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/you_re_my_lovep... J Unleashed

      Oh thats his name
      lol well since they never said his name here no wonder

    • J Unleashed July 20, 2016 7:10 pm
      Oh thats his name lol well since they never said his name here no wonder UGH

      I guess "hoodie guy" sounds more badass than "Aaron".

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 8:06 pm
      I guess "hoodie guy" sounds more badass than "Aaron". J Unleashed

      Mmh, I like "hoodie guy", J. We can call him "Mr Hoodie". :D

    • J Unleashed July 20, 2016 8:16 pm

      Whoa, Dude. "Mr. Hoodie" is his father...

    • UGH
      July 20, 2016 8:34 pm
      Whoa, Dude. "Mr. Hoodie" is his father... J Unleashed

      what whose father

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 9:33 pm
      Don't be. This gets asked a lot. This guy-- who shot at everybody at the warehouse (wounding both Sudou and Kuroda) and who just tried nailing Asami and Akihito: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/you_re_my_lovep... J Unleashed

      but why is he nailing for akihito and asami?

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 10:48 pm
      Whoa, Dude. "Mr. Hoodie" is his father... J Unleashed

      NICE, J! :D (and I just had a major Star Wars moment in terms of "I'm your father, Aaron" :D )

      P.S.: I'm a "dudette", btw. (I guess 99 % of us are, loll!).

    • J Unleashed July 20, 2016 11:46 pm

      @ UGH @Anonymous ... I was aiming for a "Finding Nemo"/Crush moment. If I give you a cookie, will you pretend it never happened?

      I've only got one, so you'll have to share...

    • J Unleashed July 20, 2016 11:56 pm
      but why is he nailing for akihito and asami? @Anonymous

      Well, hoodie guy is pissed off because Asami and Akihito thwarted his plans to steal from Asami, and... something something, Representative Kouyama, Sakazaki, Sudou, Mikhail Arbatov...

      I really don't know. I've got nothing.

    • UGH
      July 21, 2016 12:57 am
      NICE, J! :D (and I just had a major Star Wars moment in terms of "I'm your father, Aaron" :D )P.S.: I'm a "dudette", btw. (I guess 99 % of us are, loll!). @Anonymous

      I only seen finding nemo once and didn't really paid attention to it

    • Anonymous July 21, 2016 4:45 am
      @ UGH @Anonymous ... I was aiming for a "Finding Nemo"/Crush moment. If I give you a cookie, will you pretend it never happened? I've only got one, so you'll have to share... J Unleashed

      Oh, I'll share alright, J. Let it be said that I would never refuse a free cookie. :)

      P.S.: I think I'm pretty overdue getting myself an actual account and a name, since there are so many "Anonymous" around here. Mmh. How about "Snark mark", J? ;)

    • Anonymous July 21, 2016 11:41 am
      Ya there were new pages added in vol relase rheyre SPOILERSafe in the helicopter and aron was shot but not dead @Anonymous

      In the interests of strict accuracy, they are not yet safe in the helicopter. They--Asami, Akihito, Kirishima--are still on the helicopter pad.

    • J Unleashed July 21, 2016 2:51 pm
      Oh, I'll share alright, J. Let it be said that I would never refuse a free cookie. :)P.S.: I think I'm pretty overdue getting myself an actual account and a name, since there are so many "Anonymous" around here... @Anonymous

      That's way cooler than "The Commenter Formerly Known As Anonymous".

    • LadyLigeia July 21, 2016 4:34 pm
      In the interests of strict accuracy, they are not yet safe in the helicopter. They--Asami, Akihito, Kirishima--are still on the helicopter pad. @Anonymous

      But we all hope that they get out of that place safe and sound. :)

    • Anonymous July 22, 2016 12:57 am
      That's way cooler than "The Commenter Formerly Known As Anonymous". J Unleashed

      *grins* I don't know, I could make it TCFKAA. ;) But not really, since there is a ton of anons here and I'm just one of them. :) I'll promise to sign up properly. :D

    • Snark Mark July 22, 2016 1:03 am
      That's way cooler than "The Commenter Formerly Known As Anonymous". J Unleashed

      P.S.: Done! :)

    • J Unleashed July 22, 2016 7:19 pm
      P.S.: Done! :) Snark Mark

      Another seduced by the dark side... (。▽皿▽)

    • Snark Mark July 26, 2016 7:51 pm
      Another seduced by the dark side... (。▽皿▽) J Unleashed

      Well, you DID say you had cookies, so that's that. ;)
      http://i3.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/954/929/624.jpeg

  9. hana4x July 17, 2016 6:35 pm

    i am aware that this is a dumb question so pls dont get mad.

    so when (and why) are they in love? asami actually raped akihito, and even inserted film in his ass???? did they start to love each other during the event akhito got into danger (and was again, raped, by feilong) for trying to safely deliver the disk to asami (in chp 2)? asami cared for akihito after the incident, and akihito was touched by asami's act of saving him?

    do i get that right? i can see how they gradually care for each other, i just dont know where the turning point is (akihito used to hate asami). would like to know if someone else has different opinion.

    sorry, i cant really express my thoughts in english, not my first language.

    • gu July 17, 2016 6:25 pm

      well in my opinion u know that asami wanted to rape akihito from the beginning since he was a gay from the start and then in my opinion he only wanted to play with him nothing else because he didn*t take akihito seriously in their first meeting but then by time he started to like akihito personality and fall in love with him so it started with the bodies and end up with the hearts for both of them and akihito is that uke who didn*t expect that a new enemy will be his lover this is why he found that this enemy whom won*t show u anything and always hide a lot of secrets everytime u want to know more a big challenge and this is why aki became interesting to asami too the whole story started with a game for both of them the only difference that akihito take everything seriously before asami does (● ̄(エ) ̄●)

    • Anonymous July 17, 2016 7:36 pm
      well in my opinion u know that asami wanted to rape akihito from the beginning since he was a gay from the start and then in my opinion he only wanted to play with him nothing else because he didn*t take akihit... @gu

      Asami is bi, not gay (confirmed by sensei).

    • tokidoki
      July 17, 2016 7:50 pm

      Well, initially this was supposed to just be a BDSM one-shot so sensei did not take emotions/relationships into account. Apparently it was so popular that she was asked to continue the story and now regrets (a little) that first chapter.
      I don't think Aki started to feel much of anything until Asami rescued him from Fei that first time (and he takes shelter behind Asami), but Asami liked Akis spirit from the start (when he jumped off that building)
      And you express yourself just fine dear.
      Does that help?

    • Reality bites July 17, 2016 8:04 pm

      Nice Tokidoki.

    • eworth July 17, 2016 8:51 pm

      One of the things I like about this story is that it's not an insta-love thing. So it's hard to point to a specific moment when either of them fell in love. I think it was more a gradual thing for both of them, although I would say Asami fell first and faster.

      He was intrigued by Aki at first, but I think you can see where he realizes there might be more to both Aki and his feelings for him in the little interview at the end of volume three. There's a lot in volume three in general about the evolution of Asami's feelings for Aki, so that by the time he grabs him by the shirt and says "You're coming with me to the depths of hell" or whatever, it's a done deal as far as Asami is concerned.

      Aki, I think, spent a whole lot more time wrestling with an unwilling attraction to Asami. He turns to him and clings to him when he's in trouble, but in the quieter moments in volume six is where he starts to understand his real feelings for Asami and I think this moment right here is as much of a declaration of love as anything:

      http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/you_re_my_loveprize_in_viewfinder/mh/v06/c034/27/

    • tokidoki
      July 17, 2016 8:58 pm
      Nice Tokidoki. @Reality bites

      Thanks ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

    • tokidoki
      July 17, 2016 8:59 pm
      One of the things I like about this story is that it's not an insta-love thing. So it's hard to point to a specific moment when either of them fell in love. I think it was more a gradual thing for both of them,... eworth

      Yes, that does seem to be the turning point for Akihito (vol 6)

    • J Unleashed July 17, 2016 9:01 pm
      One of the things I like about this story is that it's not an insta-love thing. So it's hard to point to a specific moment when either of them fell in love. I think it was more a gradual thing for both of them,... eworth

      Ditto. Thanks for saving me all the typing

    • Reality bites July 17, 2016 11:15 pm

      Your question is not dumb, it is part of the story line. Takaba's( angst) They do love each other. they may not say the words, but show it instead.(don't know how far you have read yet)

    • hana4x July 18, 2016 1:45 am
      well in my opinion u know that asami wanted to rape akihito from the beginning since he was a gay from the start and then in my opinion he only wanted to play with him nothing else because he didn*t take akihit... @gu

      thanks for responding, but where's your full stop ( ̄∇ ̄")

    • hana4x July 18, 2016 1:48 am
      Well, initially this was supposed to just be a BDSM one-shot so sensei did not take emotions/relationships into account. Apparently it was so popular that she was asked to continue the story and now regrets (a ... tokidoki

      ive heard abt that as well, but do you know what is the source? you dont need to find it for me, just wondering if it's from a magazine interview, twitter, afterword in the manga etc. and thanks for your reply!

