Sorry, guys! During system maintenance, some functions like comment are unavailable.

≪ Realistic, LGBTQ+ Rep ≫

Not every gay person finds their one true love in five seconds and dates them without a single obstacle
Includes...
- (gay) relationships with bumps in the road
- people not accepted for who they are/struggling with coming out
- relationships that move forward realistically
- realistic representation
- authors writing about their real life experiences in a manga format (listed at the end)

go ahead and recommend if you liked this list <3
All(54) / manga(54)

Itoshi no Nekokke

 9.2(406 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): KUMOTA Haruko
Genre(s): Comedy / Romance / Slice Of Life / Yaoi

*drag queen/genderfluid, switch couple
This one has angst and fluff, is a tearjerker but also makes you smile

14 07,2020

J no Subete

 9.2(318 voted)
Complete
Author(s): NAKAMURA Asumiko
Genre(s): Drama / Gender Bender / Mature / Psychological / Yaoi

*gay, trans
Even though J no Subete is 3 volumes long, each volume is a dynamic story in itself covering a particular stage of J's life. His life is a dark story and it's a very psychological manga.
Note: Please don't fight over what J's "actual" gender is because that's not the point of the story. It's about how J was going through something unheard of during their time and their personal experiences. J might have specified their pronouns as she/her but i

13 08,2020

Hanayome wa Motodanshi

 9.5(791 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Chii
Genre(s): Romance / Slice Of Life

trans-woman
Chii and her husband are like any other happily married couple, except for one thing: Chii was assigned male at birth. Chii details her autobiographical account of growing up with gender dysphoria and ultimately deciding to transition in her early adult years. As Chii continues to transition, her boyfriend supports her through the process, culminating in their marriage once her transition is complete.

13 08,2020

Kanojo ni Naritai Kimi to Boku

 9.3(206 voted)
Complete
Author(s): takase umi
Genre(s): Shoujo / Drama / Romance / Slice Of Life / School Life

*trans mc, best friend is bi/pan (not specified)
Hime Sakuragaike has secretly been in love with her childhood friend Akira Yonezawa since they were kids, but Hime only recently found out that Akira identifies as female. Although surprised, Hime offers her full support. However, since Akira garners a certain amount of attention, Hime takes it upon herself to aggressively stick up for Akira whenever necessary.

02 09,2020

Hourou Musuko

 8.7(468 voted)
Complete
Author(s): shimura takako
Genre(s): Drama / Gender Bender / Romance / School Life / Seinen / Slice Of Life

It has an anime adaptation !!
About the trans journey from youth to adulthood and the struggles of figuring out your identity because there's not always a clear answer for what you're looking for. This is pretty light and funny but still takes the mc's concerns seriously.

02 09,2020

3 Ban Sen no Campanella

 9.2(655 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Kyouyama Atsuki,Kikoenai Koe
Genre(s): Drama / Romance / Shounen Ai

clear lgbtq representation
*gay, trans

13 08,2020

Is - Otoko Demo Onna Demo Nai Sei

 9.4(804 voted)
Complete
Author(s): rokuhana chiyo
Genre(s): Drama / Gender Bender / Josei / Romance / School Life

IS (Pronounced Aiesu in Japanese) is not your everyday manga. This manga strictly deals with cases of inter sexuality, which IS stands for.
This manga deals with very serious issues concerning intersexual people. The pain they go through, the troubles they confront, and ultimately their inability to reproduce and even find a partner who will accept them as they are - It's all there in a form of manga.

13 08,2020

New York New York

 9.1(189 voted)
Complete
Author(s): ragawa marimo
Genre(s): Drama / Mature / Romance / Yaoi

It follows the lifelong relationship between Kain Walker, a New York cop who has hidden his homosexuality, and his younger blond boyfriend, Mel Frederics, an orphan with a troubled past.

28 06,2020

Kinou Nani Tabeta?

 8.9(412 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): Yoshinaga Fumi
Genre(s): Seinen / Shounen Ai / Slice Of Life

Just a realistic slice of life manga mostly about cooking tbh.
The characters are mature and successful but their flaws are still shown. Their lives aren't romanticized like most shounen ai/yaoi is.

05 07,2020

Kikyou

 8.6(274 voted)
Complete
Author(s): go fujimoto
Genre(s): Seinen / One Shot / Drama / Bara

*brutally realistic one shot about homophobic parents
One-shot about an ordinary Japanese man who decides to tell his parents he's gay, and the family drama that follows. An interesting (short) look inside the Japanese closet, where many stereotypes, social prejudices, and pressure to keep up appearances and be what others expect you to be still weigh heavily. This story show us a realistic experience on being homosexual in Japan.

05 07,2020

What can a LIST do?

You may feel your favorite manga should be gathered together into distinct categories for your own reference and, now, you can do this with a LIST. After you've created your list or lists, you can proudly recommend them to other manga fans to showcase and share your taste in manga.

Messages

shinigami May 24, 2024 12:49 am

U should totally read my son is probably gay (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Vampz December 8, 2022 2:56 am

Change to semi realistic mlm

Axel July 16, 2022 7:27 am

You should've put gay men not lgbt 'coz it's only mlm there's no gl

the princess and the pea May 13, 2022 6:16 am

why is it 99% gay men no hate or anything

saucynoelle July 7, 2022 9:35 am

Literally like can I get some lesbian rep pls

elliot July 13, 2021 10:32 am
Stardust May 26, 2021 11:41 am

I suggest you add this one to the list ^^
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mom_i_m_gay/

Wolfgang May 26, 2021 9:17 pm

added! seems rlly sweet

December 12, 2020 5:47 pm

You should change the list name to Realistic Representation of Gay Men with a Small Splash of Gender Identity and Lesbian Stories. There isn't enough of a mix in genre on here as it mostly consists of yaoi. Just FYI and I mean absolutely no offense by it. As far as yuri realistic rep, check out What Does The Fox Say?, Aoi Hana, Ohana Holoholo, Asagao to Kase-San and the sequel, Lily Love 1 & 2, Serenade, Octave or Cresent Moon & Doughnuts. I don't have any to recommend for gender identity issues as there is a very small amount of those manga that are done correctly.

precious spoopy October 6, 2020 7:26 pm

I reccomend Timeless Melody loved the list ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

Wolfgang October 6, 2020 10:10 pm

thank you so much for the rec it's added now I loved it >~<