I have a lot of bad memories with him but the one that stuck with me is the most ridiculous of all LMFAOO, for one straight month when bro was jobless he would BLAST his ai generated songs at midnight and I could not get a fucking cent of sleep, I actually genuinely started going insane from sleep deprivation. years of hatred accumulated into one s...... 1 reply
Abandoning us when we needed him the most, just for him to come back and act like he didn't abandoned us. Abandoning us again because he refuse to acknowledge that my mother is pregnant with my sibling and that my sibling in my mother's womb is his, just for him to come back again and act like a “father” to my unborn sibling like he didn't told...... reply
There's a saying: 'How can you hurt me when my own father was my first heartbreak'
I'm completely anonymous here, where nobody knows me and I don't know anyone either. Yet I'm still not comfortable sharing my story. That's how traumatized I am by everything I've been through and it's still happening again and again and again and again.... 1 reply
Physically and emotionally abused my mom and started to do it to me bc I wouldn’t let him control me, he was an addict and was still friends with his friend that raped me. He’s a dirty fucking hypocrite and only cares about himself. Luckily I moved out and don’t have to see him anymore reply
Barely present, narcissistic, serial cheater, apparently tried to physical abuse me as a child but ma put that stop to that the moment he dared and overall...just wasn't meant to be a father atleast until he gets therapy for his own issues ig reply
after all the shit my male parent pulled [literally disgusted to call him my father...], I'm just not in any mood or place of mind to have romantic relations with ppl at all cause my ma wasn't that good either lol [no hopes of being bi]- I also have some of his bad qualities unfortunately so I kinda just don't want to put any potential partner thro...... reply
Nah, I got one too. My dad has way too loose of mouth (or brain) to say the least, that I never trusted him with anything that is important for me. He is unreliable, so I keep things to myself. Including the my dating life. (He's homophobic too obviously)
The impact? It's hard for me to let my guard down, and I became a hesitant and doubtful perso...... reply