    • hana4x July 18, 2016 1:53 am
      One of the things I like about this story is that it's not an insta-love thing. So it's hard to point to a specific moment when either of them fell in love. I think it was more a gradual thing for both of them,... eworth

      ooo thats a really helpfup answer. thanks a lot! yeah i noticed that they have never said i love you or anything. would love to see it ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

    • hana4x July 18, 2016 1:59 am
      Your question is not dumb, it is part of the story line. Takaba's( angst) They do love each other. they may not say the words, but show it instead.(don't know how far you have read yet) @Reality bites

      haha i thought im the only one dont notice abt their love ( ̄∇ ̄")

    • tokidoki
      July 18, 2016 3:28 am
      ive heard abt that as well, but do you know what is the source? you dont need to find it for me, just wondering if it's from a magazine interview, twitter, afterword in the manga etc. and thanks for your reply! hana4x

      I don't remember who relayed the information, but I think it originally came from senseis twitter? Not really sure at this point. Sorry

    • Lightasus July 18, 2016 4:34 am
      ive heard abt that as well, but do you know what is the source? you dont need to find it for me, just wondering if it's from a magazine interview, twitter, afterword in the manga etc. and thanks for your reply! hana4x

      Well, it's probably been talked about in an English interview, but I only remember it being talked about in a French one lol. It was an interview made in an event she attended in France:

      Original:
      A l'origine, Viewfinder devait être un simple one-shot. Comment est-elle devenue une série longue ?
      Une fois le one-shot publié, nous avons reçu énormément de lettres de réactions des lecteurs, qui voulaient savoir ce qu'allaient devenir les deux personnages. Devant un tel engouement, nous avons décidé de faire une suite.

      Translation:
      Originally Viewfinder was intended to be a simple one-shot. How has it become a long-running series?
      Once the one-shot published, we received a lot of letters containing feedback from readers who wanted to know what was going to happen with the two characters. Faced with such enthusiasm, we decided to make more chapters.

      The source is manga-news if you want to look it up, mangago sometimes blocks posts with links in them for a whole day to review them and so I try to avoid it aha.

    • gu July 18, 2016 12:36 pm

      well girls love is blind and u cant understand how and when it started to happen or why it even happened its just when your heart start beating strongly . fastly and madly and when you understand that u really fall in love with that someone u will have a lot of different feelings but the only thing that u will be sure about that u want to see your lover more and know him more and discover everything about him and spend a lot of time with him and i really cant understand why some readers think that they do not love each other yet its cleat that they are in love even without saying the three magical words ** i love u ** i think this couple however is so romantic and very sexy so when we think about it the question of when they fall in love or how they fall in it is really not a big deal especially when love takes it time ヾ(☆▽☆)

    • hana4x July 18, 2016 12:57 pm
      Well, it's probably been talked about in an English interview, but I only remember it being talked about in a French one lol. It was an interview made in an event she attended in France:Original:A l'origine, Vi... Lightasus

      thanks a lot! :)

    • hana4x July 18, 2016 12:58 pm
      well girls love is blind and u cant understand how and when it started to happen or why it even happened its just when your heart start beating strongly . fastly and madly and when you understand that u really ... @gu

      sorry, ive never been in love with anyone, even tho im actually 22 yrs old . sad life. ╥﹏╥

    • gu July 18, 2016 1:32 pm
      sorry, ive never been in love with anyone, even tho im actually 22 yrs old . sad life. ╥﹏╥ hana4x

      my luck in love is just like shit serouisly once i told my friends on facebook that love is just like maths u dont understood anything from the start and u cant understand and will never understand what*s happening but if a miracle happened and u got something u will feel so happy but when i think about it love is more diffucult it something u cant understand easliy so here i am reading yaoi and to be honest i find this world pretty amasing (● ̄(エ) ̄●) in the end i think fans must stop asking stupid questions and read it again and again to find their answers i mean everything in this manga is totally clear just like sun so read it and have fun :) this is what i wish i can say for readers especially haters even this is not my best one its one of the best and hana dont worry sister u wil find true love one day if u didnt u still have a lot of yaoi manga to read it inside your house in the futur

    • gu July 18, 2016 1:52 pm

      sorry if i was so bad with u sis i really didnt mean it but once i found a comment wish a fan whrote that he doesn*t know if the seme loves the uke or not until now and this one really pissed me off i mean if that thing between them is not love so what is it dudde ? however i think that all the fans need to think about the events of the story and open up their imagination and everything will be great (⌒▽⌒) just enjoy and remember its not just a japenese gays comic its a life <3

    • Reality bites July 18, 2016 2:21 pm

      That's not a sad like hana you are still young. To love and being in love. it will come when it is time .

    • Anonymous July 18, 2016 2:23 pm
      sorry, ive never been in love with anyone, even tho im actually 22 yrs old . sad life. ╥﹏╥ hana4x

      sorry againg cuz i should respect u since u are 22 and im just 15 years old

    • gu July 18, 2016 2:49 pm
      That's not a sad like hana you are still young. To love and being in love. it will come when it is time . @Reality bites

      hana is only 22 years old its not too late serouisly even if u dont have a boyfriend its not big deal because there is no conditions in love we have a legend in my county that if there is a true big and honest love between two human this is mean that their souls were a one soul before they born and have bodies and when they born their soul wish it is just like a ball everyone of that couple take a half of it but when those two bodies meet again the two souls will be one again and this ball well return the same so age is not a big deal some women marry in the age of 40 and even 50 that*s okay

    • gu July 18, 2016 2:52 pm

      so hana be hopeful and happy finding a guy is not everything

    • Anonymous July 19, 2016 12:39 am
      sorry if i was so bad with u sis i really didnt mean it but once i found a comment wish a fan whrote that he doesn*t know if the seme loves the uke or not until now and this one really pissed me off i mean if t... @gu

      Hana never said that she didn't know if they are in love or not. She asked in her original post when (at what point) and why they fell in love. So Hana was asking for the turning point in their relationship - and as you can see from the very enlightening discussion that followed, Hana's original question was both an interesting and an intelligent one.

    • gu July 19, 2016 10:17 am
      Hana never said that she didn't know if they are in love or not. She asked in her original post when (at what point) and why they fell in love. So Hana was asking for the turning point in their relationship - a... @Anonymous

      well this is your opinion and i accept it my friend however i guess u cant really know how and why because their love has evolved every time they have an adventure for asami it started from like to love and for aki it started for maybe kinda hate to love ... besides i didn*t want to be mean to hana and im sorry i should respect her in the first place but it doesn*t matter if her question is intelligent or stupid because every reader can notice the development of their relationship and sorry again for everyone i was mean with .. hope you forgive me

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 12:31 am

      I think Asami's feelings changed in Vol 3 when he drugged Akihito, realized he made a mistake(!) leaving him alone, didn't kill Akihito when he betrayed him, and got shot protecting Akihito. Then he spend Vols 4-5 saving Akihito. On the other hand, Akihito loves Asami and constantly thinks about him in Vols 4-5 but is too stubborn to admit to himself that he cares about Asami until Vol 6. Neither of them have said the words, but you can tell by their actions. Asami wanted Kirishima to take Akihito and get on the helicopter, Akihito refused to leave without Asami.

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 7:13 am
      well this is your opinion and i accept it my friend however i guess u cant really know how and why because their love has evolved every time they have an adventure for asami it started from like to love and for... @gu

      I wasn't expressing an opinion, gu. I was just stating the fact that you actually happened to misunderstand Hana's original post. You thought (and said so) that she didn't know if they were in love or not and got pissed at her for that. I just pointed out that she never said that and that what she DID want to know was when the turning point was in their relationship aka when and why did they actually fall in love. That's all. No oponion on my behalf.

      There is nothing to forgive, gu, but this is another case (just like with Hana) where you didn't properly read the post you replied to and hence misunderstood what was said. So reading posts thorougly and catching the meaning helps in avoiding misunderstandings in the future. ;) No biggie. :)

    • hana4x July 20, 2016 9:24 am
      I think Asami's feelings changed in Vol 3 when he drugged Akihito, realized he made a mistake(!) leaving him alone, didn't kill Akihito when he betrayed him, and got shot protecting Akihito. Then he spend Vols ... @Anonymous

      thank you for explaining :) im still waiting for one of them to say i love you. it's gonna be romantic (▰˘◡˘▰)

    • hana4x July 20, 2016 9:26 am
      I wasn't expressing an opinion, gu. I was just stating the fact that you actually happened to misunderstand Hana's original post. You thought (and said so) that she didn't know if they were in love or not and g... @Anonymous

      thanks for clarifying to gu. i didnt know how to explain to her/him bec i dont really understand either haha ( ̄∇ ̄")

    • gu July 20, 2016 10:38 am
      I wasn't expressing an opinion, gu. I was just stating the fact that you actually happened to misunderstand Hana's original post. You thought (and said so) that she didn't know if they were in love or not and g... @Anonymous

      i want to say sorry again however i didn*t misunderstand because i was the first one who read it anyway i will wtite what i wanted to say again about her question ** why and when they fall in love ** what i wanted to say u cant understand the reason and the time for a couple to fall in love especially in this manga the reason and even the time u just cant determine them but u can notice that their relashionship evolved for asami it started from like to love and for akihito maybe from kinda detesting from love .. but then friend let*s say that i really misunderstand and i say sorry again and let*s try to answer for the question why they fall in love well there is not a big important reason for my opinion but i guess they fall in love because of the adventures they had toghether wish made everyone of them know the other more and start to understand his personality and like it for the last part of question *** when*** i dont think it was clear in the manga so please answer us and sorry again if i annoyed u im not joking i really mean it and i will be happy if u answer sis/bro ヾ(☆▽☆)

