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theres this guy i talk to on discord who lives in my city
and we've called a lot
hes super sweet and always asks if im sleeping well and what i'm doing
he also has similar interests to me which is fun
i think i might have a crush on him but idk if he likes me
my mom wont let me date anytime soon otherwise i would consider asking him
any ideas on what i should do??

Alright so I just saw someone ask about homosexuals watching straight porn is similar to heteros watching gay porn. So if one is classified as fetishizing then the other is too right? Now the replies were just either calling the question dumb or completely ignoring it. I get that question can sound dumb due to the way its worded but what if that person was genuinely confused and just wanted answer?

I'm not too caught up with this 'problem' yet so just correct me if I'm wrong or say something offensive.

To you people saying that yaoi fetishizes gay people umm

Isn't yaoi just gay porn? Like why aren't yall getting heated in the phub comment section of a gay sex video??

Before yall assume things:

-I'm bisexual
-I read romance in general not specifically bl
-I am a minor but I'm not a child

Again. I'm neutral about this topic. So if yaoi does sexualize gay people then tell me and explain how it's different from gay porn on phub or any other porn site.

This is my first time asking a question but I don't want to feel like I'm the only dumb bitch out there, so hit me with the dumbest comment you've ever done here (which you now cringe over).

Mine are related to being a fujoshi (LORD SAVE ME). I think it was bc I was exploring my sexuality so bl kinda stood out for me in a way straight relationships didn't (since I was small all I've ever seen was straights everywhere so homo-erotic fiction felt like a new world).

Now that I know I'm a biromantic ace I realized I enjoyed reading gay fiction bc it's so removed from myself that I don't find it disgusting like I would do if a female character I can relate to was the one having relations (sorry my brain kinda malfunctions so if this seems impossible to understand to someone or is offensive in some way, I can only apologize).

Anyway the way I spoke when I was younger is straight up cringe so I can't help but be embarrassed of my old self (っ˘╭╮˘)っ if you find topics I initiated from before 2018/19 then go the other way pls, I don't want to be reminded they exist

This question got a lot of courage for me to write so if you got angry by something I said pls point it out nicely or else I'm going to literally go into seclusion (〒﹏〒)