Stop degrading yourself. There's nothing wrong with you. There's a lot of people on this planet and if the people around you are too blind to notice you, just remember your soul mate is still out there probably trying to find you as well. It's not weird at all and you are as normal as it gets. Not everyone turns around and gets a relationship, no ...... reply
Hi
I'm 20 years old female and feel exactly like you. Like really the same on all the points you mentionned. I also struggled about it during my high school years, and now college days. I realised this summer I may be Aromantic.
It means " a lack of/little of romantic attraction" ( to put it simply)
I suggest you do some research on it, and try to...... 2 reply
save that time and energy for yourself, since you're the one constant in your life, lol. i wouldn't waste my time and emotional energy interacting with people i really didn't need to. it's okay to be callous there. you're not obligated to give dudes the time of day. and while you should try things out if you want to put yourself out there, if you'r...... 1 reply
Ok, it depends on how define boyfriend and what you expect from a relationship.
Like, I thought that I was in relationships before your age, but I wouldn't call them that way any more, because I liked those guys way more than they liked me, because we never had a level of trust where I could be sure that something I said or did would stay between u...... reply
Try to push your boundaries a little. Be clear that you are not interested right now but maybe just pick someone who accepts that and hang out a little. It doesn't have to be much.
It's OK to not be interested in anyone, and you shouldn't force yourself, but you also shouldn't avoid people because you are afraid. It will be worse if you are in a s...... 1 reply
I agree with what's said here about gaining and not losing.
If it helps anyone, I can only tell my story (of a straight female) :
I decided to put an end to this eternal question when I was 19. I had had some crushes before, but it never was a full grown relationship based on enough mutual trust and respect, that I'd be sure he wouldn't tell it ar...... reply
I dont think its that weird, 6 months and im on the same boat as you are right now. Since no one knows me personally in reality here, i'd say, its kinda my fault because im not socially active, im afraid of crowds/people/society, i have a high defense mechanism against anyone trying to get close to me lol but then im weirdly loyal, what imean...... reply
I'm 24 and I've never kissed anyone, never been in a relationship but I don't think Im weird at all. if I have to be in a relationship right now I think I'm gonna puke hehe maybe because I love having the single life.
Well I hope in the future we will both find someone who sweep us off our feet (▰˘◡˘▰) reply
I people watch like crazy. Honestly, I think most people do to some extent. Natural human curiosity! I mean, as long as you're not ogling or staring them there's no harm. People are interesting. It doesn't matter how old, boy, girl, good-looking, super-ugly- everyone has their own story and experiences that color their every decision, movement...... reply
I am a people watcher! I would sit some where in a cafe and just observe people as I take a break from studying.
Girl watching; I live in a very rich area, so all the girls have their contours done, eye brows drawn, highlights flashing with huge fake lashes, and now and then I see some with fake lips...most of them look like the Arab Kardashians....... reply