    • gu July 20, 2016 10:39 am
      thank you for explaining :) im still waiting for one of them to say i love you. it's gonna be romantic (▰˘◡˘▰) hana4x

      u are welcome sis for anytime .. u will find someone trust me (▰˘◡˘▰) its the destiny of everybody (●'◡'●)ノ

    • gu July 20, 2016 10:40 am
      thanks for clarifying to gu. i didnt know how to explain to her/him bec i dont really understand either haha ( ̄∇ ̄") hana4x

      well i dont think a guy will say all this stuff about love ( ̄へ ̄)

    • gu July 20, 2016 10:46 am
      I wasn't expressing an opinion, gu. I was just stating the fact that you actually happened to misunderstand Hana's original post. You thought (and said so) that she didn't know if they were in love or not and g... @Anonymous

      and another thing i dont want to be mean to anyone or impose my opinion perhaps i will be so glad so read the other opinions because i learn a lot from it and friend thanks very much u gave a very good advice :)

    • Anon July 20, 2016 12:30 pm
      well i dont think a guy will say all this stuff about love ( ̄へ ̄) @gu

      Plenty of guys will. Don't buy into the stereotype that guys are not emotionally expressive. After all, men have written some of the best love songs and romantic poetry and literature in the world. The real question is will this particular guy say "I love you." That's up for debate.

    • gu July 20, 2016 3:42 pm
      Plenty of guys will. Don't buy into the stereotype that guys are not emotionally expressive. After all, men have written some of the best love songs and romantic poetry and literature in the world. The real que... @Anon

      sorry dudde i really if i bother u but everyone know that girls are more romantic then guys if not in the songs and romantic peotry than in real world ( ̄∇ ̄") i mean our feelings are always honest ( well not all but probaly the most of us ) unlike guys ( well i know that there is a lot of romantic guys and they can have honest feelings too ) but more then the half of u guys wish they have a harem ( ̄へ ̄)

    • gu July 20, 2016 3:47 pm
      Plenty of guys will. Don't buy into the stereotype that guys are not emotionally expressive. After all, men have written some of the best love songs and romantic poetry and literature in the world. The real que... @Anon

      ( The real question is will this particular guy say "I love you." That's up for debate ) and about this if u mean the story i guess they love eachother without even saying it but its too hard to wair for new chapters especially when the manga got licensed ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    • Reality bites July 20, 2016 4:10 pm

      Men run the gambit of emotion. This manga is from Takaba's pov and we are given very little viewpoints of Asami's emotional landscape. SPOILERS.......................................................................................................................................The look on Asami's face when Takaba's brought back from prison by Krishima , The rescue scene on the boat. Takaba's feelings are always on bec. it's his show. Asami's are more subtle.Touching Takaba (without sex)that's a biggie . It denotes a closeness between them. do you think an emoting, emotional Asami would fit the charac. as written? the only person who would see that side would be Takaba in private. Takaba gets to emote all over the place bec. the story is abt. him.

    • gu July 20, 2016 4:45 pm
      Men run the gambit of emotion. This manga is from Takaba's pov and we are given very little viewpoints of Asami's emotional landscape. SPOILERS...................................................................... @Reality bites

      yeah u are right (●'◡'●)ノ totally agree with u sis/bro

    • Anonymous July 20, 2016 9:06 pm
      sorry dudde i really if i bother u but everyone know that girls are more romantic then guys if not in the songs and romantic peotry than in real world ( ̄∇ ̄") i mean our feelings are always honest ( well n... @gu

      Totally not true. Please don't stereotype guys that way. You wouldn't like it if they stereotyped girls as being all emotional with no rational sense. I know many many highly romantic men. I'm married to one.

    • gu July 20, 2016 10:28 pm
      Totally not true. Please don't stereotype guys that way. You wouldn't like it if they stereotyped girls as being all emotional with no rational sense. I know many many highly romantic men. I'm married to one. @Anonymous

      well happy wedding (▰˘◡˘▰) but what i want to say when its about dating and having a lover girls always are more serouis and if its true or not this is my opinion however i know that they are a very good and honest guys as i know that they are a very bad and cruel girls and this is just my opinion sis/bro

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 22, 2016 1:25 pm
      well happy wedding (▰˘◡˘▰) but what i want to say when its about dating and having a lover girls always are more serouis and if its true or not this is my opinion however i know that they are a very goo... @gu

      I think you may be confusing "honest" with "exclusive." While some men are both romantic and monogamous, if we look at general trends and recognize the limitations of that, we are probably more likely to find more men who are interested in more than one person at a given time, and more likely to find more women who are at least serial monogamist (into one partner at a time). Like I said, there are exceptions. But there is a reason for the old joke, "What do two lesbians do on the second date?" "Move in together." That doesn't mean that a person can't be passionately romantic about one or more people and still have sex with many others. I know a many who can sleep with several partners and write poetry about each.

    • Reality bites July 22, 2016 2:43 pm

      I think there is love and there is lust. We as humans subject to both emotions.Both can be equally as strong produce romantic feelings, to me love is very diff. It's the feeling of wanting to protect and feel protected by that person and only that person. It's only that skin and that smell that can give comfort . That is love to me. Of course each person defines it the way they chose. I know people who have strayed and those who have not. Those that did seemed to be in lust at the time, Other factors were involved.

    • Anonymous July 22, 2016 2:49 pm
      well happy wedding (▰˘◡˘▰) but what i want to say when its about dating and having a lover girls always are more serouis and if its true or not this is my opinion however i know that they are a very goo... @gu

      When you use absolutes like "always," you are stereotyping an entire gender. You say you are fifteen. You are very young, whether you like to hear that or not. I'm worried that you will go into relationships (romantic or platonic) with such biased ideas about gender. It is so unfair and you would not like it if similar generalities were made about your gender. I hope you will keep an open mind about the nature and ability to love and care for all genders.

    • gu July 22, 2016 4:09 pm
      I think you may be confusing "honest" with "exclusive." While some men are both romantic and monogamous, if we look at general trends and recognize the limitations of that, we are probably more likely to find m... Anoni Grrl

      well okay but there is a different between loving someone and writing a poetry about him/her and dating more people and have sex with them and after write a poetry about them because one u write something for the person whom u really love u will mean every single word u will say it and u will say the romantic stuff with all your heart even the poetry u will write it .. it will have a true feelings but such a talk that u dont mean it and such a poetry even if its the best one of the world will be always such a lie with some fake feelings this is why there is a different between a love poerty and between a playboy/playgirl poetry (⊙…⊙ )

    • gu July 22, 2016 4:11 pm
      I think there is love and there is lust. We as humans subject to both emotions.Both can be equally as strong produce romantic feelings, to me love is very diff. It's the feeling of wanting to protect and feel ... @Reality bites

      love is when u feel that u born for that person and that person feel the same this is why gender doesn*t matter ( ̄ε(# ̄)Σ like your opinion

    • gu July 22, 2016 4:21 pm
      When you use absolutes like "always," you are stereotyping an entire gender. You say you are fifteen. You are very young, whether you like to hear that or not. I'm worried that you will go into relationships (r... @Anonymous

      well my lady thanks but u dont need to worry however if im 15 or even 8 years i know what i say will i didn*t whrite that all the guys/males are bad i only think that women of course not all are more loyatly and honestly and u as a teenager my lady how many boyfriends cheated on u and how much you cried and cursed them ? not because im 15 that means im wrong okay ( ̄へ ̄)u can even ask some women in your country and they will say the same that*s only my opinion besides i know that there is such a good romantic guys are waiting outside and however i might be wrong too im still 15 and i might change my mind in the futur so thanks for the advice my lady (●'◡'●)ノ

    • gu July 22, 2016 4:32 pm
      When you use absolutes like "always," you are stereotyping an entire gender. You say you are fifteen. You are very young, whether you like to hear that or not. I'm worried that you will go into relationships (r... @Anonymous

      but lady u are older then me right so give me a proof wish can make me wrong (≧∀≦)
      and then i will say sorry im wrong

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 22, 2016 7:34 pm
      I think you may be confusing "honest" with "exclusive." While some men are both romantic and monogamous, if we look at general trends and recognize the limitations of that, we are probably more likely to find m... Anoni Grrl

      Well, if we are talking about whether women ar more "romantic" than men, I think poetry counts. As for love...well love is something else too. But it is possible for some people to love more than one person at the same time. I would always argue that one person has to be your "most important" because how can be otherwise? But I have heard people say it's like loving your children--you love them all.

      So, if we had a Venn diagram, we would need separate circles for "love", "romance", "monogamy", and "honesty". There would need to be a way to have each overlap with all the others in the very middle and with each the other circles in places and combinations, but all need a space where they do not overlap. Wow, that's hard to visualize. Maybe let's just say that sometimes these things go together, and sometimes not so much.

    • Lightasus July 23, 2016 7:22 am

      Ah come on. Some women can be just as much unfaithful as some men. They're just better at hiding it. Women want to think they don't cheat, and men want to think women don't cheat, so of course if a woman was to do so it would be easier to hide it. People don't want to question a woman's fidelity, some would call the thought of it ridiculous. And of course, in the few instances in which people were to know about it, as a woman it's socially easier to get away with it.

