Fetishes And Kinks

I have never been in a relationship before so I have zero experience but of the many yaoi I've read, I at least think that the little things my boyfriend/girlfriend do that possibly will make my heart go UwU would be:
1. Them snuggling to me for warmth or them hugging me in the bed to make me feel warmer.
2. Them waking me up so I can eat the food they made for me. (I also like doing this towards my future partner since I'm more of the house husband type.)
3. Them letting me take a nap on their thigh while they stroke my hair/head while they are watching TV. (TV sounds in the background is oddly soothing when you want to try to sleep, at least for me it is.)

Personally, for some reason, I feel really "disgusted" by the idea of being in a relationship with my best friend/friend/classmate because, for some reason, it feels so "incestuous" for me. This is the reason why ever since I was born, not once did I ever had a crush towards my friend/friend/classmate.

When you have/had sex with your bf/ex, do you find it hot when you hear them moan?

I asked some of my girl-friends and they said that they do find it hot but their boyfriends hardly do it because they get embarrassed or something. When I also asked some of my guy friends, they say they usually don't do it because some said they get embarrassed or that they think their girlfriends may not like it.