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❣ Considerate and Respectful Characters I Admire

Considerate and Respectful Characters who:

-don't pressure their partners
    (also they listen when their partner's say "wait" or "stop")
-consider and pay attention to other's feelings
-treat their bae right
-are especially caring people

(all surprisingly rare commodities for romance mangas...)

I know this list is especially short, so if you're reading this and you know of any rom manga that fit this list's requirements PLEASE do message me 
All(11) / manga(11)

Bokura ga Koi wo Ushinau Riyuu

 9.2(169 voted)
Complete
Author(s): itz
Genre(s): Yaoi / Romance / Drama

The seme showed him so much respect emotionally and physically, his attractiveness just shot through the roof. This manga inspired this list.

13 03,2020

Cat and Bed

 8.8(151 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): toujou sakana
Genre(s): Smut / Yaoi

Wow.
Most gentle and considerate dom I've seen, maybe ever? Reminds me why I got into yaoi in the first place. A loving sex scene between men that conveyed a feeling you cant get from porn (and thus a fujoshi was born). Bless this. I need more of these.
*18+ smut manga*

31 12,2020

Kimi wa Natsu no Naka

 9.4(248 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Nagisa Furuya
Genre(s): Shounen Ai

the protagonist truly just knows by instinct how to treat people respectfully and think about their feelings so I admire him a lot (literally the trait that made the love interest fall for him).

13 03,2020

Rumspringa no Joukei

 9.5(225 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Azuma kaya
Genre(s): Yaoi / Historical / Romance

It's not that this couple particularly stands out for being considerate or respectful, they just naturally had a very healthy relationship from the very beginning to the end and I love them~

14 03,2020

Kimi ni Ienai Koto ga Aru

 9.1(201 voted)
Complete
Author(s): mofumofu edako
Genre(s): Yaoi

All seme wants is for uke to live happily. He takes care of him and is almost too considerate! Uke loves that he’s hardworking and kind/helpful, but wants seme to stop thinking he’s superman and to take care of himself too & he supports him. Gosh they are just so good for each other <3

07 03,2021

Pink Heart Jam

 9.6(531 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Shikke
Genre(s): Yaoi / Smut / School Life

He thought about not wanting to force his ideals on the person he admires and the guitarist thought about wanting to let himself figure out what he wants on his own (his sexuality) rather than drawing him in and having him possibly regretting it later. They're both really careful about not making the other uncomfortable and considering each others feelings and openly communicating its really nice.

20 07,2023

Kore Wa Koi Ni Fukumare Masu Ka

 8.9(135 voted)
Complete
Author(s): susuki sonoichi
Genre(s): Romance / Yaoi

Seme tried to protect him and suppress his feeling so uke wouldn’t feel betrayed and later when uke liked him he was still super communicative because he didn’t want to make uke uncomfortable.
*Uke said “wait stop” and he actually did* bonus point

05 09,2020

Doutei Nana-kun Foreign Love

 9.0(159 voted)
Complete
Author(s): MIKE Nako
Genre(s): Romance / Yaoi / School Life / Comedy

Ugh they are so cute together and seme really tries to be a proper bf/ treat uke right emotionally and physically <3

06 09,2020

Path to You

 9.5(645 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Sinran,Kisai Entertainment
Genre(s): Webtoons / Shounen Ai / Yaoi

really good/ funny! wow! massive respect and a healthy relationship between them! Even the side character pointed out he needs to respect himself and the way he was thinking was internalized homophobia against himself. Props to the author for building such a good relationship/ morally good characters, I just wish there was more post-dating content.

04 04,2021

To Dear, My Sorrow

 8.7(140 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Kureno Mataaki
Genre(s): Yaoi / Slice Of Life / Drama

Extremely realistic couple, butterfly feels, bae doesn't take that as a no means yes even though they've done it before like some stupid-dumb BL manga and damn they're just such a good couple <3

20 04,2021

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TheRomanceEnthusiast April 20, 2021 4:58 pm

I hesitate to add yuri to this list because I'd be adding practically every yuri already on my yuri list so uh... just go check that one out. There are like 3 or so "dark" yuri on that list I wouldn't add here but that's included in my reviews so you'll know which ones.