      I smeel a whole lot of victimization. Putting the fault on a single gender is silly. Personally I've never known someone that actually cheated or been cheated on - I probably just don't hang out with those types of people - but human nature is what it is. Genders barely have anything to do with it, get out with those stereotypes.

      I also don't buy in men being more likely to be interested into more than one person at a time. I personally get it every once in a while (some light butterflies), though in no world would I ever act on it as it'd never compare with my current relationship which used to be a best friend and I genuinely love him so godamn much. It's just a matter of being around people that are your type. How could you not feel anything toward someone your type and being nice with you (though not necessarily pure love)? Again, women are just more secretive about it... Personally I just don't feel the need to scream about it even though it's harmless, but of course society dictates that since I'm a woman that could never happen huh...

      Getting where I'm coming from? People have preconceived ideas of you depending on your gender, just because of some stereotypes being spread since forever.

      I've met men who think women don't masturbate and thought it'd be laughable if they did so. Gee. So yeah, not one would think that I do, nor do I want to tell people about it, which perpetuates the idea that no woman do. Ahaha...

    • tokidoki
      July 23, 2016 8:09 am
      Ah come on. Some women can be just as much unfaithful as some men. They're just better at hiding it. Women want to think they don't cheat, and men want to think women don't cheat, so of course if a woman was to... Lightasus

      I know of quite a few relationships (even in my own family) where cheating happened - and most cheaters (not all) were the men. My dad was one of these nasties, but my mom forgave. My good friend - who had just gotten married 3 months previous had a cheating husband ... although my cousins wife was cheating on him, getting pregnant as well ... so cheating can certainly go both ways.

    • Lightasus July 23, 2016 8:58 am
      I know of quite a few relationships (even in my own family) where cheating happened - and most cheaters (not all) were the men. My dad was one of these nasties, but my mom forgave. My good friend - who had jus... tokidoki

      Just to be sure, know was the key word. My point was about being better at hiding it. So really I'm not sure if we can still say the vast majority were men necessarily. From researches it's 25% of men and 15% of women that have sex with someone else while married, that seems about alright even though I suspect people have lied in those to be extra sure they don't get caught even though it's anonymous.

      Which is sad, since I already think these numbers are really high enough...

    • Anonymous July 23, 2016 9:49 am
      Well, if we are talking about whether women ar more "romantic" than men, I think poetry counts. As for love...well love is something else too. But it is possible for some people to love more than one person at ... Anoni Grrl

      well i loved your opinion but there will be always a different between loving someone and playing a stupid one with someone (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

    • Anonymous July 23, 2016 9:52 am
      Just to be sure, know was the key word. My point was about being better at hiding it. So really I'm not sure if we can still say the vast majority were men necessarily. From researches it's 25% of men and 15% o... Lightasus

      but even if women cheat too ( and i know that) men cheat more then them and this is will be always the truth (● ̄(エ) ̄●) and u knew it

    • Anonymous July 23, 2016 9:57 am
      I know of quite a few relationships (even in my own family) where cheating happened - and most cheaters (not all) were the men. My dad was one of these nasties, but my mom forgave. My good friend - who had jus... tokidoki

      but women are forgiven more then men and this is another truth : in some countries when a man cheated on his woman nothing happen to him even his wife accepted or not and in the same time if that woman cheated on him he kills her and nothing happen to him too but if we talk about all the world a lot of men made a murders because their wifes cheated on them ( well i know that women made those things too ) but man made it more then them

    • gu July 23, 2016 10:02 am
      I know of quite a few relationships (even in my own family) where cheating happened - and most cheaters (not all) were the men. My dad was one of these nasties, but my mom forgave. My good friend - who had jus... tokidoki

      your dad is so lucky man ( ̄へ ̄)hope he knew his mistake

    • Reality bites July 23, 2016 12:10 pm

      There are a lot of diff. truths. In my country a man left his wife bec. he cheated. after the divorce, the court ruled he had to pay child support for child that was not his bec. it was conceived while she was married to him. The child was the guy she cheated with. The ex husband is on the hook for 18 years of child support. This is a true story. Men cheat but so do women and both can get away with it. When it comes to human behavior humans are never absolute.

    • hana4x July 23, 2016 12:27 pm

      why are we suddenly talking abt cheating, im lost ( ̄∇ ̄")

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 23, 2016 2:53 pm
      Ah come on. Some women can be just as much unfaithful as some men. They're just better at hiding it. Women want to think they don't cheat, and men want to think women don't cheat, so of course if a woman was to... Lightasus

      Many years ago, I read some studies on sex and gender role differences in self-reported attitudes towards monogamy and infidelity that suggested there was empirical backing for the idea that males were less likely to be monogamous (or at least strictly sexually monogomus0 but i am too lazy to try to track it down and it may be outdated. I agree that we shouldn't assume gender means that much, but there is some evidence that suggests a statically significant difference between men and women in attitudes towards monogomy. Such differences might be changing since the studies I read were done, but there is at least some evidentiary basis for the idea that the trends exists.

      Interestingly, the studies I read suggested lesbians were more likely to want a committed monogamous relationship than straight people, and gay men were less likely to want a sexually monogamous relationship (some even called it "heteronormative" and were opposed to it). Again, this is about statistical trends and there are outliers and exceptions.

      Additionally, the studies asked mostly about what people report that they think they want--which may not reflect what people actually do. So, huge grain of salt there. But there is more to it than just a myth--there were at least some trends reported.

      That being said, many women enjoy multiple partners (at some time in their lives). I think the issue is whether the people who like multiple partners are honest about it and tell the people they are with, or if they lie. Lying is what sucks (IMO).

    • gu July 23, 2016 4:04 pm
      There are a lot of diff. truths. In my country a man left his wife bec. he cheated. after the divorce, the court ruled he had to pay child support for child that was not his bec. it was conceived while she wa... @Reality bites

      still men cheat on their partners more then women

    • gu July 23, 2016 4:06 pm
      why are we suddenly talking abt cheating, im lost ( ̄∇ ̄") hana4x

      i dont know this conversation seems funny ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ join us

    • gu July 23, 2016 4:11 pm
      Many years ago, I read some studies on sex and gender role differences in self-reported attitudes towards monogamy and infidelity that suggested there was empirical backing for the idea that males were less lik... Anoni Grrl

      okay but let*s ask u a question what kind of guys u are ? a man whom enjoy and date multiple partners or a man whom take his relashionship with his one partner serouisly ? ( dont tell me both of them because this is a very popular/stupid answer )

    • gu July 23, 2016 4:27 pm
      There are a lot of diff. truths. In my country a man left his wife bec. he cheated. after the divorce, the court ruled he had to pay child support for child that was not his bec. it was conceived while she wa... @Reality bites

      and i will tell u a very sad true story happened in iran about a man whom wanted to cheat on his woman but couldn*t : in iran there is a man whom fall in love with another woman and he hated his wife so much so what he did ? ( the punishment of cheanting on your male partner is so big for every woman and honor crimes are allowed in this country ) however this man fabricated a charge of Infidelity for his wife whom didn*t know anything so in the end her husband . the villagers and even her two childs stoned her until death and im not lying this is the video from youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2kFzGyKgpA

    • Reality bites July 23, 2016 4:58 pm

      What's the point of this vid.

    • gu July 23, 2016 5:04 pm
      What's the point of this vid. @Reality bites

      its the woman i was talking about ( ̄へ ̄) what do u think then ?

    • Reality bites July 23, 2016 5:15 pm

      I did not watch it.don't want to.

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 23, 2016 5:29 pm
      okay but let*s ask u a question what kind of guys u are ? a man whom enjoy and date multiple partners or a man whom take his relashionship with his one partner serouisly ? ( dont tell me both of them because th... @gu

      Well, I am a bi female who is usually a serial monogamist, but who has on occasion had overlapping relationships. I try to be honest about it without being needlessly hurtful. I consider myself a sex-positive feminist but my ideal relationship would either be with one person. Since my ideal partner may not actually exist, my second choice is to be on my own, which means occasionally hooking up for short term relationships with like-minded people.

      But everyone is different. People need to try to be honest as they figure out what works for them. I think that problems come from either lying or not being able to communicate.

      In fiction, I usually like only two people to be with each other. Sometimes I like a threesome if there is some legitimate three-way attraction, but I like to fantasize about people and relationships that are more passionate and exciting than real life often is.

    • gu July 23, 2016 5:30 pm
      I did not watch it.don't want to. @Reality bites

      i guess it better to do not watch it (︶︿︶)=凸 its really a Tragedy

    • Lightasus July 23, 2016 5:36 pm
      Many years ago, I read some studies on sex and gender role differences in self-reported attitudes towards monogamy and infidelity that suggested there was empirical backing for the idea that males were less lik... Anoni Grrl

      Mmmh, but I'm one to question those kind of studies aha. So many of them contradict themselves, and honestly with the media sensationalizing them, it looks like it could very well be caused by nurture instead of nature. There's so much programming to men's and women's brains these days.

      Are women really that more monogamous-oriented, or are they just afraid of being called sluts? Or is it that they are just afraid of not being able to control the pace with X stranger? Are they afraid of getting pregnant? If those kinds of blockers were out of the way, I'm sure that 15% would go up to 25%. They're already pretty darn close.

