I met a girl through one of our mutual friends last year at a convention. I didn't really develop a crush onto her till later, then about a month later we started going out. So to anyone who feels like their crush isn't valid or you're confessing too soon, you're probably over thinking it. I know everyone wants a dreamy kind of should crush, but your life isn't a Manga and I'd be surprised if anyone experienced anything like that haha. Anyways, it's been 8 months with my girlfriend and I'm so in love c: (I am a girl also if that wasn't clear xD)