I am asexual and aromantic, so I can tell you you don't need to fall in love to know your sexual orientation...
I understood it when I realized I wasn't interested romantically in other people (rather, it was some kind of possessive friendship, probably due to my lack of friends - I had around 10 at that time), and I didn't want to have sex either...... 4 reply
I get really defensive about my heterosexuality when I was younger and was afraid to read yuri/shoujo ai back then because mostly I knew I wasn't that straight but I was deeply in denial. I used to have crushes on both girls and boys, the difference is I tell my friends about my guy crush but keep the secret about the girl I have a crush on. You d...... reply
I thought I was an M but when put into reality, it was more out of inexperience than my personality/preference.
Now I'm definitely an S. I love being in control and I love love love teasing people.
When I meet someone sweet I want to eat them up =w= reply
I don't actually really know what made me realise I was bi because at that point I hadn't had a female crush before (i'm a girl), but I think I just realised that a straight girl wasn't supposed to be turned on by another girl reply
Two words: Brandon Urie
all seriousness though I believe I realized when I saw a picture of a female reproductive organ and went "wow uhhhh no thanks" they seriously freak me out I'm not over exaggerating either. reply
I personally have never been in love with someone. I've had sex with people but not love. I suspected I was bi a long time ago but I didn't allow myself to contemplate it seriously because my family is extremely homophobic. When I eventually accepted it, I hadn't had sex with a female yet. I knew I was bi because I found women attractive. I could s...... reply
I think nii-chan fucked me up the most. I hate children being taken advantage of so it disturbed me greatly esp since well I'm not going spoil it but the cycle goes on. reply
