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Healthy, consensual S&M/BDSM/subverse - BL

List of manga/manhwa with BDSM and S&M relationships.

I only put here comics where:
- characters love each others or do "plays" relying on trust
- 100% consensual - not rapey shits or violence; if something wasn't entirely consensual I will write this in description
- characters are adult or at least students - 0% high schoolers
- 0% playboys and sluty uke's
- only couples - 0% triangles
- drawing styles is newer - >2010
- my heart skipped a beat during reading
- I liked characters
All(43) / manga(43)

Collar Kiss

 9.3(288 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): Ooy
Genre(s): Yaoi / Smut / Romance

+ Subverse - doms and their subs
+ traumatized uke finds gently, single dom dad
+ really affectionate seme
+ everything is consensual
+ a lot huggies and simple conversations
+ pretty drawing style

My subjective score: 10/10

06 02,2022

Sugar to Mustard

 8.9(198 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): Hanasawa namio
Genre(s): Yaoi / Smut / Comedy / Romance

+ S&M
+ traumatized M uke finds new S
+ everything consensual
+ age gap 8 years
+ younger seme(student)
+ older uke
+ affectionate, but a little possesive seme
+ pretty drawing style

My subjective score:10/10

06 02,2022

Aporia

 9.1(217 voted)
Complete
Author(s): seontae
Genre(s): Mature / Romance / Yaoi / Webtoons

+ BDSM
+ uke falls in love and although he is scared of BDSM he wants to try it with seme
+ everything consensual
+ safe word, stated rules, written contract
+ adult couple
+ seme at first cold, but later affectionate
+ a few easy "plays", but also hard ones for example breath control
+ contractual relationship turned into romantic one
+ pretty drawing style
+ full color - manhwa

- a little too much drama
- not interesting second couple

My subjective score: 10/10

06 02,2022

Yakuza wo Shibatte Ii desu ka

 9.2(259 voted)
Complete
Author(s): suji
Genre(s): Smut / Romance / Yaoi

+ uke who is rope artist
+ rope fetish
+ masculine both seme and uke
+ seme is from yakuza
+ lovely-dovely couple
+ seme is one that gets tied up
+ everything consensual
+ adult couple

My subjective score: 10/10

06 02,2022

Kimi no Ahimoto de Ai wo shiru

 9.3(141 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Atono matsuri
Genre(s): Yaoi

+ Subverse - subs and their doms
+ masculine both seme and uke
+ cheerful, puppy type seme
+ calm uke
+ affectionate seme
+ uke who sees sub gender as weakness and something humiliating is forced to make an appointment with professional dom, because his medications are not working
+ consensual
+ pretty drawing style

*warning: It's so sweet you can get diabetes and cavities (^◡^ )

My score: 10/10

16 02,2022

SM Gokko

 8.2(882 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Mitsui Tsubaki,MITSUI Tsubaki
Genre(s): Drama / Yaoi

+ BDSM
+ safe word, stated rules
+ uke is new to BDSM world, seme teaches him everything(chap 4)
+ first "play" not exactly consensual(uke was hung over), but later ones all consensual
+ they become couple
+ romantic feelings present
+ adult couple, but seme is 7 years older
*warning: enema play

My subjective score: 9/10

06 02,2022

Sayonara, Boku no Goshujin-sama

 8.3(884 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Takase Roku,Tachibana Mizuki
Genre(s): Drama / Psychological / Smut / Yaoi

+ S&M
+ traumatized M uke, he's scared of touch
+ S seme who were earlier M
+ seme with glasses
+ student x student
+ confinement - they end up as couple and seme wasn't using violence so I put it here
+ my heart skipped a beat

I really like this one, even if it wasn't exactly "healthy" from beginning. Try it for yourselfs so you will see it's not so bad. Psychological things are nice shown here.

My subjective score: 9/10

07 02,2022

Discipline Me. Melt Me. Expose Me. Love Me.

 9.1(787 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): kirishiki tokico
Genre(s): Adult / Romance / Yaoi

+ Subverse
+ masculine uke
+ uke with glasses
+ seme is from yakuza and has tattoos
+ relationship based on satisfying each other' desires, not on love
+ unreliqued love from seme side, uke don't see him as love interest
+ seme plays tough, but is softie inside and want to spoil uke
+ uke just wants to be dominated and refuse nice things like kissing and hugging
+ everything consensual and they really trust each others

My subjective score: 9/10

07 02,2022

Ai Subeki Sadist

 8.8(170 voted)
Complete
Author(s): hakoishi tammy
Genre(s): Drama / Romance / Yaoi

+ S&M
+ sadistic uke
+ masochistic seme
+ uke with past trauma
+ lost, playing tough uke
+ kind, affectionate seme
+ adult x student
+ big age gap around 10 years
+ pretty drawing style

My subjective score: 9/10

07 02,2022

Hitomebore Shita Hito ga Do-M Datta Mono de

 9.1(490 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): YAMADA Nonono
Genre(s): Smut / Yaoi

+ S&M
+ masochistic uke
+ seme learns to satisfy his partner(he wasn't S from the beginning)
+ lovers
+ adult couple
+ reaaaaally affectionate seme
+ proper plays with safe word and aftercare

warning: breath control play - more than once

Score: 9/10

16 05,2022

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Messages

Sirwu February 14, 2024 2:06 pm

Thank you!!

aroomsthepotato March 4, 2023 9:29 pm

I just love the effort u have put in your list <3 slay work hooman uwu