If someone were to ask, "How do you become a cat?" the answer would be obvious (right?)... you can't BECOME a cat. You are either born one or you are not. Being gay is no different. It is not a choice, you either like to have intimate relationships with the same sex, or you don't. I'm bi, although I have been married for 20 years and have 3 grown sons. My dominant preference is men but, I enjoy women too and might have been in a long term relationship with one if the right person had come along. Love doesn't have a gender preference -- people do. I hope this helps you understand even just a little.
Actually if you look at the last page at the very small corner you'll see the younger brother telling his nii-san about it so i think this will progress
Somehow i can't seem to agree on your way of thinking....
You can become a cat? Or do you believe that homosexuality is a choice? Having been bi since I can remember and also having been around more gay and lesbian people than hetero, I can assure you - it is no more a choice than being heterosexual. You can choose to embrace your sexuality or deny it, but you can't choose what makes your heart race and your dick hard (or pussy wet) any more than you can choose with whom you fall in love. Perhaps you've never experienced a desire for something that was prohibited by society and felt the anguish that comes with having to deny that desire. If you have, then you know that you did not choose your desire. Had you done so, you would have chosen to not know such anguish and would have not chosen your desire.
Perhaps it is my "preference" for men as a bi woman that you do not agree with - since your statement was so vague. I have had several relationships with women - very loving and passionate relationships - but I have always preferred men in the end. I can only assume that I have not met the "right" woman. Had I met her before getting married, I would likely be with her instead. When I say that I am bi, I mean that I have no gender prefrence for what I find sexually and romantically appealling or attractive. I also mean that I have both heterosexual and homosexual experience in relationships and sex.
I hope that clears up everything for you.
So we are left to wonder about the last pair. Seriously,both were always thinking about the same thing and so the story will goes on...they won't dare voice out their thoughts at all,ever.
I have been looking at guys recently and trying to figure out just how do one becomes gay. I want to try asking my uncles but they always look manly so how in the world did they ended up together??? So I think I put on hold about this for now and just keep on looking at them instead. Wonder when I'm gonna get a whack for this!