No. This is coming from someone who has a kink for bdsm lol being ashamed of having a fetish or kink? Never. I'm sorry but if it's something that heightens your arousal then be honest about it. When finding a SO your sex life should be something you both are open with and something you feel comfortable in. Don't be (this applies to friendship as we...... reply
- leave your friend , my close friends know my fetishes and kinks and they don't actually say anything about it . It's totally not something you should be ashamed of. S&M is hot and many peeps love it so if you don't like it shut your trap and your shit don't go bitchin' around peeps that loves it , go bye bye , and die reply
I can totally relate to not cry and tolerate the pain when i'm getting hit. At one point, i even said what they're doing is abusive and they said it's not but suprisingly they stopped and i didn't get in trouble for that. We rarely got hit by something tbh, it's probably a good thing. 1 reply