Penpals

As a cynical and fearful human, I wanted to ask don't you guys ever fear for your privacy after uploading your ID online for penpals? Also, do you have some positive experiences with it like meeting an online friend in real life and hitting it off? Because I am interested in this, being a human that doesn't have anyone to talk to about yaoi, but I also want to maintain privacy (to me, it's just scary revealing your name, age, and other information to strangers you haven't met or been introduced online to)

So I'm looking for people who be interested in chatting or starting a group on kik, mainly looking for people to chat with but we can roleplay (kind of like sotry telling but with two or more people) too if you want. My username is His_flower_boy, hit me up if you're interested and I'll get back to you! (●'◡'●)ﾉ