I've mellowed out a lot over time. Nowadays I'm of the "don't like don't read" opinion. I don't gravitate towards stories that romanticize rape, but I'm not going to condemn those that do. reply
i’d tell them to socialise and touch some grass
On a serious note, if people are actively surrounding themselves with media that perpetuates the narrative that r@pe is acceptable, that is obviously going to affect their own perception of r@pe and sexual experiences, and gradually lead them into some typa pipeline to something even worse. Like i...... 1 reply
Hi! I’m a PhD student with a focus media and sexuality studies, specifically BL. Long story short yes, I 100% believe it is fine. In fact, these sort of fantasies can even be healthy, when they remain within the realm of fantasy. I’ll be leaving links to academic sources about this below. This goes with other kinds of illegal things—murder, c...... 2 reply
Even if its fictional, its still not okay and infact can be incredibely damaging due to the intrusive thoughts or way of thinking that can occur from such consuming such media. This goes for fictional incest and pedophilia too.
If you were a victim and your still rather young consuming such media, whether you like it or not, it does warp you and t...... 2 reply
Maybe it's a coping mechanism?
I was molested as a child and now as an adult I'm only attracted to people who are 15+ years older than me and i like the grooming style/approach 3 reply
Formals are weird. Like I think they’d be better if it was more relaxed and you could dress up if you wanted. Like I wasn’t allowed to wear my docs & had to wear a fancy dress which was not my vibe at all. In retrospect I never enjoyed formals. I went to my first prom as a freshman and it sucked. Literally danced with this dude who was grinding...... 2 reply
Yeah no we don't do proms or any celebrations like that in my country. Here you get your diploma , throw ur cap and get the fuck out of there as fast as possible reply
we have the exact same dances except the sadie hawkings. But, a tradition that's done before homecoming is that the girls in my school would wear something that's called a 'mum', sounds funny, but it's called that bc the flower in the center is a chrysanthemum. And, guys would wear garters. I think couples typically buy each other's garter/mums but...... 1 reply
