OMG, same. I barely ever find anyone who reads yaoi for the plot. I also agree with all your points, but I believe there's more problems than that.
Yaoi literally perpetuates unhealthy relationships. I see so much yaoi where the possessive seme doesn't let the uke talk to others and "punishes" them when they do. It's so gross. Most relationship d...... reply
The way the uke is super feminine then the 'straight' seme miraculously falls in love with him and how, while he's raping the uke he compares his body to that of a girl's.
"His waist is small like a girl." "Your nipples are so pink and big like a girl'a.", "your skin is soft and smooth, just like a girl.", " you moan like a girl." "You've got a p...... 2 reply
Op! Thank you!!(๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧ I agree with all of the points you've raised. BL really has got some shitty problems when it comes to dealing with issues like rape and mental health!!!
What I hate in BL manga. I hate it if they have sex without any character development. I think the best BL manga show the characters' personalities!
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chile I can't say i haven't tried but it's not a turn on I can pretty much masturbate to anything except porn/yaoi/yuri bc that shit is lowkey scary and I want to stay a virgin forever
also yes uhm it would be fetishization if I fr masturbated to yaoi and that is *disgusting* 1 reply
I hate it when a guy is straight but then he just gets “turned gay” or is gay for that “special guy”. Thats just not how it works.... and its blatantly homophobic since it implies that the author would rather see a straight man in a relationship with a man than something actually gay. I also hate the nelodrama a lot of yaoi suffers from. A ...... 2 reply
Ive had friends say they masturbate reading to gay fanfiction which surprised me when they told me. As someone with fetishes ive just never had a reason to masturbate to normal porn but i guess it makes sense that other people do it to yaoi since it basically just erotica. I wouldnt say that if you get off to yaoi youre inherently fetishizing gay m...... 1 reply
No I've never Touched my self Reading Yaoi, Ofc I get flustered or Embarrassed but never Horny plus im a Women loving Women so Yeah
For the Girls Saying yes, bc it's "sexy" or a Fetish of yours, just know That's FETISHING gay people and I hope your gay/lgbtq friends know you Fetishize them bc I would love to know where that Friendship goes :) reply
Depends on the person.
I personally don't...I appreciate the H-scenes (i think yaoi ones generally are of a higher quality to other h scenes [e.g. hentai, yuri, josei, smut] and have a greater variety), but mainly think 'ah damn u two are such a lucky couple!!!' Actually I'm more likely to feel jealous, especially if they are a loving couple. I do ...... reply
I just punch the one above my pp. It just works for me idk y. Ive been doing it for 5 years now. Every. Single. Day. Until now.
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