sangwoo- DDJNA;FIVJ NO JK JK killing stalking is not an yaoi. for me personally it was this guy named kureshima from kajou mousou shounen, if you read it you'll get it.
┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ 3 reply
A SUMMARY
Alright....... i just wanted to thank everyone for all their opinions, it’s surprisingly diverse and the amount of interaction and discussion this post generated was so nice.
I feel like people tend to fall in these categories in regards to this topic:
1. Don’t care, use whatever titles you want, just don’t reduce real life peo...... 2 reply
I use both “bottom/top/switch“ and “seme/uke/seke” depending of the conversation, when it comes to fictional characters. But to be honest, I think ”bottom/top/switch” can be confusing because for example you can call a “uke” a “top” if he is the most dominant in bed. And personally it’s a dynamic I really like but I can’t po...... reply
This is coming from a bisexual woman- me. I really hate those terms. Just refer to them as MC (main character) or ML (male lead-main romantic interest). You can refer to them by their features (like brunette, short guy, tanned guy) or their profession.
I can't speak for men but i hate it when LGBTQ+ characters are reduced to their sexual position....... 1 reply
I have already gave my two cents on it many times so I'll keep it short and clarify that it's my own opinion, ok? First off, uke, seme and seke are Japanese exclusive terms so it's weird to use them when referring to manhwa/manhua characters.
Second point, if you're actually reading a story, knowing the characters' names should be a no-brainer. Ye...... 1 reply
I don't think it's necessarily wrong cause that's what they use for BL in Japan (I attended a comiket once, it's not just from internet) and tachi (top), neko (bottom) for rl LGBTQ+ relationships. Personally, I don't really care as long as it's all in fiction, please DONT call REAL life people with their sex positions. I normally use MC/ML or some ...... reply
There is no "wall" to speak of when many people's first introduction to mlm people is through yaoi/bl, including the majority of the people who read it. Half of y'all only ever even see mlm people in fictional media, and most of the rest of you have probably met only a few mlm people and are close with even less. Y'all can't "separate fiction and r...... 1 reply
This was very respectful, easy to read, and civilized so I applaud you for that. Sometimes I do call BL characters by those terms but I try to stick to traits or names even though I'm very bad remember names and faces. I feel like the best way to address them would be by a trait or a name. reply