All questions about fave shonen ai mangas

I have seen an abundant and gurl... lemme tell you ABUNDANT amount of glorification of rape in yaois which is problematic. I don't know how but I saw people praising said characters doing this like 'its hot, omg hes so hot AAA' and I wanna know how you guys find..

forceful, or no consent sex aka rape.. hot?
and honestly I can go on and list yaois i've seen here that seemed to include rape in their stories brushed it off like it was a part of their life.

except for Sign's main character jesus christ protect those kinky bastards.

it could be manga, anime, opinions idc

I saw a similar question who doesn't celebrate halloween, but now I'm wondering do some people even celebrate any holidays?

Disclaimer: Yaoi and Shonen ai are really two different things... DO NOT MIX THE TWO, OKAY?
MY FOLLOW UP QUESTION AFTER THE INFAMOUS top 3 Yaoi manga/s...

If you ask me well... I think my current top 5 shonen ai's are:
not in particular order...

1. What lies in the end/ at the of the road
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/geu_kkeute_issneun_geos/
2. Seven days
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/seven_days/
3. Silver diamond
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/silver_diamond/
4. Koori No Mamono No Monogatari
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koori_no_mamono_no_monogatari/
5. Number call
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/number_call/

This are the perfect stories to those looking for the twist from the psychological ones

NOw, I wanna know what are yours...