      This may also be a good read:
      http://www.apa.org/research/action/difference.aspx

    • gu July 23, 2016 5:45 pm
      Well, I am a bi female who is usually a serial monogamist, but who has on occasion had overlapping relationships. I try to be honest about it without being needlessly hurtful. I consider myself a sex-positive f... Anoni Grrl

      well your relashionships is none of my business but when a person really fall in love with someone he won*t see any another one he will love that one lonely girl/guy only this is why there is a different between a real relationship and a Temporary relationship besides a
      Temporary relationships wish have more then one partner can cause a lot of Psychological and health problem exuse me but there is a different between love and dating and sex

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 23, 2016 5:52 pm
      Mmmh, but I'm one to question those kind of studies aha. So many of them contradict themselves, and honestly with the media sensationalizing them, it looks like it could very well be caused by nurture instead o... Lightasus

      Oh, I don't mean it is necessarily biologically based--just that at one point the trends existed and were not complete myths. To switch to anecdotes and personal observation, I noticed in my area there seem to be differences in how most same-sex female couples (or whatever) hook up and form relationships and how most same-sex male couples (or whatever) work. I am going to leave heteros out of it for now because same-sex couples make the gender role and sex differences more noticeable (I think)) and because heteros should know what it feels like to be left out once in a while (JK).

      Near me, for the last 30 years or so, if a woman wants to meet other women who are attracted to females, the place to go was either the lesbian coffee house or the feminist bookstore (specifically the "Lesbian Interests" shelves). You can meet people anywhere, but if you want to be sure they are open to same-sex female relationships, those are your best bets. Many gay men, on the other hand, often go to gay bars, gay clubs, the gay bathhouse, or sometimes the all night gym. I can't prove it scientifically, but I think there is a difference between how women in the coffee house approach each other and relationships and how gay men act in the bars or the baths. That isn't to say gay men don't form lasting relationships (because they do) just that they are more likely to also have sex or have sex first and not necessarily always expect a relationship. Some women hook up without expectations too--but it is different. I mean, look at the bath houses--many men go there to have sex with other men and then go home. There may be other cities where there are lesbian bath houses where women go to hook up and then leave--but I have never seen one. I know of many cities with a gay bathhouse for men. Now maybe that's all cultural and learned behavior--but there are differences.

    • Reality bites July 23, 2016 6:03 pm

      People bring their own personal exper. to these questions. gu who are you? all of a sudden you are not writing like that 15 year old any more.

    • gu July 23, 2016 6:10 pm
      People bring their own personal exper. to these questions. gu who are you? all of a sudden you are not writing like that 15 year old any more. @Reality bites

      im a 15 years old girl that*s all

    • Lightasus July 23, 2016 6:48 pm
      Oh, I don't mean it is necessarily biologically based--just that at one point the trends existed and were not complete myths. To switch to anecdotes and personal observation, I noticed in my area there seem to ... Anoni Grrl

      Here's an anecdote of mine. Before school, I was going to a nursery. That was a familial one, there were probably like 12 kids, and besides me all kids were guys.

      What happened is that I became a nearly full blown tomboy aha. Even in primary school, I had much more of an easier time befriending guys. Genuinely laughed at girly girls like most guy child does lol, enjoyed a whole lot the more aggressive games. Sure many girls do so anyway, but I really had the full set aha. Barbies were also my nightmare.

      Anyway, I had to get rid of that in high school, because man, social pressures reversed and I was getting miserable. To do so I tried to mimic some girly behaviors and at some point that became like second nature (like, 1-2 akward years later). I changed school though so it was easier to get into it aha. Changed the wardrobe as well.

      Anyway, long story short, I don't really want to make this a giant wall of text.

      So really, it's incredibly easy to switch between one another given the right circumstances. It's all about your environment, what people tell you you should be. Genders are really just two giant cultures. If you'd open yourself to one fully a couple years you'd see how it's really easy to understand how it greatly affects your behavior.

      When I realized after that switch in high school that I would've been a completely different person if in nusery there were more girls, that's how I get that really genders mean nothing. We're just individuals that subscribe to one of those in order to fit socially. And that becomes, well, you.

      If I was to have a man's body, same person, I have to say I'd consider getting outside of monogamy much more than I do now, just because people would tell me it would be normal for me, that statistics shows that and blah blah. If I was a guy, I'd be much more aggressive in my behaviors now, because I'd be encouraged to. At least that's how it was in my childhood eh...

      Anyway, I have a unique experience with that LOL.

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 23, 2016 6:54 pm
      Here's an anecdote of mine. Before school, I was going to a nursery. That was a familial one, there were probably like 12 kids, and besides me all kids were guys.What happened is that I became a nearly full blo... Lightasus

      Your experience isn't that odd. :) Gender roles vary from culture to culture and much of it is learned. There are some transgender people who provide a good argument that in their case, there is a biological component, but gender identity can be complex. The most important point is that everyone has to determine what works for them.

    • Lightasus July 23, 2016 10:56 pm
      Your experience isn't that odd. :) Gender roles vary from culture to culture and much of it is learned. There are some transgender people who provide a good argument that in their case, there is a biological co... Anoni Grrl

      Mmmh, on that topic, I still don't get how people can still claim that they're born gay or transgender, that it is bioligically determined, when studies on identical twins have been made debunking it. Less so for transgenderism though, as it's far more rarer and only recently popular, but there was one on four pairs, and only one had both of them being transgender. For homosexual twins, it was 11%.

      So I believe it can cause a tendency at best. But again, it's about individuals, there doesn't seem to be a unique cause which everyone is desperately looking for. Many grow up as sissies or tomboys, but only a very small fraction take that further. It personally never crossed my mind to change sex. Many grow up with distant fathers, and many homosexuals say it was a critical factor, but only a small fraction of those actually become homosexuals.

      Many paths, many unique experiences. It's indeed extremely complex, but of course people want to simplify it to try to better understand it. I just don't think it's possible over this many individuals aha.

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 24, 2016 1:30 am
      Mmmh, on that topic, I still don't get how people can still claim that they're born gay or transgender, that it is bioligically determined, when studies on identical twins have been made debunking it. Less so f... Lightasus

      I don't know that such studies debunked biologically determination so much as they show that there is room for some people to choose their sexual preference (or be socially influenced) because they are biologically primed for both (or any). I think that happens more if people are biologically bi (as I think most people really are--at least somewhere on a 'bi" spectrum.

      Transgender is a different matter than sexual orientation, of course. There was a famous case in Canada of a boy whose gender was reassigned at birth because of a botched circumcision. Even though he was raised as a girl, he said he always knew he was male and felt male. When he was a child, his shrink published articles on the "successfully" gender reassignment--but it turned out they just got him to say those things and when he was older he said it was all crap. Well, it's possible that he was okay with being a girl until the age of 9 or so, but once puberty hit, he definitely felt he was male.

      There have also been efforts to "treat" homosexuals to make them straight. Sometimes these efforts take place in the context of religions. If people who were raised to believe homosexuality is sick and who are praying every night to their god to make them straight are still homosexual, I think it may be biology as opposed to culture.

      Personally, I think my sex drive and some of who I am attracted to is biologically determined and sociologically influenced. I mean, the drive itself is pretty biological, and no one ever reinforced or rewarded me for expressing same-sex attraction or acting on them. If there wasn't a primal, physical zing, I would never have sex. So, while my culture, peers, and family matter, they are not all that matters. Both nature and nurture matter.

    • Lightasus July 24, 2016 2:00 am
      I don't know that such studies debunked biologically determination so much as they show that there is room for some people to choose their sexual preference (or be socially influenced) because they are biologic... Anoni Grrl

      Well, since it's 11%, and that's pretty much also the general number as well for the whole population, I really don't see the correlation. That means that it's not even higher at all for people that have an homosexual identical twin that shares the same genes as you than your general lad. And really, a whooping 89% difference.

      When I say that though about homosexuals/trangenders, I'm not trying to say it's wierd. Men and women are both wonderful beings, and the thought of a man finding the same beauty as me in other men is not in the slightest wierd to me aha ;). Samey for girls, even though I don't feel that way toward them (as of yet), I can certainly see the appeal (and most men do lol).

      Definitively not a sickness to me even if it's not biological. Only narrow-minded homophones would think that.

    • tokidoki
      July 24, 2016 2:19 am
      Mmmh, on that topic, I still don't get how people can still claim that they're born gay or transgender, that it is bioligically determined, when studies on identical twins have been made debunking it. Less so f... Lightasus

      I read a study that suggests that the more older brothers a male has, the more likely he is to be gay, as there seems to be more progesterone released during pregnancy if there have been a number of males carried previously - wish I could find that info, but it seems to have held true for my friend and his brother (the sixth and seventh boys in their family - one is gay (7th) and one is bi ...)

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 24, 2016 2:25 am
      Well, since it's 11%, and that's pretty much also the general number as well for the whole population, I really don't see the correlation. That means that it's not even higher at all for people that have an hom... Lightasus

      Well, there is more out there on sexual orientation than just the twin studies--and as you know, any study can be criticized. Additionally, orientation is different that sexual identity and gender roles. Let's stick to sexual orientation for now. Check this out:

      http://www.natureworldnews.com/articles/10443/20141118/homosexuality-genetic-strongest-evidence.htm

      They had a fairly large sample of participants providing blood and spit samples, and they found that gay men have unique expressions of two portions of the genome. That doesn't mean that bisexual can't chose to be gay, just that there are genetic differences found in gay men.

