Can you not call straight people queer tho? It’s really insensitive to actual queer people and straight people calling them something they’re not simply for not conforming to societal norms. Dressing different, cross dressing, or have unusual dynamics for straight people does not make you queer so pls don’t label it as that :(
this is just bizzare. a male x female relationship doesnt suddenly cancel out each individual being bisexual, pansexual or trans?? you do know transwomen can be in a straight relationship too right (with men)? it doesnt suddenly erase the fact that they themselves are queer? Two bi people of opposite gender being in a straight presenting relationship doesnt suddenly mean theyre not queer anymore either. You're exposing how incredibly narrow minded you are. If you don't like the list, leave. I'm not changing anything for you because you don't understand queerness can happen in dynamics between opposite gender identities or outside of a "couple" relationship. Get over it.
you know what, Im not done. Im going to dissect this further. what you see as "crossdressing" I read as genuine gender fluidity. mind you, if youd even looked through the list, you would have seen there are stories including people who do identify as BOTH genders. yet you want to shrink that down to "crossdressing"? how insulting! and what you read as "unsual dynamics" is literally homophobic in itself. Those "unsual" behaviours, the bending of gender binaries, is intself part of what out modern definition of queerness is. Because you see someone male presenting and someone female presenting, suddenly that doesn't matter to you anymore and it doesnt "work" for you? if you were going to get so triggered over a fucking list title and shoot yourself in the foot by sounding like a bigot yourself maybe dont click into the list

I think the word you're looking for in gender non-conforming couples