bruh. if he doesn't clean STILL and that a flaw you don't like and you talked it out and he still not taking you serious you should break up. this artist love making shitty dude and making people feel think it adorable because he is "shy". If he really did love her then treat her like one. you don't have to say "I love you" back but you can clean up afterwards or take care of her and understand her anger when she tell you. like bro I'm done with this bs.