      But as you say, it is complex.

    • Lightasus July 24, 2016 2:30 am

      Basically, it's kind of like fetishes in my reasoning. Psychologists say those are a learned behavior. Weird thing is that some of them you can't pin point and some are so odd it's almost impossible to figure out why. Hell, some might be formed when were infants. You just don't know.

      Sometimes, we think our personal preferences, including sexual preferences, sometimes "come out of nowhere", and that we have no influence from any outside source. This argument is quite weak to me: Just because you do not recognize the influence events have on you does not mean they do not affect you.

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 24, 2016 2:33 am
      Well, there is more out there on sexual orientation than just the twin studies--and as you know, any study can be criticized. Additionally, orientation is different that sexual identity and gender roles. Let's ... Anoni Grrl

      I found this too--there can be DNA and biological differences between identical twins. Maybe epigencis is the answer.

      http://www.latimes.com/science/sciencenow/la-sci-sn-genetic-homosexuality-nature-nurture-20151007-story.html

    • Lightasus July 24, 2016 3:24 am
      I found this too--there can be DNA and biological differences between identical twins. Maybe epigencis is the answer. http://www.latimes.com/science/sciencenow/la-sci-sn-genetic-homosexuality-nature-nurture-201... Anoni Grrl

      Here's another information I found about this story on another articles. Seems dishonest to leave it out:
      "The findings do not show whether a test would show whether a child would grow up to be gay or not – as the research was carried out on adults"
      http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3265248/Homosexuality-imprinted-genes-Scientists-predict-gay-70-cent-accuracy.html

      With that being said, what is said in your article...:

      "While genes rarely change over a lifetime, the epigenome is constantly changing. By imprinting themselves on the epigenome, though, environmental influences may powerfully affect how an individual's genes express themselves over the course of his life".

      Environment.

    • tokidoki
      July 24, 2016 3:30 am

      Heh, this sure got off topic! Interesting discussions though, but I wonder how Hana feels about the amount of comments generated from a single comment about when they fell in love. (=・ω・=)

    • tokidoki
      July 24, 2016 3:39 am
      Basically, it's kind of like fetishes in my reasoning. Psychologists say those are a learned behavior. Weird thing is that some of them you can't pin point and some are so odd it's almost impossible to figure o... Lightasus

      I doubt that being LGBT is learned behaviour - maybe in a few cases, but I know too many in the community who have known their preferences from a young age and some that have come from very hetero or religious households and I doubt the parents or other family/friends were teaching the children less conventional sexual behaviours and attitudes. Fetishes may be learned, but sexual preference? No.

    • Lightasus July 24, 2016 3:50 am
      I doubt that being LGBT is learned behaviour - maybe in a few cases, but I know too many in the community who have known their preferences from a young age and some that have come from very hetero or religious ... tokidoki

      I was actually implying fetishes may not be learnt behavior. Nor that homosexuality is a fetish.

      It's still just a theory, and no doctors or researchers seem to know much more than this theory. Nobody knows for sure where fetishes come from.

      And by learnt, they don't actually literally mean that people teach them to fetish something ahaha.

      Basically, I was just saying that those things can't be explained that simply.

    • Lightasus July 24, 2016 4:01 am
      I was actually implying fetishes may not be learnt behavior. Nor that homosexuality is a fetish.It's still just a theory, and no doctors or researchers seem to know much more than this theory. Nobody knows for ... Lightasus

      Mkay, I got lost in my thoughts with how you interpreted "learnt".

      Basically, I'm saying just because you do not recognize the influence events have on you does not mean they do not affect you. There xD.

      Then again, I do believe most of it is determined in your childhood. So yes, they can indeed know their sexual preference from a young age.

    • Lightasus July 24, 2016 4:48 am

      Basically, I don't just have this kind of understanding for homosexuals.

      I believe it's a culmination of events you may or may not recognize that makes most of your character (or sexual orientation in this case), and initial genes only so much. That people like to think "they're born that way", but there's probably more into it than they realize themselves.

      That holds true as well for genders, I like to question how much genes affect a certain gender's behaviors and whether it's probably more cultural. Most people just assume they born that way, as a girl or a boy.

      I'm not saying sexual orientation has the same causes at all. They seem much more subtle than that. But here I learned:
      - Identical twins being both homosexual far from 100% likely, whatever would be the real numbers.
      - First prototype on being able to determine a person's sexual orientation through ADN is by testing the genomes, which changes as you age and is affected by your environment.

      I'm just saying, it seems extremely interesting to continue searching in that direction. Especially since people seem to think they have to prove they were born with it so that they're socially more accepted, so studies and their political correctness focus on desperately trying to prove that most of the time. And still have yet to find the infamous gay gene (but still gain a lot of attention, so $$$).

      But I'm more interested by the truth than political correctness in this case. Though I think it's totally fine if it's more environmental than anything. Doesn't change the fact that they can't help it.

      And even if they could, who cares. I don't even live in a place where religion is remotely relevant, so I sure won't be the one saying they're sinning LOL. They just love the same sex, gee.

      Anyway, that probably isn't the place for that sort of debate, sorry for my tangent xD.

    • gu July 24, 2016 9:07 am

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality take a break people here is wikepedia (⊙…⊙ )

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 24, 2016 1:04 pm
      Here's another information I found about this story on another articles. Seems dishonest to leave it out:"The findings do not show whether a test would show whether a child would grow up to be gay or not – as... Lightasus

      Of course, environment plays a role--just not an exclusive role. Biology counts too. The epigenome is biology even if it changes over time. Think of it as being born in a family with a tendency towards diabetes or heart attacks. Your environment and your choices matter, but sometimes you could be a complete health nut and still get the condition. Other people can live on doughnuts and never exercise and not get the condition, no matter how bad their "nurture" because biology matters.

      As an aside, I find it odd that so many studies act as if "homosexual" and "heterosexual" are the only options and completely leave out bisexuals and the bisexual/omnisexual spectrum. I think if you are born with the capacity to be attracted to men and women both (or to people who refuse gender identity--e.g. "omnisexual"), how you choose to express that will be heavily influenced by environment and your own personality. On the other hand, if you are born with a strong biological preference for one gender, then all the nurture int the word won't change that--it's just who you are.

      Factors interact and nurture matters--but within the spectrum of what is biologically possible for the individual.

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 24, 2016 1:17 pm
      Heh, this sure got off topic! Interesting discussions though, but I wonder how Hana feels about the amount of comments generated from a single comment about when they fell in love. (=・ω・=) tokidoki

      Fair enough. : ). But we have a long wait. It's either this or "If their love had a song, what song would it be?"

    • gu July 24, 2016 4:09 pm
      Fair enough. : ). But we have a long wait. It's either this or "If their love had a song, what song would it be?" Anoni Grrl

      love me like u do the song of Ellie Goulding ( ̄へ ̄) i like it

    • tokidoki
      July 24, 2016 5:44 pm
      Fair enough. : ). But we have a long wait. It's either this or "If their love had a song, what song would it be?" Anoni Grrl

      Flesh by Simon Curtis works

    • Lightasus July 24, 2016 9:52 pm
      Of course, environment plays a role--just not an exclusive role. Biology counts too. The epigenome is biology even if it changes over time. Think of it as being born in a family with a tendency towards diabetes... Anoni Grrl

      I'm just wondering though, while people may have more of a biological tendency, but still have more than 50% of the other twins ignoring those, can't the other way around work? You're predisposed to be heterosexual, but develop more into homosexuality?

      I myself am what you'd call heteroflexible, or bi-curious for others. I wouldn't call myself bisexual because I never had a serious relationship with a woman. I'm just open to fooling around with the same sex, and of course women are attractive in their own way. I already prefer guys with some feminine features. It just so happens that I'd prefer a guy as a life partner, so really I don't make anything serious out of it. Besides, I'm already specific enough for my ideal type of man life partner lol.

      But honestly I think it's more out of open-mindness than anything else... I warmed up to the idea and by doing so developed an attraction for certain women feature in the last few years that before I couldn't care about. I'm saying that at 18 I didn't get it but explored it after and it grew on me.

      Before that in high school I knew about 5 of my friends who were feeling the same way too, be it just kissing or having sex, to having a serious relationship. But now they're dating mostly men and haven't done anything with a woman for a while.

      But really, she just needs to be good looking, act all sensual and I'm down so bad. Soooo baaaad. I have my type, but only sex-wise, if that makes sense? The media is always sexualizing women, that certainly got to me over time aha. And that's as of yet, I just haven't explored it much further, and only have once genuinely fallen in love (past lust) with a guy as of yet.

      So really, I feel we're boxing people in labels way too much. Sexuality is just very fluid and confusing.

      You'd probably like to argue that I was born that way (because supposedly that's more important than how they grew up), but honestly I don't feel so. I just didn't hold any disgust toward the idea, and already had plenty of exposure to it. Those that feel that way for themselves I feel just had it being as clear as day early in their childhood, while for others it's just later. Later is probably only works for developing a second attraction though aha, I doubt you can just erase one.

      It's a sexual attraction, but not romantic. But as I've said, I've only fell in love with one guy, so maybe it's about not finding the girl? Aha.

