I personally argue a lot with anti-fujos, simply due to most of them being uneducated on BL terminology and history and most of them disguising their homophobia as "saving us from fetishisation" when in reality they're just erasing our representation. Obviously calling out fetishisation should be more common, as there is quite a lot of it, and I ge...... reply
WARNING: This might make you mad. Sorry in advance
I understand if you like BL, but it gets kind of annoying when that is all people ever talk about. When you (referring to fujoshis) limit your selection to only BL, because the characters are mlm, I think that's where people start to have a problem and tbh I kind of understand what they are thinkin...... reply
I've been reading yaoi since 10 years ago. I'm 23 y/o now. I understand why people on this platform would generalize the fujoshis because, in my 10 years of being a fujoshi, among the people I met, only a handful of people are the civilized and cultured type of fujoshi. Most of the others that I met are of the younger generation and needless to say...... 1 reply
From what I’ve seen and experienced I find fujoshis’ a little bit disturbing( HEAR ME OUT). I think there is a difference between people who enjoy/don’t mind reading yaoi and people who obsess over it(fujos). One of my friends was a fujoshi, I later had to cut ties with her because she was objectifying men, shipping male classmates, made boys...... 1 reply
In certain cases it could be a preference (for example: I prefer tan skin instead of pale skin, brown or black eyes instead of green or blue ones, but this is regardless of race, etc), but in other cases they might just find attractive someone because they're from that specific race liking the physical characteristics of the race. In this last case...... reply