It's ok... just kids interactions... a young girl's curiosity and beginning of independence... how words from 1 person could affect you badly but then if you really look inside yourself their words have no power on you if you don't let it. It might hurt at first but there are people around you that will love you just the way you are. You have no need to change yourself according to someone's taste. You're lovely just the way you are--- that kind of message