      But really, everyone's different, I'm probably just extremely fluid and shouldn't expect everyone to be so. But for me, I really feel I had to work it in my head before it became a thing. Then again, I've managed to change most of my gender behavior in the span of 1-2 years, so...

    • gu July 25, 2016 4:12 pm
      I'm just wondering though, while people may have more of a biological tendency, but still have more than 50% of the other twins ignoring those, can't the other way around work? You're predisposed to be heterose... Lightasus

      well my friend i know that i might be so younger to talk with u about this but do u know that in many countries in the world homosexuality is a crime and gays and lesbians are living in a hell even and not them only also the people whom support them and try to protect them and accept them well for me i think homos born this way i mean the Sexual orientation is not a choice its something u born with however let*s back to the orginal subject those homos whom live in countries like this they often do two thing first they make their relashionships a secret even from their families and live a life with lies and problems or second try to become normal people and curb their desires and Either way they will have a lot of problems with their Communities this is why u should know how lucky u are this is why u dont need to think a lot about the whole thing just live your life as u like and can and even if you are a gay love doesn*t know a gender right ? and for your futur soulmate and partner u will meet him by time so dont worry finally if u feel that this is the way you are really always be happy and have faith and everything will be alright (●'◡'●)ノ

    • gu July 25, 2016 4:15 pm
      I'm just wondering though, while people may have more of a biological tendency, but still have more than 50% of the other twins ignoring those, can't the other way around work? You're predisposed to be heterose... Lightasus

      just stop talking about gender and Sexual orientation bla bla bla........ just take it easy and live a happy life

  10. Anonymous July 17, 2016 12:19 pm

    Around what time did Asami start calling Akihito by his first name? Was it when they moved in together? 'Cause I just re-read the Temporary Paradise extra that takes place after the HK arch, and Asami was still calling him 'Takaba' then.

  11. hana
    July 15, 2016 7:33 pm

    So an anonymous person suggested a group chat in the forums earlier and I thought it would be cool af if we all did have a group chat for VF discussions/yaoi recs/ fujoshi goodness in general tbh. If you want to join in message me on KIK (sluttyaoba) and I will add you~

    tbh not sure if this would work out well but its worth a shot hmm?

    • gu July 18, 2016 2:24 pm

      if u want we can chat toghether on fb

  12. honey-senpai
    July 15, 2016 1:02 am

    This is some good shit. Why haven't I read this before? ;A;

    • tokidoki
      July 15, 2016 2:29 am

      Welcome to the wonderful world of Finder and Yamane Ayano sensei - her other works are pretty great too.

    • Queen(Vanita)
      July 15, 2016 11:24 am

      Yes it is

    • Anonymous July 15, 2016 5:18 pm

      Welcome to Finder. Basically, you're screwed now. :D :D

    • LadyLigeia July 14, 2016 11:00 pm

      Even if, it's very subtle. I like the idea. ヾ(☆▽☆)

    • Anonymous July 15, 2016 3:46 am
      Even if, it's very subtle. I like the idea. ヾ(☆▽☆) LadyLigeia

      what about the little boy? I can see feilong as an old uke ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ . . . maybe 3 guys fighting for fei-chan?

    • LadyLigeia July 15, 2016 8:29 am
      what about the little boy? I can see feilong as an old uke ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ . . . maybe 3 guys fighting for fei-chan? @Anonymous

      Tao looks more like a son for me, a son with a late Oedipus complex. ;)

    • Reality bites July 15, 2016 1:27 pm

      I see FeiLong as a seke. He can take or receive depending on his mood and tastes. I agree with Lady L , I too see Tao as a son of Fei . Despite the dream sequence I don't think Fei would touch Tao in that way. the playfulness between Arbatov and Feilong is suggestive . At times it feels more like two sibs teasing each other. Yoh we know Yoh is steadfast and in love with Fei long. I'd like to suggest a third possible candidate Kuroda shinji. Think of it. close to Asami. Sintilating mind, handsome and can take a bullet. he would give Fei a run for his money. did I mention sin ?Intellect beauty, sex, power, what conversations they could have over latenightsex...... I mean wine. hahahahahaha

    • Anoni Grrl
      July 15, 2016 3:21 pm

      It's there, but it's mostly one-sided. From what we saw, Fei was only into Asami until Fei started to be won over by Aki too. Fei has no interest in Mikhail, and Fei was betrayed by Yoh (and sees Tao as a nephew). In the novella, Yoh makes progress, but it is left open. So I see it not so much as a love triangle, but as a sort of constellation or connect the dots picture. I hope I'll make my diagram clear even when Manago takes all my attempts at formatting out.

      ___*-------------*
      __Asami <---> Aki
      -----(v)---------(v)
      __^-------------^
      -----------*
      ______ Fei
      ------V------!--------$
      ------^------^------^
      -----*-------*-------*
      ___Yoh__Tao___Mikhail

      So it's sort of like an hour glass or part of Orion or something.

      To clarify, Asami and Aki are into each other (obvi) and each has complicated left over feelings for Fei which include lust. Fei is into both Asami and Aki and lusts for both of them. Fei is team threesome. Yoh is into Fei, but Fei has only recently come to see Yoh that way. Tao has a puppy-love crush on Fei but Fei sees Tao as his nephew. Mikhail is into Fei, but Fei has no interest in Mikhail.

    • Reality bites July 15, 2016 3:49 pm

      Makes sense to me, there is a beauty in your logic .

    • LadyLigeia July 15, 2016 11:29 pm
      It's there, but it's mostly one-sided. From what we saw, Fei was only into Asami until Fei started to be won over by Aki too. Fei has no interest in Mikhail, and Fei was betrayed by Yoh (and sees Tao as a nephe... Anoni Grrl

      Good diagram!

    • Anonymous July 21, 2016 8:48 pm
      It's there, but it's mostly one-sided. From what we saw, Fei was only into Asami until Fei started to be won over by Aki too. Fei has no interest in Mikhail, and Fei was betrayed by Yoh (and sees Tao as a nephe... Anoni Grrl

      I like YohxFei ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

    • LadyLigeia July 22, 2016 3:26 pm
      I like YohxFei ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ @Anonymous

      Me too. I'm a fan of both.

  13. Group chat? July 13, 2016 1:28 pm

    I'm not sure if anyone suggested this before tbh, but wouldn't it be cool if we had a group chat on KIK or Line or something? Idk

  14. Arianna
    July 13, 2016 12:03 am

    should i give up on this? story just doesn't get me excited anymore. :/

    • Lightasus July 13, 2016 12:55 am

      ...Maybe?

    • Anonymous July 14, 2016 11:06 am

      Sorry, but this is such a stupid question. You answered it yourself. Move on.

    • Arianna
      July 14, 2016 4:39 pm
      Sorry, but this is such a stupid question. You answered it yourself. Move on. @Anonymous

      hoping someone knew if it was gonna get better or something. guess i'll just drop it.

    • Anonymous July 14, 2016 8:02 pm
      hoping someone knew if it was gonna get better or something. guess i'll just drop it. Arianna

      Here's the problem you're having: You seem to think because you don't enjoy it, it's bad. So you are hoping it will get better. But it doesn't NEED to get better because it's not bad. It's very good. It's just not your thing. So you need to go find something that appeals to you. Off with you now. Go on.

    • Arianna
      July 14, 2016 8:23 pm
      Here's the problem you're having: You seem to think because you don't enjoy it, it's bad. So you are hoping it will get better. But it doesn't NEED to get better because it's not bad. It's very good. It's just ... @Anonymous

      i already said i was gonna drop it. what's with this reply? and it might be good for some people, but plot wise, this is starting to get a little...bland. to me anyways. but that's probably because i've seen better plots than this one. so yeah.

    • Lightasus July 14, 2016 8:51 pm
      hoping someone knew if it was gonna get better or something. guess i'll just drop it. Arianna

      Nah, I don't think anybody here can travel time yet :P

    • Anonymous July 14, 2016 9:30 pm

      Arianna, ignore the pissy attitudes. This fandom has some of the worst fans. Post something here that displeases the rulers supreme and you'll only get verbal abuse and snide remarks about your intelligence (or lack thereof) and your general worthlessness as a human being because you are not a mangaka able to create such a ''masterpiece''. They'll rip into you like a pack of rabid dogs. Not your fault if some people defend this manga like it's their first born child.

    • Pfft July 14, 2016 11:06 pm
      Arianna, ignore the pissy attitudes. This fandom has some of the worst fans. Post something here that displeases the rulers supreme and you'll only get verbal abuse and snide remarks about your intelligence (or... @Anonymous

      Oh please. You come on a message board and say a thing sucks just because you don't like it and expect cupcakes? People have varying opinions, a right to support them, and they're going to express them, sometimes in a manner that might hurt your little feelings. Arianna asked a question and she got an answer. If that was too much for her, she needs to either put on her big girl panties or get off the internet. You too.

    • Arianna
      July 15, 2016 12:24 am
      Oh please. You come on a message board and say a thing sucks just because you don't like it and expect cupcakes? People have varying opinions, a right to support them, and they're going to express them, sometim... @Pfft

      you are one of those people that she just talked about. and it didn't hurt my feelings. and if they have a right to support them, then how come i apparently can't support mine? get off the web, you hypocrite.

    • tokidoki
      July 15, 2016 2:33 am

      It is not to every persons taste, you need to find stories that appeal to you, if this one does not, there are thousands on this site, and some will appeal more. I wish you luck on your search, and hours of fun reading of course.

    • Lightasus July 15, 2016 2:53 am

      To be fair though, I myself was pretty disappointed with how lovey-dovey they became recently. Kind of really liked that cat and mouse game, them defying each other. That one year break made me slowly regain interest, so here's hoping my tastes changed or it kind of gets back to that...

      If not I'll just probably be a very casual reader lol.

    • Meimei
      July 15, 2016 8:03 am
      To be fair though, I myself was pretty disappointed with how lovey-dovey they became recently. Kind of really liked that cat and mouse game, them defying each other. That one year break made me slowly regain in... Lightasus

      In my opinion, though, it would be boring if they constantly play the cat and mouse game. There should be developments regarding their feelings at some point so that the story makes sense. I like how Akihito does not want to be too attached to Asami and still want to do his own thing.

      What I really want the story to expand and include other pairings. I'm afraid that some readers will be get sick of this couple as the story goes if sensei will continue to focus on them. It is also boring for me if they all chase Akihito.

      Just putting this here. :)

    • Lightasus July 15, 2016 1:36 pm
      In my opinion, though, it would be boring if they constantly play the cat and mouse game. There should be developments regarding their feelings at some point so that the story makes sense. I like how Akihito do... Meimei

      Eh, it's all subjective ;)

      I've seem lots of other people expressing the same concerns as me. After all, it's what attracted many of us in this story, and it has been constantly present throughout the series. Seeing them become a mundaner version of themselves kind of put me off; I might develop a taste for it, I might not...

      I've found the latest chapters extremely boring. And shifting the focus on other couples is a sure way to get me out lol. With that pace of publishing, if we have to have chapters every once in a while with couples I can't care about, I'm so out.

      It'd just divide the fandom further on top of that. You seem to personally have gotten bored out of them though if you're suggesting such a thing lol.

    • J Unleashed July 15, 2016 2:18 pm
      Eh, it's all subjective ;)I've seem lots of other people expressing the same concerns as me. After all, it's what attracted many of us in this story, and it has been constantly present throughout the series. Se... Lightasus

      Heh... this is exactly what killed Sekaiichi Hatsukoi for me.

    • Say what? July 15, 2016 2:29 pm
      Eh, it's all subjective ;)I've seem lots of other people expressing the same concerns as me. After all, it's what attracted many of us in this story, and it has been constantly present throughout the series. Se... Lightasus

      Such a fine line between subjectivity and what the hell are you talking about? Mundane how? Mundane when? How many of the latest chapters?

      Let's go back fourteen chapters and we have Akihito getting beaten by Sudou's thugs, questioning his place in Asami's life and deciding not to go back. He gets arrested and thrown in jail, then dragged back to Asami's place where they have a highly emotionally charged encounter after which Asami ravishes him. After which he basically offers to spy for Asami, gets drugged and kidnapped and hung on a bailing hook, where Sudou jizzes all over him and nearly slits his throat. Then Aki is caught in the middle of a shootout, drags a wounded Kuroda to safety.

      Back at the penthouse, Asami and Aki get maybe three minutes of peace over a cup of coffee (is that your mundanity?) before their home is invaded by jack booted assassins (at which point, Aki still defied Asami, thank you very much) and they barely escape with their lives after another shootout on the fricking roof.

      This is mundane for you? Because that's what happened in the last fourteen chapters and it doesn't look mundane to me. What an exciting life you must lead if all of this leaves you cold.

    • J Unleashed July 15, 2016 2:40 pm
      Such a fine line between subjectivity and what the hell are you talking about? Mundane how? Mundane when? How many of the latest chapters? Let's go back fourteen chapters and we have Akihito getting beaten by S... @Say what?

      I'm guessing Lightasus meant the relationship between the two-- they're becoming like an old married couple (which is fine, if that's what you like). A lot of us prefer the original fiery conflict-- like when Asami had to shoot the lock off the door to get into Akihito's room.

    • Say what? July 15, 2016 2:52 pm
      I'm guessing Lightasus meant the relationship between the two-- they're becoming like an old married couple (which is fine, if that's what you like). A lot of us prefer the original fiery conflict-- like when A... J Unleashed

      Not seeing it. Show me where it happens. There's been one cup of coffee in between beatings, kidnappings and shootouts. This is not how old married couples live, with like three minutes of quiet. If you're saying you're bored because their relationship has actually evolved and matured, then yeah, this might not be for you anymore.

      But I'm with Meimei up there. If there was a never ending string of scenes of Asami shooting the locks off of doors and Akihito acting like he wasn't into the sex, you'd soon be bored of that, too. Human nature wins again.

    • Lightasus July 15, 2016 3:11 pm
      Not seeing it. Show me where it happens. There's been one cup of coffee in between beatings, kidnappings and shootouts. This is not how old married couples live, with like three minutes of quiet. If you're sayi... @Say what?

      Eh, why exactly do you think you are capable to tell us what we would be bored out from? Could it be that we just have different tastes?

      Again, you're still missing the point. I was talking about their chemistry and only their chemistry. It ruined off the last 4-5 chapters for me, regardless of the action. It just lost that special spark for me, so I've been mourning and haven't been able to enjoy the story as much aha.

    • J Unleashed July 15, 2016 3:49 pm
      Not seeing it. Show me where it happens. There's been one cup of coffee in between beatings, kidnappings and shootouts. This is not how old married couples live, with like three minutes of quiet. If you're sayi... @Say what?

      Lol... I don't recall a situation where Akihito was not into the sex once he began seeking Asami out.

      I mean the dynamic between the two, not the action around it. "Crime Lord" Asami seems to be becoming a little "too sweet" and "Don't-f*ck-with-me" Akihito a little "too amiable". Their very natures and occupations should keep them in a precarious balancing situation.

      But it's true I'd rather see some conflict where the game is who can top the other (not meaning sex there), rather than a comfortable mature relationship. The lock bit was only an (albeit, extreme) example... it's the "push-me/pull-me" (*cough* literally, as in tub bit in birthday extra) that drew me in the first place.

    • Meimei
      July 15, 2016 3:55 pm
      Eh, it's all subjective ;)I've seem lots of other people expressing the same concerns as me. After all, it's what attracted many of us in this story, and it has been constantly present throughout the series. Se... Lightasus

      You're right, eveyone has a different preference. I noticed that in the recent chapters, sensei wanted to involve more characters and, maybe, also wanted Aki and Asami's relationship to progress at some point.

      I'm not bored with their pairing actually, I just want some more yaoi actions with the other characters. I'm giddy for more. Who isn't? Hahahaha. The fandoms will be on fire and might help manage to keep this manga going for a long time. :p

      This is a challenge for long-running series, how to develop their characters beautifully while also having a meaningful plot. The plots will be a hit and miss with the fans though.

    • Lightasus July 15, 2016 4:39 pm
      You're right, eveyone has a different preference. I noticed that in the recent chapters, sensei wanted to involve more characters and, maybe, also wanted Aki and Asami's relationship to progress at some point.I... Meimei

      Yeah, bored out of them was maybe too much. You're probably just enjoying them more reasonably than I did xD.

      Though who isn't? Me, I would not be particularly happy ;).

      More seriously though, adding in more couples, there's already too much of that in other "mainstream" yaoi series. And it's always the same; I can't care about them, they're obviously never as developed as the main characters so why even bother with them stealing pages. Which may very well be one of the main reasons why Finder is the only yaoi I'm still reading now lol. If I want to read about another couple, I'll just read another series.

      I guess it works if you're the type to get giddy for yaoi in general. Like those girls that post yaoi artwork with random couples on tumblr all day (I'm generalizing, obviously aha).

      And aha, that being said, you sure do read a lot of yaoi, seeing as you completed 699 of them xD.

  15. Anoni Grrl
    July 12, 2016 9:10 pm

    Lets' take a minute to reflect on the fact that Aki mentioned how cold it was the night before all this happened. Aki was on the phone to Asami outside of the club, he was fully dressed and wearing a coat, and he said, "It's cold." Now Aki has been stuck outside on the roof in his undies forever and it's gotta be freezing! Asami is naturally hot-blooded, and I think even his nipples are kind of showing too. Arron brought a coat. Arron would.

    Poor Aki--those legs have to be about blue by now.

    • Romanceisdead69
      July 12, 2016 9:38 pm

      Ewww and all goose pimply. I hate that ╥﹏╥

    • Reality bites July 12, 2016 10:14 pm

      Kirshima had tents in the helicopter, with extra clothes. He is always prepared. they are a little big on Takaba. now Arron is the one who is suffering. I hear it's hot in Tokyo. Wearing a coat in summer must be tough. hahaha.

    • tokidoki
      July 15, 2016 2:35 am

      Nah, goosebumps won't happen when your adrenaline is running high (for Aki at least) Asamis skin would never dare show that kind of weakness!LOL

  16. BLAZEYAOI
    July 12, 2016 4:36 pm

    The (Digital) Pen...

    That’s right.. It’s the stuff yaoi dreams are made of! The marriage is official with Asami Ryuichi as the bridegroom and Takaba Akihito as the bride with Ayano Yamane as the matchmaker.. Seriously.. It’s too early in the morning for this cuteness!

    http://thedigitalpen.tumblr.com/image/144796090260

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